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So my Boyfriend Got me a Comforter for my Birthday After 1 Year of Dating... | |
| impetigo User ID: 7446418  United States10/25/2012 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you were a guy, I would say OK, but you aren't. He bought it on his lunch hour, he's NOT, that in to you, if he were, he would have SEARCHED High and Low for the perfect gift to Please YOU, It's not about $ It's about your Heart. When you shack with a guy, this is what you get. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1595910 United States10/25/2012 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Daersoulkeeper  User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok so let me get this straight wow holy shit his fake mother got pregnant from her fake son and had 4 children, hes slightly autistic yet he had the brains enough to buy you something comfortable for you to lay your head on at night and you make this post? LOLOLOLOLOLOL! please do him a favor and leave him, this is not a natural relationship, for him or for you the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24643310  Czechia10/25/2012 02:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i wanna thank glp for helping me process this. i couldn't quite figure out exactly what i was feeling, and all you guys have been helping me with that. i appreciate all of your opinions because they really made me think Quoting: luckyophelia  So you're gonna clean your sheets more often than? lol i didnt see those posts i do my laundry on a regular basis just like every other person and i dont cheat and i havent slept with anyone else in that bed or old comforter or sheets besides him so the trolls can back off Fair enough ;) Usually women aren't really clear in what they want so give a few hints every once in a while. good luck |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, it's not about the cost of a gift but the sentiment! Quoting: impetigo 7446418 if you were a guy, I would say OK, but you aren't. He bought it on his lunch hour, he's NOT, that in to you, if he were, he would have SEARCHED High and Low for the perfect gift to Please YOU, It's not about $ It's about your Heart. When you shack with a guy, this is what you get. thanks for your insight |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Last Edited by Daersoulkeeper on 10/25/2012 02:21 PM the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26286510  Belgium10/25/2012 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Kirk User ID: 25384388 United States10/25/2012 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ya know OP I would not think twice about the gift...I think it was fine. Hell last year for my birthday I got handed 150.00 dollars. He was like here ya go...no happy birthday nothing...I was upset by that. I would have prefered the comforter you got. I need a new one actually lol I think it's just different guys ways of giving gifts. I would be thankful he even took the time out to look for a gift for you. He could of took the lazy way out and just gave ya the money I don't know I didn't read the whole thread but just my 2 cents... Quoting: ~Angels~ maybe he didn't want to buy you a necktie. In other words he didn't know what to give you. Maybe not lazy. He worked a lot of hours for that $150 after taxes. You ladies want romance and if you don't teach your man how does he learn? Boys dream of cars and rifles and such. You don't. The solution is to communicate and perceive where the other person is. Isn't easy. That's why cads find it so easy to sweep girls off their feet. A friend of mine was a hairdresser and heard the girls talk among themselves. He was such a romantic player. A real asshole too. Left them crying. Government is a body largely ungoverned. |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ok so let me get this straight Quoting: Daersoulkeeper wow holy shit his fake mother got pregnant from her fake son and had 4 children, hes slightly autistic yet he had the brains enough to buy you something comfortable for you to lay your head on at night and you make this post? LOLOLOLOLOLOL! please do him a favor and leave him, this is not a natural relationship, for him or for you no, theres no fake anything, i dont know where youre getting this from. he has a family, his mother was not a surrogate. he has an ex who wa also not a surrogate |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25989455 United States10/25/2012 02:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not trying to be selfish and I really don't want to come across that way so if this is just irrational thinking then please let me know people Quoting: luckyophelia ...I just really was expecting something a little more sentimental after a year. I'm glad he thought of the gesture and tha he took the time off his lunch break the day before to go get it for me, and I really love him, i just thought I'd get something a little more personal and intimate. What do you guys think about this? I'm curious Two things: We generally suck at gift giving, but we mean well. You are focusing way too much energy on the gift rather than the thought behind it. Too much materialism in the world as it is. Accept the gift, smile, and stop complaining. |
