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I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...

 
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I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Why?
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Are you male or female?

Either way, the more you look, the more out of reach it will become.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
because people in our modern society are highly individualized. only a few decades ago people belonged to a collective, "the church" (whether protestant or catholic) and society was more of a customary thing: people were compatible. like the Amish or secluded Mormon communities. 100 years ago and more the effect was more pronounced. everybody went to church, everybody was involved in the community, society relied on culture custom. it does no longer, and so we are more individualized, and are not compatible as we suppose ourselves to be.

the effect is most pronounced in primitive tribes where the only thing that really makes a difference is socioeconomic status, otherwise a woman is a woman. unless she's fat. but you could not partake of such societies because you would feel like you were losing your "soul". indeed you would be, that is what those types of society demand.

and, you would notice, that is what christianity demands as well. it is a modern adaptation of the system of tribal bonds and systems of mores and taboos, which although they actually chained a man down worse than christianity and modern man is comparatively free as he has ever been, christianity demands your soul as well.

does that answer your question, or would you rather sit in the dark and watch a youtube video about it?
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
because people in our modern society are highly individualized. only a few decades ago people belonged to a collective, "the church" (whether protestant or catholic) and society was more of a customary thing: people were compatible. like the Amish or secluded Mormon communities. 100 years ago and more the effect was more pronounced. everybody went to church, everybody was involved in the community, society relied on culture custom. it does no longer, and so we are more individualized, and are not compatible as we suppose ourselves to be.

the effect is most pronounced in primitive tribes where the only thing that really makes a difference is socioeconomic status, otherwise a woman is a woman. unless she's fat. but you could not partake of such societies because you would feel like you were losing your "soul". indeed you would be, that is what those types of society demand.

and, you would notice, that is what christianity demands as well. it is a modern adaptation of the system of tribal bonds and systems of mores and taboos, which although they actually chained a man down worse than christianity and modern man is comparatively free as he has ever been, christianity demands your soul as well.

does that answer your question, or would you rather sit in the dark and watch a youtube video about it?
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that was pretty good!
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Could be many reasons:
*maybe you just arent that great of a person.

*maybe you have set your standards too high. Face it, if you are ugly, uneducated, not in shape, or perhaps you dont earn a good living, you arent going to find a quality woman. Women are naturally programmed to be attracted to alpha males, who are in shape and men who can provide them with a great life.
You might need to find a woman who has to lower her standards.

*Perhaps you are spending too much time on silly message boards and not out in the real world. Become active. Go to church. Spend your free time in places where there are women.

*You could try the desperate approach that actually works. Simply ask every woman you meet out, if you ask 1000 women out, a couple of them are bound to say yes. The law of averages.

*Do the really desperate thing and post online personals. Go to a free site like Plentyofish.com. I have a dorky friend that uses that site. He goes on dates every week with desperate women, and some of them arent completely fat and ugly.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
"50% aren't happy."


Try fucking miserable, wishing for death, no hope for change.

I would walk away right now if I could, with nothing. But I can't. She won't let me go.


Cherish your freedom.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
just practice safe sex whenever you can
never get aids from your left or right hand
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Marriage isn't a picnic. There are ups and downs, remember
the vow, in sickeness and in health.

Have you tried E-Harmony or a faith based type of dating
service?
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just practice safe sex whenever you can
never get aids from your left or right hand
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And when you are done it will make you a sandwich.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Stop looking for something that is meant to find you.
rhombus will set you free...

some try to tell me thoughts they cannot defend. just what you want to be, you will be in the end!

if you can't face the truth it's probably raping you from behind.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
No such thing really.
People want to believe there is and they truly do believe it when they meet the person that makes them so happy.But as in all other relationships that feeling wears off in time.I am sure every one thats with someone now and happy will be here to say I am wrong.There wouldnt be divorces if people married and it was their soul mate as they think at the time.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Why?
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Why do you think?

Romantic love is an illusion and based off of control. Unconditional LOVE is the only thing that is real.

