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What makes men not want to have sex?

 
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There's several things that can turn a man off: Sexually aggressive women is a top earner. Bad past experience with women can work wonders on a man's libido. Bad mother/son relations is another top killer. Adultery. Bad health. Ugly spouse. Or perhaps a female partner who is loose or one who is too ignorant to buy some ben wa balls. Mental problems. Emotional problems. Chronic depression. Self-conscious about his penis. A lack of self esteem. Maybe he's a mental fag; always thinking homosexual thoughts. The list goes on and on. If you're an American woman, that may be the problem in and of itself.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
As a man, I quit being the aggressor in my marriage, when it comes to sex. You want brutal honesty? There are only a few reasons why a man won't go after the receptacle that's easy access. In no particular order;

1. As we get older, there are small things that make sex less spontaneous. Maybe it takes him a little longer for him to get it up, or stay up. Maybe you need a little help in the lubrication department. These things are easily dealt with BUT, even the most minor speedbump in the bedroom can be damaging if the man views sex as a source of frustration or criticism or as something that requires 'effort'. We men love blowing a load; if he's not interested, chances are you've said or done something to damage the sexual relationship - probably without even meaning to.

2. Men are more emotional creatures than you women realize. If we are hurt, frustrated, angry, or just maybe feel unappreciated this affects us in many ways including our desire to be close to you. If we don't want to around you, for whatever reason, chances are we don't wanna stick our dick in you either.

3. Stress is everywhere. Work, hell even leisure can be stressful. Stress can hurt sexual performance.

Look, I'm not trying to lay blame but when a man doesn't want to bone his wife it is almost ALWAYS because of something she has or hasn't done, or at least he THINKS this is the case.

If you are disrespectful, rude, agitating, condescending, mean, snide, callous, cruel, entitled, or otherwise ANYTHING opposite to what YOU want to come home to - well, I wouldn't wanna fuck you either.

Now quit being a bitch and in a few days he will fuck the life outta you.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
He needs some chocolate pudding and a golden shower.

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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I don't care much for sex with my wife. It seems like ever time I was interested see wasn't and when she was we had sex and she usually used it to get something out of it. I got tired of being used and just los interest. We don't have sex any more and I'm just fine with it.
Other than this area we get along great.
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This is most likely it.
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11/05/2012 02:15 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
How old is your husband? Is he depressed?

He could have low testosterone (especially if he's on narcotic medication), and he could have diabetes or another medical condition which would affect his "abilities" and sex drive.

Have you noticed a radical change in his attitude toward being romantic with you, or has this been an ongoing thing?

Basically, when did he start to lose interest? It's not normal, and if he's having "difficulty down there", he should see a physician for a good work-up.

He could be feeling inadequate if he's got erectile dysfunction, or he could be clinically depressed, but best to start with the physical side because that can cause depressive symptoms.

Have his thyroid, B-12, complete blood count, testosterone, and other levels checked by his doctor.

If nothing's wrong physically, then if he's not (god forbid) cheating, then maybe it's a simple matter of you being a bit more highly charged than your husband.

They say a man's sexual peak is around age 18, but a woman's is around age 35.

Maybe he's stressed-out, or keeping a secret and ashamed of himself (money-related? Who knows?)

Basically, rule-out the physical then talk to him honestly if there seems to be something bothering him.

Do you initiate love-making, or does he? Maybe a little role-playing or change-up of who plays the role of the assertive one would keep things "charged-up" under the covers!

If nothing else, meet him at the door in a teddy and two glasses of wine (if you don't have kids at home!) and I doubt that any man would be able to resist that kind of "hint"!

Luck to both of you!
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
There's several things that can turn a man off: Sexually aggressive women is a top earner. Bad past experience with women can work wonders on a man's libido. Bad mother/son relations is another top killer. Adultery. Bad health. Ugly spouse. Or perhaps a female partner who is loose or one who is too ignorant to buy some ben wa balls. Mental problems. Emotional problems. Chronic depression. Self-conscious about his penis. A lack of self esteem. Maybe he's a mental fag; always thinking homosexual thoughts. The list goes on and on. If you're an American woman, that may be the problem in and of itself.
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Come-on...Ben Wa balls are so '80's!

