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My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.

 
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11/05/2012 02:14 PM
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The next time she threatens to leave. Pack up all her shit and put it outside the door. Then get the locks changed on the house. That is, if it is your house.
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11/05/2012 02:17 PM
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Hey brother, life is to short to fight we should only spread love for each other. if u love her un-unconditionally she will never leave you, unless her soul is lost. if so still love her and pray she finds love in herself. It takes a real man to apologize even if your right just so she knows u truly care. Most relathionships lack love. We should love one anuther weather u are in relathionship or not brother. god will help guide you to the right person he is in controll. And if not just pray that she does wake up because if u give her love and she truly feels it. then she would never leave you. This kind of love is super rare now a days and believe me a true good soul would never let that go. i hope my words help you guys out. I would start by praying when your all alone and ask god for guidence and to be forgivin. Remeber brother we are all not perfect and its not worth it to hate some1. send only un-conditional love and this will also make u have great wisdom. so please take this message and pray to god for forgivnes and to show u the light and wake u up to true love in yourself. go back appologize to her even if u think she is wrong and tell her your sorry u been acting the way u have and forgive you. and watch if im not right and things get great in your relathionship brother. we should love every1, i love every1 and hope the best for u guys. take care brother.
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11/05/2012 02:50 PM
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We're not married but we both own our house. I don't want to leave because that would mean 5 years down the drain. If I really am the asshole then what do I do to make it up. I want to be a prize hubby to her someday but she doesn't respect me at all. :(
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Hey brother, life is to short to fight we should only spread love for each other. if u love her un-unconditionally she will never leave you, unless her soul is lost. if so still love her and pray she finds love in herself. It takes a real man to apologize even if your right just so she knows u truly care. Most relathionships lack love. We should love one anuther weather u are in relathionship or not brother. god will help guide you to the right person he is in controll. And if not just pray that she does wake up because if u give her love and she truly feels it. then she would never leave you. This kind of love is super rare now a days and believe me a true good soul would never let that go. i hope my words help you guys out. I would start by praying when your all alone and ask god for guidence and to be forgivin. Remeber brother we are all not perfect and its not worth it to hate some1. send only un-conditional love and this will also make u have great wisdom. so please take this message and pray to god for forgivnes and to show u the light and wake u up to true love in yourself. go back appologize to her even if u think she is wrong and tell her your sorry u been acting the way u have and forgive you. and watch if im not right and things get great in your relathionship brother. we should love every1, i love every1 and hope the best for u guys. take care brother.
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Thank you, but what if I have worn out my sorry's and they don't mean anything to her anymore...
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11/05/2012 03:03 PM
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Hey brother, life is to short to fight we should only spread love for each other. if u love her un-unconditionally she will never leave you, unless her soul is lost. if so still love her and pray she finds love in herself. It takes a real man to apologize even if your right just so she knows u truly care. Most relathionships lack love. We should love one anuther weather u are in relathionship or not brother. god will help guide you to the right person he is in controll. And if not just pray that she does wake up because if u give her love and she truly feels it. then she would never leave you. This kind of love is super rare now a days and believe me a true good soul would never let that go. i hope my words help you guys out. I would start by praying when your all alone and ask god for guidence and to be forgivin. Remeber brother we are all not perfect and its not worth it to hate some1. send only un-conditional love and this will also make u have great wisdom. so please take this message and pray to god for forgivnes and to show u the light and wake u up to true love in yourself. go back appologize to her even if u think she is wrong and tell her your sorry u been acting the way u have and forgive you. and watch if im not right and things get great in your relathionship brother. we should love every1, i love every1 and hope the best for u guys. take care brother.
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Thank you, but what if I have worn out my sorry's and they don't mean anything to her anymore...
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Dont worry about it brother! we all are human and she must still see the goodness in your soul. but her a card, and flowers and basicly go out of your way to prove your serous and its really hard to change over night. but just remeber no1 is perfect and look her in the eyes and ask her to forgive you, tell her the truth, that she means everything to you ans you where just filled with hate which u do not understand and was taking it out on her, and that you do not ever want to loose her and will allways be there for her no matter what she wants in life, God has u guys still together for a reason brother and i got a feeling its because there is love there;) tell her you are going to start loving yourself and get rid of your inner demons and just pray and hope she can find it in her heart to look past your mistakes. You did not truly mean it, the world hatefull place and satan allmost stole u guys from god. Pray that god shows u the truth and guides you to him. You got to find love in yourself first befor u can truly show love to anuther person and tell her this. If u have faith in love and god he will not let u guys seperate. but remeber satan is allways there trying his hardest to break you guys up. This would break gods heart so he is with you brother and maybe this is why u seen my message. You can "youtube aliens are from hell" and click on "ShieldofTheSon name and watch his videos about gods words and jesus teachings" this will open your eyes brother to guide u to the right path. Love you guys brother and hope everything truly works out for you guys. These times we live are so full of hate its really hard to find love at all and it worth holding on to. Take 1 step towards god and he will take 2 towards you brother. God bless u guys i will pray for u guys. good luck my friend remeber no1 is perfect and god is looking out for ya and forgives every1!
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11/05/2012 03:03 PM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
If she is doing things to give you reason to be concerned then she shouldnt be doing that the same as you would stop doing something that bothered her, even if it means she needs to quit her job and stay home.
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11/05/2012 03:15 PM
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You should talk,
about boundaries in the relationship,
about expectations,
about roles and how you both see the relationship working
or not working.
If there is not mutual respect it will not last.
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11/05/2012 03:28 PM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
Leave her...that is stress you do NOT want to keep.
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Good tip.
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Be a man and draw a line in the sand. Let her know that line there. Tell her if she ever does that crap again she will not be welcome back. Then stick to it.
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11/06/2012 03:39 AM
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"A girlfriend is a female partner one is romantically and/or sexually involved with. It can also refer to a female friend.