Until you can truly connect into UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, and LOVE people for who they are and NOT WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE, you will forever be bashing your skull in trying to find the perfect mate.

Once you connect into the TRUTH, finding a life-long mate no longer becomes an issue.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Ups and downs,
Don't fall for that line.
There hasn't been an up in my marriage for ten years.

Not one single thing has happened that wouldn't have been better alone.
Marriage is for raising more churchgoers.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
There is no such thing as a soul mate. You're supposed to be able to get along with most people, not just one other person.

Why is anyone looking for their happiness in another person? They should be a happy on their own before adding someone else to their life. This is the mistake that those 50% of married people didn't realize: marriage wont fix anything that's not already OK. Relationships which are treated as a status symbol are unhealthy.

People are not supposed to "get" married as if they're gaining something. They're supposed to give love without expectation of getting it back. When someone does give it back then that's a good relationship full of real love.

I think serial monogamy is to blame for most of people's problems in relationships. It removes competition in that, out of fear, sexual exclusivity is expected instead of freely given.

For those who believe in mutual exclusivity (serial monogamy), I say "fear is the furthest thing from love, competition is healthy and monogamy is almost unheard of in nature."

Stop letting your friends and TV tell you what a relationship is, and think for yourself what works for you to keep love alive in yourself and maybe add love to someone else's life. So that they then do the same for you and the circle is complete. Why would you want anything less?
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
You gotta have a soul to find a mate for it!






tounge


Just playin'...

Man I know it's sad to be alone and it's hard to find someone, but you gotta put yourself out there and don't stop trying!

G'luck!
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Stop looking for something that is meant to find you.
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+1
hf
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
"50% aren't happy."


Try fucking miserable, wishing for death, no hope for change.

I would walk away right now if I could, with nothing. But I can't. She won't let me go.


Cherish your freedom.
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LOL - escapism is the answer.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Why?
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maybe that "super special" romantic love isnt on your experience sheet this time around.

The way I see it there are loads of people nearing the end of their reincarnational cycles here on earth and most of them are so busy running around packing and tieing off loose ends they havent the time for deep romantic hookups.
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
Half of you tards are vain and shallow - hence why you cannot find a mate because what you search for, or expect from another, is unreasonable, irrational and unrealistic.

Last Edited by Children of the Atom on 10/26/2012 03:45 AM
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Re: I cant find my match/soul mate.....and over 50% of the married people i know, arent happy either...
There is no such thing as a soul mate. You're supposed to be able to get along with most people, not just one other person.

Why is anyone looking for their happiness in another person? They should be a happy on their own before adding someone else to their life. This is the mistake that those 50% of married people didn't realize: marriage wont fix anything that's not already OK. Relationships which are treated as a status symbol are unhealthy.

People are not supposed to "get" married as if they're gaining something. They're supposed to give love without expectation of getting it back. When someone does give it back then that's a good relationship full of real love.

I think serial monogamy is to blame for most of people's problems in relationships. It removes competition in that, out of fear, sexual exclusivity is expected instead of freely given.

For those who believe in mutual exclusivity (serial monogamy), I say "fear is the furthest thing from love, competition is healthy and monogamy is almost unheard of in nature."

Stop letting your friends and TV tell you what a relationship is, and think for yourself what works for you to keep love alive in yourself and maybe add love to someone else's life. So that they then do the same for you and the circle is complete. Why would you want anything less?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13686784


"monogamy is almost unheard of in nature"

That is the default setting, humans are privileged to have two impulses, that is what seperates them from animals..... this is the basis of free will. Its a case of the "animal impulse, or default setting" and the God impulse.

If you, excercised out of free will the God impulse every time presumably you would generate zero negative karma and wouldnt have to come back. But most of us dont do that, we act out automatically ..... slaves to our physicality and default settings and we cut corners, hurt people and generate much bad feeling around our actions.

Then we have to come back on the receiving end of shitty deals, bad behaviour and hurt feelings.

I agree monogamy sucks but how else do you create a safe dependable nest for children?

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