| eve incognito User ID: 26264034  Bosnia and Herzegovina10/25/2012 02:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1595910 well now you're talking. wise cracking aside, is the boy like.. i dunno, a bit.. autistic? (for lack of a better word, this is not the word i am looking for) i mean.. it IS a very practical gift. is he creative? does he wax all poetically when he dotes on about you? i am assuming his dating history consists of you, and his ex, if he was a virgin for 9 months after you met. what i am getting at is like.. he may not be a very thoughtful or romantic person, in which case you can't really expect a thoughtful or romantic gift, and just because movies an shit play up that kinda romance, in all reality, if it comes down to a bad or serious situation, one may be better off with someone who is practical and logical minded. I don't think he's autistic. He says he's ADD though. He grew up in a very religious household. He dated a woman in her 40s for about 9 years before meeting me. He doesn't really watch movies either so I do have different ideas on certain things. honestly and truly though, i was just expecting something a little more romantic, or at least the card to say something romantic, i dunno... again, autistic is not what i meant.. let me rephrase that.. emotionally retarded. let me rephrase that again.. not in tune with that lovey dovey poetic part of the human psyche. being romantic is like being tall, it's really hard to fake it if you were not born that way. I disagree... and excuse the way I phrase this. A woman that gets bent over the table and has her hair pulled while getting pounded from behind, dreams of being with somebody more romantic. A woman showered with wine, flowers and romance dreams of being bent over the table , having her hair pulled while getting pounded from behind. Women want what women don't have, and don't want what they do have.  and you think a man cannot be both romantic and amazing in bed, (over the table)? aw so you never meat my husband? |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thank you ive been in therapy 2 years now and still working on the healing part of things. he wasn't with a surrogate mother and didn't have one but the woman did hide the fact that she had 4 kids from him for 9 years, which just made me really freakin angry, not at him, for him. i agree, commnunication is the issue here. thanks <3 right there the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| impetigo User ID: 7446418 United States10/25/2012 02:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 3694399 United States10/25/2012 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | he buys crappy gifts AND he won't sleep with you in the same bed, AND he keeps you as a secret from his family. Quoting: eve incognito 26264034 aw girlfriend, the blanket is the least of your problems. dump his ass.oy. you know having read about your bf's other behaviour the blanket seems like the most romantic aspect of his character, i'm sorry but that one is not a keeper. This What kind of weird shit is that? He is an adult who lives on his own and cant tell his parents about you? And he makes you sleep alone in the garage? And buys you a comforter so you can stay warm out there in the garage? Think about the situation you are in from the outside, you need to find a new man. |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | he buys crappy gifts AND he won't sleep with you in the same bed, AND he keeps you as a secret from his family. Quoting: eve incognito 26264034 aw girlfriend, the blanket is the least of your problems. dump his ass.oy. you know having read about your bf's other behaviour the blanket seems like the most romantic aspect of his character, i'm sorry but that one is not a keeper. This What kind of weird shit is that? He is an adult who lives on his own and cant tell his parents about you? And he makes you sleep alone in the garage? And buys you a comforter so you can stay warm out there in the garage? Think about the situation you are in from the outside, you need to find a new man. you do make an interesting point. |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you dont know our relationship so quit acting like you do please. someone saying i love you everyday can become redundant and then it feels after a while like its not even true. now pleae quit trolling my post Quoting: luckyophelia TRUTH is not TROLL put my whole post in quotes, i explained the redundant thing because thats a womans cursed mind, "now your complaining about hearing i love you everyday? this is the EXACT reason i REFUSE to say i love you often to my girlfriend, i know how your fucking minds work. i only say it when i genuinely mean it and only so often, and i almost NEVER say it back when she says it because it creates a HABIT, which she will find oh so not very special, just like you admitted. and of course you paraphrase it with (yes those words are special blah blah blah) clearly not. " I didn't see that part of your post. Sorry. I'm glad you have a healthy relationship you bet your ass i do. first birthday i got her something small (dont even remember what it was) to see if she would be like you, when she was loving and grateful for the small, i knew her heart was exactly as i thought it to be. 2cd birthday i got her a completely unique hand crafted pearl bracelet, and for christmas, completely genuine one of a kind hand crafted freshwater pearl necklace. understanding a womans mind is key to the battleground, dont be with a woman that plays games be yourself if its unnatural and being yourself to each other doesnt work fuck it alpha dog out the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| Kirk User ID: 25384388 United States10/25/2012 02:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25989455 United States10/25/2012 02:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | he