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How can I tell the source of porn I found in husband's stash.

 
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Also, there is nothing inherantly wrong or sick in finding sexual attraction in a woman as long as she is physically mature and legally an adult.

Nor are the girls being taken advantage of, they are adults exercising their rights and decisions. Should you feel bad for finding a 19 year old male attractive? Hell no.
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here is what you should do:

1. print out a bunch of the images and stick them up on the walls in the bedroom.

2. dress is slutty as possible.

3. actually have sex with him.
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nah they're playing out the whole repression-emasculation thing pretty well. SICKENED.
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WOW! WOW! WOW! I hope this thread is fake. If not, you need to get divorced because you are a CREEPY CREEPSTER! And that's just relating to you being an unloving, untrusting, snooping sinner.

That's not even getting into how insane you sound asking if a virus did it. Look, let me tell you how it is (yes, all men are going to be mad at me for this):

You stopped being attractive to your husband within the first year of the sexual relationship. After a woman gives it up, there's no more challenge (unless he's a sick prevert and wants to do strange things like tie you up, wee wee on you etc. Then there's further "goals" for the deviant, but eventually this sick stuff runs out too).

This timeframe gets cut down to 3 months MAXIMUM if there is a pregnancy involved. Sadly, many men and women decide to get hitched "for the baby's sake" even though they only barely know each other from dollar tequila night at the local hell hole where underachieving water buffalo eye each other up.

Trust me when I tell you, GET OUT NOW! LEAVE! It's for the best of everyone involved. Find God, Find Yourself, and then...maybe...get back in the dating scene; please just make it more wholesome this time around.

peace
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Well maybe it's his girlfriend - so I will help ruin your marriage. Each file has a name - copy the file name in to google and do a search. If it's internet porn you should find the source.
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This could help if you feel like putting some effort into it.


[link to distrowatch.com]

DEFT (Digital Evidence & Forensic Toolkit) is a customised distribution of the Ubuntu live Linux CD. It is an easy-to-use system that includes excellent hardware detection and some of the best open-source applications dedicated to incident response and computer forensics.
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Sun Tzu.
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[link to porntopurity.com]

if you haven't found one already, here's a forum that will validate your 'livid' indignation better than glp
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11/03/2012 04:48 AM
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(unless he's a sick prevert and wants to do strange things like tie you up, wee wee on you etc. Then there's further "goals" for the deviant, but eventually this sick stuff runs out too).

peace
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i hate preverts. postverts only, baby. teen postverts!
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One of the folders says ''teen girls.''

I am livid.
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you should view everything, memorize and stew on it, cause you hate it so much. then when you confront him you can transfer your hurt on to him by guilting and shaming him for something that he already feels guilty and shameful for enjoying (because he knows his wife disapproves.) those lines of communication are gonna open right up.
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This is a cleverly disguised, very truthful message. You need a divorce. You are entirely too controlling a person. You are already making him miserable because he feels guilty about being a normal male, but as soon as he finds out you've been snooping (he can tell when the pictures were last looked at and will know it was not him...meaning you did it), any trust he may have had will be totally gone.

A breach of trust and privacy like you have committed is just one tick shy of cheating on him. This ends with counseling or divorce.
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Its better that he looks at porn than cheat on you...unless, the porn itself is disturbing. (Bestality, or Children.) If so, turn him into the police.

Otherwise, if its the "run of the mill," sort of thing...do something better with your time and mind the business in which is RIGHTFULLY yours. You have ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT involving yourself in the affairs that he chooses to have to himself. Not only is it disturbing that YOU FEEL YOU HAVE THE RIGHT, but, it shows that you have CONTROL ISSUES of which could be quite DANGEROUS.

You'd better lay off of that...because, FREE-WILL is a Universal constant in which NO ONE has the right to infringe and YOU WILL BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE.

P.S. - I'm not joking.

 Quoting: Serenity777


Fuck you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13376778


Take a reality check you sour cunt that you are OP. Serenity is spot on here and has called you on it. And all you got in return is a "fuck you"?

