Maybe you need to be more open about your wants - let him know in a nice way about things you like or would appreciate I've noticed that the real "witches" seem to be so direct and demanding, and I think men actually appreciate knowing what is expected of them...
But who am I to give advice. I got a - flashlight, yes a flashlight - on a second year of dating birthday. Needleess to say I jettisoned him quickly after that.
If he treats you well, and you are basically happy, give it another year, and practice the more direct approach to your needs. You are both very young.