Maybe try some of this stuff..it's supposed to be the miracle product of the 21st century:

[link to www.shopinprivate.com]
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11/05/2012 02:25 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Whoa, not reading all that. Hows your touching? Rub your hands on him much? Not down there, back, legs? He got back problems? Mine left when back started hurting to much. But the touching gets me all the time......
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I am at work now. and my missus is really trying to convince me she is a slut and needs cock while I work away for a week at a time. she really wants this. should I just accept and we can have an open relationship. she wants sex 2 or 3 times a week with someone else while I am away. I am on the fence. I love her so much I feel I could accept it as jut only being a dirty slut and wanting cock. its kinda hot to think about. because we got together in high school. so we both have only been with about 6 people each. Should I let her meet a guy this afternoon and suck his cock and taste his cum? and let him finger her?
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11/05/2012 02:33 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Fat asses.
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I am at work now. and my missus is really trying to convince me she is a slut and needs cock while I work away for a week at a time. she really wants this. should I just accept and we can have an open relationship. she wants sex 2 or 3 times a week with someone else while I am away. I am on the fence. I love her so much I feel I could accept it as jut only being a dirty slut and wanting cock. its kinda hot to think about. because we got together in high school. so we both have only been with about 6 people each. Should I let her meet a guy this afternoon and suck his cock and taste his cum? and let him finger her?
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SHURE.Just tell me your adressrockon
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
There's several things that can turn a man off: Sexually aggressive women is a top earner. Bad past experience with women can work wonders on a man's libido. Bad mother/son relations is another top killer. Adultery. Bad health. Ugly spouse. Or perhaps a female partner who is loose or one who is too ignorant to buy some ben wa balls. Mental problems. Emotional problems. Chronic depression. Self-conscious about his penis. A lack of self esteem. Maybe he's a mental fag; always thinking homosexual thoughts. The list goes on and on. If you're an American woman, that may be the problem in and of itself.
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Come-on...Ben Wa balls are so '80's!

Maybe try some of this stuff..it's supposed to be the miracle product of the 21st century:

[link to www.shopinprivate.com]
 Quoting: Fat Albert


Nice stuff actually, but only for lazy American women. You won't never see a Thia woman with that stuff, but they can shoot ben wa balls and hit a target ten feet away.
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11/05/2012 02:41 AM
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What r Bin WALL Balls...just asking
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bECAUSE HE'S THINKING ABOUT HOW BAD THIS BITCH IS DESTROYING AMERICA.
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bECAUSE HE'S THINKING ABOUT HOW BAD THIS BITCH IS DESTROYING AMERICA.
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Sex should be narcissistic, once it worries about what the other enjoys it's dies.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
I am at work now. and my missus is really trying to convince me she is a slut and needs cock while I work away for a week at a time. she really wants this. should I just accept and we can have an open relationship. she wants sex 2 or 3 times a week with someone else while I am away. I am on the fence. I love her so much I feel I could accept it as jut only being a dirty slut and wanting cock. its kinda hot to think about. because we got together in high school. so we both have only been with about 6 people each. Should I let her meet a guy this afternoon and suck his cock and taste his cum? and let him finger her?
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SHURE.Just tell me your adressrockon
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A serious answer would be good. and ur in the US mate. too far for her. and she has someone already in mind
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11/05/2012 02:46 AM
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First off, just to get this out of the way, the idea of men being this constant sex craved animal whose sole purpose in life is to get laid is wrong. Completely wrong. It's a caricature/stereotype/whatever that is just so overdone. I think women like sex more than men and that men are more romantic than women. Not that there's anything wrong with this. It just the way I think things are.