buys crappy gifts AND he won't sleep with you in the same bed, AND he keeps you as a secret from his family. Quoting: eve incognito 26264034 aw girlfriend, the blanket is the least of your problems. dump his ass.oy. you know having read about your bf's other behaviour the blanket seems like the most romantic aspect of his character, i'm sorry but that one is not a keeper. This What kind of weird shit is that? He is an adult who lives on his own and cant tell his parents about you? And he makes you sleep alone in the garage? And buys you a comforter so you can stay warm out there in the garage? Think about the situation you are in from the outside, you need to find a new man. Yeah, that's what I get for skipping 5 pages. This person is right. Leave. |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | he buys crappy gifts AND he won't sleep with you in the same bed, AND he keeps you as a secret from his family. Quoting: eve incognito 26264034 aw girlfriend, the blanket is the least of your problems. dump his ass.oy. you know having read about your bf's other behaviour the blanket seems like the most romantic aspect of his character, i'm sorry but that one is not a keeper. This What kind of weird shit is that? He is an adult who lives on his own and cant tell his parents about you? And he makes you sleep alone in the garage? And buys you a comforter so you can stay warm out there in the garage? Think about the situation you are in from the outside, you need to find a new man. you do make an interesting point. thats not an interesting point THATS A 800 MEGATON NUCLEAR FUCKING BOMB wow i didnt know that...im sorry OP, find a new man. thats messed up. is this true? he makes you sleep in the garage? wtf run!!!!  Last Edited by Daersoulkeeper on 10/25/2012 02:27 PM the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26282656 United States10/25/2012 02:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Marax User ID: 25975775 United States10/25/2012 02:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you have a job OP? Gun control is like trying to reduce drunk driving by making it tougher for sober people to own cars. I'd like to go quietly in my sleep, like grandpa did. Not screaming in terror like the people in the back seat of the car he was driving. |
| AnathemaTNO User ID: 18147200 United States10/25/2012 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | he buys crappy gifts AND he won't sleep with you in the same bed, AND he keeps you as a secret from his family. Quoting: eve incognito 26264034 aw girlfriend, the blanket is the least of your problems. dump his ass.oy. you know having read about your bf's other behaviour the blanket seems like the most romantic aspect of his character, i'm sorry but that one is not a keeper. This What kind of weird shit is that? He is an adult who lives on his own and cant tell his parents about you? And he makes you sleep alone in the garage? And buys you a comforter so you can stay warm out there in the garage? Think about the situation you are in from the outside, you need to find a new man. you do make an interesting point. thats not an interesting point THATS A 800 MEGATON NUCLEAR FUCKING BOMB wow i didnt know that...im sorry OP, find a new man. thats messed up. is this true? he makes you sleep in the garage? wtf run!!!! yes its true. its a converted half garage i made it look nice though. but it is strange, and its getting a little hard to take is all |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3694399 This What kind of weird shit is that? He is an adult who lives on his own and cant tell his parents about you? And he makes you sleep alone in the garage? And buys you a comforter so you can stay warm out there in the garage? Think about the situation you are in from the outside, you need to find a new man. you do make an interesting point. thats not an interesting point THATS A 800 MEGATON NUCLEAR FUCKING BOMB wow i didnt know that...im sorry OP, find a new man. thats messed up. is this true? he makes you sleep in the garage? wtf run!!!! yes its true. its a converted half garage i made it look nice though. but it is strange, and its getting a little hard to take is all OMG OMG OMG OMG RUUUUUUUNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seriously WTF, LIKE RIGHT NOW, START RUNNING! the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | make us all proud OP, text him right now its over, and GTFO of there, live on GLP the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
| luckyophelia (OP) User ID: 18046556 United States10/25/2012 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thats not an interesting point THATS A 800 MEGATON NUCLEAR FUCKING BOMB wow i didnt know that...im sorry OP, find a new man. thats messed up. is this true? he makes you sleep in the garage? wtf run!!!! yes its true. its a converted half garage i made it look nice though. but it is strange, and its getting a little hard to take is all OMG OMG OMG OMG RUUUUUUUNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seriously WTF, LIKE RIGHT NOW, START RUNNING! are you being serious or facetious? sorry, hard to tell the difference through typed responses |
| Daersoulkeeper User ID: 1159767 United States10/25/2012 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | im dead serious the real reason most people on this planet are the most ignorant gullible people that have ever lived is a little thing called the TELL-LIE-VISION television when you watch it, you put the I(you) in television and you get tel(i)evision tell lie vision |
