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What makes men not want to have sex?

 
Anonymous Coward
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11/05/2012 04:46 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
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youv either cheated on him or your fat and ugly.. or both..
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11/05/2012 05:02 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Its to mutch artificial hormones around in our system. I have the same problem with my wife. I love sex and could have it every day but get it maximum once a week. What to do?
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I get tired of feeling like I'm fucking a nun, where did all the crazy fun shit go...
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11/05/2012 05:34 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I don't care much for sex with my wife. It seems like ever time I was interested see wasn't and when she was we had sex and she usually used it to get something out of it. I got tired of being used and just los interest. We don't have sex any more and I'm just fine with it.
Other than this area we get along great.
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This is most likely it.
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yep,thats was did it for me
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11/05/2012 12:15 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
My husband had the same problem-it has made our relationship hell. He did go to the Dr and he did have low T. He was put on T. Things were wonderful. Then he just stopped taking it, it's too expensive, all kinds of excuses. Now when I dress sexy for him, make a nice meal, open some wine......all the things that would indicate there's some lovin' on the horizon-he just ignores. Would rather talk about his cars and tell me stupid shit like how oil works.

I could tell a big difference when he was on it, he was flirty and sexy with me-sex was often and great. Now we are back to nothing. I think that there are men like my husband who do not understand that intimacy and sex are so important to their partners and I think that they just don't give a fuck. Honestly. If the situation were reversed, I would NEVER have my husband feeling unwanted, rejected.........but yeah, doesn't work both ways. I am not exactly a troll to look at either-eg not a fat, nagging kind of wife. I will probably take a lover. My husband's attitude toward sex makes me feel ugly-unwanted-not very womanly. I doubt I will stay in the marriage.
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11/05/2012 12:17 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
he needs space to be. imho.
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11/05/2012 05:06 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I believe it's stress
Anonymous Coward
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11/05/2012 06:24 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Okay fair answer.... What can I do to make it better?
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include other people
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stogie!!
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11/05/2012 07:43 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
My wife is a 95 lbs Asian beauty and I chase after it all day, everyday !

Tell him you will let him screw a asian girls 20 years younger then him.

He will cook you dinner , take out the trash and rub your feet !

Cheers !
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Your a pathetic piece of rubish
, how bout someone take you to the curb
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I don't want to be blunt but all that still doesn't get you laid.....low attention spand or what
Always a synick

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11/05/2012 07:45 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Have him go to the doc and get his testosterone tested. Manopause its real. Get him some male vitamins. Supersapponins. Search it I guarantee if he still loves you youll beg hide it from him. Tongat Ali.

I guarantee it is hormonal very possibly brought on by stress and age.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Its to mutch artificial hormones around in our system. I have the same problem with my wife. I love sex and could have it every day but get it maximum once a week. What to do?
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Got to make her feel like it is less of a chore. Try a little more affection during the day. The longer you are together the less effort people tend to put. Compliments, appreciation, nice long kisses and a good tap on the ass will do wonders. Also don't wait to long....earlier in the night or day is better.
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11/05/2012 07:47 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
A vagina that is unkempt.
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11/05/2012 07:51 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Wow seven pages...Ok my number one is naggggging of any kind.
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Seriously sounds like people have a lot to say on this issue.
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11/05/2012 07:56 PM

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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Well the first step would be to have some truly; open, honest and genuine communication so you can at least narrow down his true reasons. At least then you'll have a better chance of getting to the bottom of it and hence solving your issue and his too I bet. I would not assume anything but let him tell you his reasons.hf
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11/05/2012 08:02 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
The truth: He's just not that into you anymore. Lust is fleeting. If you want rockem sockem sex the rest of your life then you'll be taking on multiple lovers for the rest of your life. Marriage is about more than sex once the kids come anyway. We just had out first about 3 months ago and I still get it twice a week or so but it aint like it used to be for either of us I'm sure. I still love her and can't imagine life without her. Sounds like a lot of you have some growing up to do.
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11/05/2012 08:05 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I wonder if women will ever realize that they are killing their men.


Testosterone levels go up to normal 7 days after ejaculation, and the person gets depleted of nutrients.


Welcome to seeing how porn makes men pussies.
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11/05/2012 08:26 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Well, speaking from my own experience as a male.

Hygiene is a big thing, atleast for me. There's nothing hotter in my mind than to go to bed fresh out of the shower with my gal, also fresh out of the shower. Taking showers together can be a very nice way of getting sensuality back into a relationship.

Variation. Change your perfume every now and then. Wearing perfume to bed makes me lose the feeling since I will only think you didn't have time to shower. Sexy underwear is not necessary to bed, more of a spice that is oh so nice those afternoons/evening you have to yourself.

Being able to wind down after a hard days work certainly improves my sex drive. Children certainly is an effective contraceptive in that aspect. One big turnoff is problems... Try to avoid serious stuff 2-3 days a week. Let the man get his head relaxed every now and then and he'll not only want sex more, he'll probably be more happy and more willing to listen to the tough stuff too.

Try to get yourself and your husband to quit TV as your main activity in the evenings, and only watch what you really want to see, and try to let eachother watch what you want, without distractions. But do try to reduce the hours in front of the TV, it's a time thief. It's better to have a half hour snooze than watch TV for 2 hours. Way more relaxing, and way more energizing.

Anyway, imho, if your husband is working, which I believe, I reckon stress/being unable to wind down, is his problem. If you want more sex, you need to find out how you can help him wind down, because having problems/work on your mind, already tired from working, coming home, doing chores around the house and then just collapse in front of the TV does not trigger the sexdrive. Maybe he's better off having a half hour nap or so after coming home from work, before having to pitch in with the homemaking?
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11/05/2012 08:30 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
My 2 cents.

I feel less drawn to sex the more cerebral I feel. While I generally am up for it, if im reading something thats interesting and involved or in the process of learning something new or making new connections mentally I feel much more distance from the physical body and its needs.
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11/05/2012 08:32 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Maybe he caught you masterbaiting and he feels like he can not satisfy you like you can with your toys..
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11/05/2012 08:34 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
OP, trust me, get him to go to the Doctor and have his Testosterone levels checked.

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