I hate having sex with my wife. It has become a major issue with us. Over the years there has been so much crap I've had to put up with that I get stressed out whenever she's around. It's a matter of being psychologically conditioned. And I don't think I'll ever get over it. Plus I don't think she gives a damn about me unless it interfers with her wants or needs. Day in and day out it's all about her. Every once in a while she will do something nice or considerate, but it's usually just a fluke.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Let me elaborate: the best Sex is when what you give comes back at you. IOW give pleasure to receive pleasure in kind. The trick is to stimulate your partner so they give you the pleasure you demand...
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Here is your answer. Works every time. You read that right - every single time.

Stop talking about it. Stop worrying about it. Stop pressuring him.

It is called STFU!! When he is ready let him do whatever he wants - WHENEVER HE WANTS - and as soon as he picks up on that, your sex problems are over.

It is called being - FEMININE - and letting him go to you rather than 'expecting' like liberal feminazis do.

If you say you love him then prove it - DONT SAY ANOTHER EFFING WORD ABOUT IT - until he comes to you. If he asks why you have changed simply reply 'Whenever you want me I am here'.

So STFU and be feminine and stop demanding and causing stress that may end your partnership.


Works every time.
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11/05/2012 02:54 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Sex should be narcissistic, once it worries about what the other enjoys it's dies.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27018718


I am at work now. and my missus is really trying to convince me she is a slut and needs cock while I work away for a week at a time. she really wants this. should I just accept and we can have an open relationship. she wants sex 2 or 3 times a week with someone else while I am away. I am on the fence. I love her so much I feel I could accept it as jut only being a dirty slut and wanting cock. its kinda hot to think about. because we got together in high school. so we both have only been with about 6 people each. Should I let her meet a guy this afternoon and suck his cock and taste his cum? and let him finger her?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1634456


SHURE.Just tell me your adressrockon
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24679258


A serious answer would be good. and ur in the US mate. too far for her. and she has someone already in mind
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sorry mate.it was worth a shot.
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Yea my old ladys excuse is shes tired,Or shes not horney at bedtime.Shes horney in the morning.And go figure thats when iam the least hornry......AAAAAAAAFUCKIT.I think Ill bang the neighbor girl.rockon
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Is it normal that my sex drive is higher than his?

What should I do?
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Yes, men have been emasculated by women. We no longer feel like men because if we look at a woman we are considered a perv, or a creep. It is much safer to ignore women altogether.

Lose some weight!
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
men are more romantic than women.
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Hell yeah.

I would love to go out on a normal date instead of being expected to run to the toilet for a quick shag.

No longer bother even talking to women because they only see me as a big dick to fulfill their desires.

And when they realize that I am a good guy, their actions have turned me off completely.

Starting to hate women altogether.
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11/05/2012 03:45 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
severe depression, a bleak shitty life with an ugly gross wife and a bunch of kids running around that you have support for the coming several years
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11/05/2012 03:49 AM
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Re: What makes men not want to have sex?
Thread: Masturbation and Porn are destroying our happiness.

check the thread above and read the link in the first post. I really think Dopamine levels could play a huge part in your husbands condition. does he have any addictions he could quit that would help him restore his Dopamine levels???
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11/05/2012 03:59 AM

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Hi OP - sorry didn't read thru all ten pages but most common problem - besides stress and exhaustion - is low testosterone count. Easily remedied if he goes to get bloodwork to confirm.

And not sure how old you are but women's sex drive surges around 40's. But sounds like he should get a check up. :)
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here's one i just thought of..

when we both were either here or working overseas apart.. what we would do is cut and paste a favorite fantasy already written nicely online and transfer it into word.. then you do a find/cut/paste with your names into it.... wooooo... saucy... makes for either fun, or a fulfilled fantasy....

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Hi OP - sorry didn't read thru all ten pages but most common problem - besides stress and exhaustion - is low testosterone count. Easily remedied if he goes to get bloodwork to confirm.

And not sure how old you are but women's sex drive surges around 40's. But sounds like he should get a check up. :)
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read that thread above. not testosterone. Dopamine levels
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Everytime I put my penis into a loose vagina my childself cries.
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ROFL!!!
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