People like you OP I have a particular dislike for. I feel pity for your husband. It's no surprise he's watching porn and I hope he has the balls to dumps your arse. You deserve to be miserable.
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This could help if you feel like putting some effort into it.


[link to distrowatch.com]

DEFT (Digital Evidence & Forensic Toolkit) is a customised distribution of the Ubuntu live Linux CD. It is an easy-to-use system that includes excellent hardware detection and some of the best open-source applications dedicated to incident response and computer forensics.
 Quoting: 5th Element


Is this package any good? Have you used it yourself? It looks like it has potential, but I can't find an included software list. Linux people are always a little shabby with their documentation. But in any case, I highly doubt OP will be mounting a Linux OS anytime soon.

Someone tell OP how to check metadata.
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11/03/2012 04:53 AM
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If you and Your Husband Have Sex with the Lights off...then im pretty sure he is thinking of Banging one of them Porn Stars Instead of you.
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OP is MIA. husband is currently getting ripped a new one.

blackeye
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I don't know what's sadder, people who have lost their sexuality or people who are embarassed to have it at all.
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About a year ago i found porno images on my computer.

My husband explained it was probably a computer virus.

I believed him.

Well, tonight, I found a CD with several files on it that are very similar (if not THE SAME) as the pics I found about a year ago.

I am trying to figure out which came first....if the CD was his and therefore the pics on my computer came from porn he already had...

OR.....

If the virus came first and he saved the pics.

Either way, the fact that he has this CD at all is fucked up.

The CD contains 7 folders.

If it originally came from a virus, would it already be organized by folders?

The last time it was ''modified'' was in spring of 2011, and I can't remember exactly when it was that I found the pics on the computer.

Does ''last modified'' mean that's the last time he looked at it?

Or just the last time he saved something on it?

Also, any way to tell the origin of these pics.
 Quoting: SICKENED. 13376778


OP,

Don't give up. Recall part of the vow, "in sickness and in health." Pornography is an addiction. It's taken over the entire world. Young kids can look at it on their I-phones!

Here is a man who is wise, please look at his help for men with a pornography addiction. His name is Steve Woods, he is a father and Catholic Apologist. Don't be put off by the
Catholic, he use to be a Protestant minister.

One thing I remember he advised, when Jesus was tempted
by Satan, He spoke out with authority, a verse from the OT. Meaning...when your husband is tempted, he can pray a verse from the Gospel, one he remembers, thinks appropriate.


[link to www.familylifecenter.net]


God bless you, rose
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I don't know what's sadder, people who have lost their sexuality or people who are embarassed to have it at all.
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So true.
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About a year ago i found porno images on my computer.

My husband explained it was probably a computer virus.

I believed him.

Well, tonight, I found a CD with several files on it that are very similar (if not THE SAME) as the pics I found about a year ago.

I am trying to figure out which came first....if the CD was his and therefore the pics on my computer came from porn he already had...

OR.....

If the virus came first and he saved the pics.

Either way, the fact that he has this CD at all is fucked up.

The CD contains 7 folders.

If it originally came from a virus, would it already be organized by folders?

The last time it was ''modified'' was in spring of 2011, and I can't remember exactly when it was that I found the pics on the computer.

Does ''last modified'' mean that's the last time he looked at it?

Or just the last time he saved something on it?

Also, any way to tell the origin of these pics.
 Quoting: SICKENED. 13376778


OP,

Don't give up. Recall part of the vow, "in sickness and in health." Pornography is an addiction. It's taken over the entire world. Young kids can look at it on their I-phones!

Here is a man who is wise, please look at his help for men with a pornography addiction. His name is Steve Woods, he is a father and Catholic Apologist. Don't be put off by the
Catholic, he use to be a Protestant minister.

One thing I remember he advised, when Jesus was tempted
by Satan, He spoke out with authority, a verse from the OT. Meaning...when your husband is tempted, he can pray a verse from the Gospel, one he remembers, thinks appropriate.


[link to www.familylifecenter.net]


God bless you, rose
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20541213


So because he has porn, he has a "porn addiction"? Aren't you making a rather big leap of faith to reach that conclusion of yours? At what point does occasdionally viewing porn become an "addiction", and what makes you think that case applies here?
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OmGz!?

