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What makes men not want to have sex?

 
Meligrove

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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
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Either hes fucking weird or he doesn't find you attractive anymore.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Get this book:

'Super Marital Sex' by Paul P. Pearsall

The book explains how to fix EVERYTHING ELSE besides sex in a marriage. The idea is: when the marriage is healthy and strong, great sex naturally follows.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
If his wife gets overweight, slovenly, doesn't take care of herself, lazy, loud, obnoxious...any number of things can turn a person off. It could be any of that or one of a thousand other reasons. Maybe he's intereted in someone else. Maybe you've done something that caused him to lose interest in you.
Was he previously interested in having as much sex as you wanted? Is this a new attitude? Every situation and every person is unique. And it could be that he's into porno so intensely that no one can measure up to his porno expectations. Nobody can assess the answer to your question without knowing what's going on with both of you.
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its not her fault ! its the male animal instinctive nature unfortunately
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Maybe, you are ugly and not a goo lay...just sayin!
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Okay fair answer.... What can I do to make it better?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7183572


stop showing him attention sexually TRUST ME he will want you alot more and wonder why you dont want him as much as you used to. spoken from experience
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26507547


i was a husband like this. sometimes you go long periods without and that becomes your new routine. i really had to see that my wife missed that intimacy and needed it then we really worked at getting the flame back and our sex life is amazing now. about every day of the week.

some of these answers are from idiots but some have merit. maybe try something new and interesting. go outdoors or something like that. maybe get some new night things. but dont change yourself just to please him. be confident and that is the sexiest thing of all. my wife and i have been married 13 years and she is still the sexiest woman i know. it is attitude. but most of all let him know how you miss it and not because you are a sex addict, most women seem to desire closeness of being intimate with their partner. it is important.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26954555


How old are you? Women are most sexually active in their 30's while a man's sex drive begins to decrease in their 30's. How often do you have sex also? Is your husband under a lot of stress? Is he overweight? These things can decrease sex drive. If your only having sex once a week and he's passing it up that can be problematic. If it's every night he may just be tired.

Men also just get tired after a while. Marriage is not a natural state. Men want to have sex with as many women as they can to spread their genes as much as they can. That is natural. Women are the same way but to a lesser extent. They value loyalty b/c they want someone who can take care of them and their kids. Yet married women will dress sexy when they leave the house but lounge around the house looking like shit for their husbands, the one person they should look sexy for. They still dress sexy in public b/c subconsciously they are still looking for a mate.

My point is that marriage or one partner isn't a natural state. B/c of this you need to make things interesting and new. You can be the most beautiful women in the world but after a while you just become stale. Gotta keep things fresh.
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all idiotic comments aside...

most of my quoted comments are somewhat accurate but they lack one element...

you must begin to worry about yourself. That does not mean to run out and get some guy for sex. It does, however, mean you might take up sailing, or hiking, or rock climbimg, or a book club....whatever floats your boat. You need to become the distracted one, but it needs to be real. Don't pretend, it will fail epicly. Once he realizes that gal he married is still interesting to others, (not just for sex) he will begin the process of attraction all over again. It can be a little magical during this rediscovery phase. If he does not respond, then you will have created some of what you lost in the marriage as well. New friends, new hobbies, there is no limit. Get out of your comfort zone! much love and luck in your new adventure.

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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
It could be due to a number of things. Porn use, low testosterone levels, drug/alcohol abuse, limerence with another (esp. if one-sided in nature), loss of attraction, boredom, or assholery.

Your best bet is to make yourself unavailable. Not because it is a good solution, but because it will allow you to determine whether or not you're involved in some sort of passive-aggressive dynamic. Then act accordingly. You have lots of choices. Discussion. Gettin' some on the side. Divorce. Open marriage. Just be honest and respectful.

But, definitely never beg a man for sex or demand it.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Im telling you its porn. After watching some hot tight bodied young girl get railed in the arse repeatedly he doesnt want the shitty in the dark misionary position you are giving him.
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fuck you dave
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11/04/2012 09:14 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
if he is over 35 it's and has stressful life it's the low Testosterone Levels. have him take ZMA and Tribulus you can find them on your local suplement store they work great for me.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Geeze, I dunno.

