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So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...

 
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Hey man! She's both 22 and 23...alright! Jebus! Maybe she's 22+23 = 45 and is worried about menopause...
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lol i didnt mean that. i just had a birthday so i just meant i was 22 and then turned 23
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That is so cool OP! I also turned 23 after I was 22!!! Wow! We have a lot in common!
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Say what? You're 21 and you both sleep in separate rooms in the same building and garage?
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well im 22 just turned 23...
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I cannot compute..must kill myself...
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Patience! ...It's just a year. Maybe he'll massage your tits with fancy oils later. eyebat
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maybe this gift is a clue to you that something is not right in the relationship.

Test this out and don't waste more time with him if he is not going to deepen things in the future if that is what you desire. Don't be a woman of convenience.

I was in love with a man for 4 1/2 years and he viewed the relationship as great but just convenient really because he did NOT truly love me. He denied this a few times because he knew I would break it off and he didn't have many prospects for a new girlfriend. I knew deep down the love was one sided but didn't want to accept it and went into denial.

Essentially, he was happy to not be alone and I was good enough to pass the time. He used me and I finally put an end to it. Don't waste almost 5 years of your life with a man like that. Find out how deep his feelings for you are now. A year is enough time to really find out. By then the excitement of a new love has worn off. If he would jump ship if Miss younger and sexier than you came by and gave him the time of day, he doesn't love you; just using you.
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blah this threads turned to shit because i made a stupid grammar error and people didnt read the whole thread.
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maybe this gift is a clue to you that something is not right in the relationship.

Test this out and don't waste more time with him if he is not going to deepen things in the future if that is what you desire. Don't be a woman of convenience.

I was in love with a man for 4 1/2 years and he viewed the relationship as great but just convenient really because he did NOT truly love me. He denied this a few times because he knew I would break it off and he didn't have many prospects for a new girlfriend. I knew deep down the love was one sided but didn't want to accept it and went into denial.

Essentially, he was happy to not be alone and I was good enough to pass the time. He used me and I finally put an end to it. Don't waste almost 5 years of your life with a man like that. Find out how deep his feelings for you are now. A year is enough time to really find out. By then the excitement of a new love has worn off. If he would jump ship if Miss younger and sexier than you came by and gave him the time of day, he doesn't love you; just using you.
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thanks for your insighthf

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I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people

...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate.

What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
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It´s a good present. And I´m a girl.
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blah this threads turned to shit because i made a stupid grammar error and people didnt read the whole thread.
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Nobody reads the whole thread when it's this long. It's time to start posting smilies. peace
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blah this threads turned to shit because i made a stupid grammar error and people didnt read the whole thread.
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Here here...now now OP...you're fine. A little fun now and then is good. Your just getting a little ribbing.
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
Sorry op, but this whole thread is weird. All I can picture is some emotionally damaged guy surfing porn alone in his bedroom while you sit in the far-away garage lonely and playing him some music he doesn't care about on the keyboard you mentioned, all the meanwhile the blanket sits all by itself somewhere in between. The picture that has been painted is so far from normal and it is why you are getting the responses you are. Best bet is to stop responding and work on the relationship, you aren't going to get anything more to help you here.
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
The only thing more intimate than a comforter would have been lingerie.

I think it's a sweet gift.
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I usually buy knee pads and a chapstick.

After one year...
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lol
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A comforter is a shit gift. He grabbed the nearest thing to him at the 7-11 and that is it...

ohyeah
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Sorry op, but this whole thread is weird. All I can picture is some emotionally damaged guy surfing porn alone in his bedroom while you sit in the far-away garage lonely and playing him some music he doesn't care about on the keyboard you mentioned, all the meanwhile the blanket sits all by itself somewhere in between. The picture that has been painted is so far from normal and it is why you are getting the responses you are. Best bet is to stop responding and work on the relationship, you aren't going to get anything more to help you here.
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i dont want diamonds, i want love. ive recently truly found it in myself for the first time in my life and id like to share it with someone else who can reciprocate just as well. its all about balance imo hf
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The only thing more intimate than a comforter would have been lingerie.

I think it's a sweet gift.
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intimacy= into me see hf

thanks for ur post <3
id have a different perspective if the relationship in itself wasn't the actual issue

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Stop being an entitled bitch and be grateful that you got a gift. In my opinion, he should dump your ass. How about you tell us the kind of gifts you get him for his birthday.
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He's a dude. You're lucky he remembered your birthday at all. He probably had no effing clue what you might find "acceptable" as a birthday gift and did his best with the time and money he had.

But you should totally seek approval for your distaste in his gift choice on an Internet forum full of fucking crazy people. Really.
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Stop being an entitled bitch and be grateful that you got a gift. In my opinion, he should dump your ass. How about you tell us the kind of gifts you get him for his birthday.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19228437


his birthdays next month around our anniversary and ill be getting him several things for his birthday. ill probably spend around 200 dollars, HOWEVER people arent getting that i could care less about dollar value. i wanted something personal and special...it just made me feel very generic.
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You're boyfriend should read this post.

I think that will solve everything.
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END THE THREAD FOLKS, this guy has it dead on
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cool2
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He's a dude. You're lucky he remembered your birthday at all. He probably had no effing clue what you might find "acceptable" as a birthday gift and did his best with the time and money he had.

But you should totally seek approval for your distaste in his gift choice on an Internet forum full of fucking crazy people. Really.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1464956


lol.

this thread needs a summary bad

unfortunately its just turning into a bunch of nit picky bullshit to where i dont think it even warrants a summary.

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thanks for the red karma from the dumbasses that wouldnt even take the time to skim through the thread.
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
Ribbed condoms and a french tickler is more like a normal year birthday present.
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Pack of smokes for post coital activities.
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
After one year with my gf I bought her a white gold heart necklace.

Every guy is different. But for real what's with these women wanting materialistic things to show them that they are cared about and loved? How about the fact that he's with you? I mean seriously women these days are just crazy and selfish. Care about nothing but being pleased.
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This is so typical of life in general...one expresses their true feelings and everyone else has to turn it into something so ugly! "SIGH"

Fortunately for you OP there are a few who did give words of wisdom, I would only take those into consideration!
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
I think that having expectations of gifts is kind've low, especially if you actually "love him."
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My dad on their 25th wedding annivesary bought my mom an iron. Yes an iron she was so disappointed, he could have at least bought her the ironing board too. When asked about this he said he was saving it for her birthday. They are now divorced.
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Re: So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating...
I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people

...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate.

What do you guys think about this? I'm curious
 Quoting: luckyophelia


OP...he's a practical guy. And I know how you feel. Girls expect to have fun girly things. But I say enjoy him and the thought anyway. I had an x give me a down comforter 35 years ago...I still have it even though he's long gone. The important thing is...you have love in a partner who remembered you on "your day" and it's better than spending your birthday alone at work and no one remembers. You tend to take those things for granted sometimes. You're a lucky girl.

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