OP is MIA,Hubby is being torn a new one,poor fella'.

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and that which is done is that which shall be done:and there is no new thing under the Sun.
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11/03/2012 05:11 AM
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Porn addiction is one of the strongest ways that They control you.
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11/03/2012 05:12 AM
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Probably the same type of woman who will bust her husbands balls for looking at porn and then turn around and pick up one of those romance novels full of lustful sex......just sayin'
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Re: How can I tell the source of porn I found in husband's stash.
About a year ago i found porno images on my computer.

My husband explained it was probably a computer virus.

I believed him.

Well, tonight, I found a CD with several files on it that are very similar (if not THE SAME) as the pics I found about a year ago.

I am trying to figure out which came first....if the CD was his and therefore the pics on my computer came from porn he already had...

OR.....

If the virus came first and he saved the pics.

Either way, the fact that he has this CD at all is fucked up.

The CD contains 7 folders.

If it originally came from a virus, would it already be organized by folders?

The last time it was ''modified'' was in spring of 2011, and I can't remember exactly when it was that I found the pics on the computer.

Does ''last modified'' mean that's the last time he looked at it?

Or just the last time he saved something on it?

Also, any way to tell the origin of these pics.
 Quoting: SICKENED. 13376778


OP,

Don't give up. Recall part of the vow, "in sickness and in health." Pornography is an addiction. It's taken over the entire world. Young kids can look at it on their I-phones!

Here is a man who is wise, please look at his help for men with a pornography addiction. His name is Steve Woods, he is a father and Catholic Apologist. Don't be put off by the
Catholic, he use to be a Protestant minister.

One thing I remember he advised, when Jesus was tempted
by Satan, He spoke out with authority, a verse from the OT. Meaning...when your husband is tempted, he can pray a verse from the Gospel, one he remembers, thinks appropriate.


[link to www.familylifecenter.net]


God bless you, rose
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20541213


So because he has porn, he has a "porn addiction"? Aren't you making a rather big leap of faith to reach that conclusion of yours? At what point does occasdionally viewing porn become an "addiction", and what makes you think that case applies here?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26874725


Hi Canada,

Pornography being addictive is secondary. The most important thing is the fact it destroys God's life in you. All sexual sins fall under the 6th Commandment. Porn is a grave mortal sin, it is evil, would you wish to see your child posing for porn? Of course not, so obviously evil
and destructive.

blessings,


Mary
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11/03/2012 05:22 AM
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a teen girl in porn

a 30ish woman with pig tails, Minnie Mouse T-shirt, mini skirt, tennis shoes, maybe licking a lolly pop ... it's an act
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a man getting in trouble with his wife/girlfriend over nothing... whats new ?
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Re: How can I tell the source of porn I found in husband's stash.
About a year ago i found porno images on my computer.

My husband explained it was probably a computer virus.

I believed him.

Well, tonight, I found a CD with several files on it that are very similar (if not THE SAME) as the pics I found about a year ago.

I am trying to figure out which came first....if the CD was his and therefore the pics on my computer came from porn he already had...

OR.....

If the virus came first and he saved the pics.

Either way, the fact that he has this CD at all is fucked up.

The CD contains 7 folders.

If it originally came from a virus, would it already be organized by folders?

The last time it was ''modified'' was in spring of 2011, and I can't remember exactly when it was that I found the pics on the computer.

Does ''last modified'' mean that's the last time he looked at it?

Or just the last time he saved something on it?

Also, any way to tell the origin of these pics.
 Quoting: SICKENED. 13376778


OP,

Don't give up. Recall part of the vow, "in sickness and in health." Pornography is an addiction. It's taken over the entire world. Young kids can look at it on their I-phones!

Here is a man who is wise, please look at his help for men with a pornography addiction. His name is Steve Woods, he is a father and Catholic Apologist. Don't be put off by the
Catholic, he use to be a Protestant minister.

One thing I remember he advised, when Jesus was tempted
by Satan, He spoke out with authority, a verse from the OT. Meaning...when your husband is tempted, he can pray a verse from the Gospel, one he remembers, thinks appropriate.


