thats fine athene, im the op. my thread title says ask me a question, so your opinion (whether good or bad) was requested by me and i wont hold that against you.

here's some food for thought from another thread, seems quite applicable here...
"These people are guilty of leading young people into error. First of all, they elicit material needs in the young which they cannot satisfy, which not only leads to frustration, but to the desire to obtain dishonestly what they cannot obtain honestly. Then, by trying to convince them that they absolutely need these objects and activities in order to feel well and happy, they turn them away from the true search for happiness and the meaning of life. These people should not be surprised if one day they have to suffer from the criminal behaviour which they have helped to create and nurture"

you reap what you sow eventually i guess