oddly enough the stress can be reduced by having sex,
the low testosterone / high cortisol can be reversed by being more active - regardless of age. the increase in activity level is most easily a funtion of wanting to please a woman he is attracted to physically. ( hw many times have you seen a blubber gut guy lose the weight and get fit after a divorce?) The hunt for new poon is a great motivator to get off the couch and into the gym.

so it's back to you sister - spice it up! Make sure you are the hottest thing he will see every day and he can't wait to come home to you - and into you!