[link to www.familylifecenter.net]


God bless you, rose
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20541213


So because he has porn, he has a "porn addiction"? Aren't you making a rather big leap of faith to reach that conclusion of yours? At what point does occasdionally viewing porn become an "addiction", and what makes you think that case applies here?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26874725


Hi Canada,

Pornography being addictive is secondary. The most important thing is the fact it destroys God's life in you. All sexual sins fall under the 6th Commandment. Porn is a grave mortal sin, it is evil, would you wish to see your child posing for porn? Of course not, so obviously evil
and destructive.

blessings,


Mary
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One, we are NOT talking about children. Two, not all porn is demeaning to women. It certainly can be, but there is NOTHING derogatory about nakedness and sexual drives, and you shouldn't allow yourself to fall into such a self-destructive mindset. Human sexuality is natural and certainly does not go against God. You do realize those are the same urges that allow you to "be fruitful and multiply", yes?

And are you also representing the camp that also considers all masturbation evil?
Watching the world
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1. Relax. ALL men do this. If they say they aren't they are lying.

2. Make your own porn CD. Get comfortable with it. It's really not a big deal.

3. Let him see your CD by "accident" and thus spark his curiosity about your sexual desires.

4. Buy a dildo. You will need this after watching your porn.

5. Tell him your dildo is very dependable..... Thus making husband jealous.

6. Husband realizes you are a sexual being too and will be attracted to you for it.

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1. Relax. ALL men do this. If they say they aren't they are lying.

2. Make your own porn CD. Get comfortable with it. It's really not a big deal.

3. Let him see your CD by "accident" and thus spark his curiosity about your sexual desires.

4. Buy a dildo. You will need this after watching your porn.

5. Tell him your dildo is very dependable..... Thus making husband jealous.

6. Husband realizes you are a sexual being too and will be attracted to you for it.

banana2
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QFE! And if you no longer have interest in sex, either find what resparks it or leave him to take care of himself.
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11/03/2012 05:30 AM
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Just another female who has discovered men like looking at pussy.

No big deal lady.
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a teen girl in porn

a 30ish woman with pig tails, Minnie Mouse T-shirt, mini skirt, tennis shoes, maybe licking a lolly pop ... it's an act
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cruise
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11/03/2012 05:32 AM
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OP, do you want your husband to cheat? Would that be better? This is something very normal, and the worse you make him feel about it the more of a jerk you are.
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OP, I think you need to ask yourself some tough questions. How long have you been together? How often do you have sex with him? (18 years here, and 5 times a week.) Do you participate in the sex and seem to enjoy it, or just put up with it until it's over? Do you flirt with him randomly and make him feel desirable? Do you ever ask him for sex, or does he have to initiate it every time (and hope you say yes for once)? Do you perform oral sex once in a while as foreplay, and not act disgusted (even if you are)? Do you dictate that sex is in the same position every time, or with the lights off, or (worse yet) with some of your clothes still on?

I agree with you, he lied. Let me ask you about that, too. Is there something going on with you, that he is trying to protect your feelings? Have you gained weight or have some other body hang-up? Are you suffering from depression or any other emotional issues? Have you stopped doing your hair and putting on a little makeup like you used to, even if it's just around the house? Do you wear baggy sweats and look frumpy, instead of nicely fitting jeans and a cute top, even around the house? Are you controlling, and he is afraid to make you mad? Perhaps one or more of these things have cropped up in your life, and he does not want to pile on and make you feel worse for your lack of sexuality and self esteem.

What you describe does not sound like an addiction to me. Men are sexual animals. I personally think you need to take an honest look at yourself. Why does he need to look elsewhere? And why does he need to lie about it?

Yes, some of the previous posters have been a little brutal to you. But yes, most of them are correct in their assessment of the situation. For the sake of your marriage, I suggest you honestly look at yourself before going off on him. This could be the best thing that ever happened to you and to your marriage. Best of luck to you.
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Unless you are offering him sex 3 or 4 times a week, then you can't complain.

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