I'm 43, and the only thing that kills my sex drive is flamethrowers.
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yea, and you have been charged with soliciting prostitutes because of it lol

loser.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
porn is the problem...better fantasies, without all of the hassle's of pleasing the woman...

just being honest.
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I grew tired of porn, I can't get a boner unless it is with my gf anymore. Porn helped to distract me, it was like a drug for me, sex doesn't do that effect. Now I feel i am going insane, I have anxiety attacks and shit, I need to drink or something to pacify myself.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


You men really need to be working from early dawn til night, they way it's meant to be.
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even then, we'd still find time for porn LOL...
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
 Quoting: Sparkles 7183572



Either hes fucking weird or he doesn't find you attractive anymore.
 Quoting: Meligrove


or he likes FREE PORN!!!

Number 1 choice over boring, same every-time sex...why can't women understand it's power of men?
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Whats shue be talk'n bout willis?

I'm 58 and had got laid this morning and could use it again tonite.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
His general diet probably plays a huge roll. Foods and general products like shampoo mess with hormones big time. Switch over to pure water. From a spring or distilled. Give him a good multi vitamin as well. Or start juicing. It has fantastic benefits.
Any medications or drug habits may do it as well.
If you are ttc, try not to be the biggest factor in your sex life.

But im pretty sure diet is the main factor.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
quite seriously, is he closet gay maybe?
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
 Quoting: Sparkles 7183572



You don't remember how to press his buttons?
Or do you just expect him to be ready?
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
are any of you new posters actually reading the reply's?

FREE PORN + BORING MATE = Zzzz
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Girls, it's really fucking simple.

He's either masturbating, or he is stressed & distracted.

Guys will still wank even when they have sex on tap - after a while, some guys get lazy & find it easier to get off by just doing it them selves. Usually it's because either you're not there when we're horny, you're on your period, or you're too tired & want to sleep.

How to fix it? Nothing but will power. He needs to stop self pleasing him self, & put in a bit more effort in bed. <- this needs to be brought up, because it won't fix its self.

& none of this "he's cheating on you" shit. Who ever made this up deserves to be shot "but I know from experience!" no, it's not a safe assumption to make because it's more than likely NOT TRUE.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
 Quoting: Sparkles 7183572


maybe you should suck his dick more?
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Men are naturally polygamous and need a variety of women to fulfill all his God given desires. I suggest you bring a young women to him and let him enjoy her and you together. If you consider yourself a Godly wife this would be the righteous thing to do.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Try adding some foreplay.

Last Edited by PMNOrlando on 11/05/2012 02:32 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
the OP has never addressed herself as the problem and like most wives thinks her husband is the problem.
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11/04/2012 09:25 PM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
this has been said before but to clarify.

there is nothing more 'unattractive' than a woman that complains or likes to argue.

no one likes a negative person...and that negativity totally turns off the sex drive.

do something different...like the foot massage follow up suggested....and be positive during the day...

if you bitch and complain...that can turn a man off for a full 24 hours afterwards...which will likely turn him to looking at porn..

in other words, the complaining only turns him off TO YOU
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just get naked and bend over on the edge of the bed, he'll get the idea.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Op did another hit and run and the tards are still replyingretardedthread
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
does he check out women when your not looking?

is he still pretty viral when you get him drunk enough to fuck you?

if yes to the above.. then 99.9% chance he's fucking someone else.

get a dog and stfu
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
 Quoting: Sparkles 7183572

People always take what they have for granted these days. I learned that the hard way and do not fall prey to it anymore.I hope your hubby smartens up.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Just trying to understand my husbands sex drive. Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his? What should I do?
 Quoting: Sparkles 7183572



Either hes fucking weird or he doesn't find you attractive anymore.
 Quoting: Meligrove


Are people like you 14 or what, any relationship that hits "marriage level" of time involves a dip in sexual activity.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
your ass smells like taco bell
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
when you first meet someone, your pheromones (sex attracting smell) can be quite intoxicating. but after awhile, you sort of become immune to each others pheromones.

hopefully by that point tho, you are in love & want to please/make each other happy.

maybe try spice up your sex life by getting inventive suggesting new things?

i met an amzing chick and we were very in love for about 1 1/2 years. but after awhile we just kinda got bored with each other.

still good friends, but we ended it.

and now i get to hook up with new people & thats just dandy :D

good luck!
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
how old is he im only 30 and gave up wantin sex
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
go wild and lose somes pounds