Fuck you OP, you can't be an uptight cunt, start this discussion, and not post an explanation as to why this actually hurts your vagina. You need to let your man be a man!!!! Does he provide for you, give you what you need, doesn't smack you upside the head, etc, etc. Stop trying to turn him into you, if every women let men be men, there wouldn't be a 50% divorce rate, but ya'll can't figure that out!!! Superior beings my ass!!!!!!!