This term is often used loosely, and there is some debate over what exactly constitutes a girlfriend.

Scope

Partners in committed non-marital relationships are also sometimes described as a significant other or simply partner, especially if the individuals are cohabiting.[2]

Girlfriend and partner mean different things to different people; the distinctions between the terms are subjective. How the term is used will ultimately be determined by personal preference.[3][4]

A 2005 study of 115 people ages 21 to 35 who were either living with or had lived with a romantic partner notes that the lack of proper terms often leads to awkward situations, such as someone upset over not being introduced in social situations to avoid the question."

[link to en.wikipedia.org]
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11/06/2012 03:43 AM
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u need to trust me the worst thing u could do is stayh and "work thru it""

worst choice of my whole life.

dont waste your life.
trust me
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11/06/2012 03:44 AM
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get this: your gf threatens to leave.


heres what you do:

you leave hear.


ohyeah
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get this: your gf threatens to leave.


heres what you do:

you leave hear*.


ohyeah
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*her
RingOfAll
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11/06/2012 03:51 AM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
You could kill her, always an option.
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11/06/2012 03:53 AM
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dumb her ugly ass. You are a pussy, OP.
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11/06/2012 03:55 AM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
Since she doesn't leave she must love you.
She is wishing for something from you though.
What is it?
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11/06/2012 03:56 AM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
Tell her you cheated on her.

If she angrily responds with "Well I have been cheating on you too," you have your answer.

If she responds in tears, start laughing and play it off as a joke. She will understand.

Works everytime.
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THIS.

cruise
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11/06/2012 03:57 AM
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there was a country and western song a number of years ago that you need to get. Play it frequently when she is there.

I do not recall the artist but the song title is;

"Thank God and Greyhound You're Gone"
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11/06/2012 03:59 AM
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I don't trust her that well and sometimes I say things that imply she would or has cheated on me and then she threatens to leave me but so far 100% of the time over the dozens of times she never leaves (even how convincing she tries to be). Part of me wants to stay in this relationship and part of me does not. I don't know what to do. :(
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25234912


I've been enduring this with my husband for 5 years. (we married 5 years ago) It is degrading, threatening, makes you feel inferior, you name it. I hate it and I do not like him. It turns a person OFF. It is all about CONTROL. I can't wait til he saids it again...I will tell him GOGOGO!!!!I do not drink, I'm smart and pretty, have a lovely family, he is a total A**hole. See, I told you I can't stand him. The same will happen to you. If you marry her, look for total misery.
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I'm in a similar situation.

He's very controlling, micromanages my every move, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time and my number one priority is to not get him upset because he has a horrible temper. He won't leave though, he has threatened to a few times but he never does. It can wreck a person emotionally and physically. In my case the only way I can get away from him is if I move to another town which I don't want to have to do. I want my life back.
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11/06/2012 04:00 AM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
Tell her you cheated on her.

If she angrily responds with "Well I have been cheating on you too," you have your answer.

If she responds in tears, start laughing and play it off as a joke. She will understand.

Works everytime.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9620311


THIS.

cruise
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27049752


OOH that's cruel and so NOT funny!
Who are you Don Rickles?
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11/06/2012 04:04 AM
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You could kill her, always an option.
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That's nearly as bad as reading the Bible to her in a bathtub.
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11/06/2012 04:09 AM

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You own the house together. She's too lazy to deal with the paperwork.
"There are nights when the wolves are silent and only the moon howls." ~
George Carlin
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11/06/2012 04:28 AM
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Re: My girlfriend keeps threatening to leave, but never does.
Tell her you cheated on her.

If she angrily responds with "Well I have been cheating on you too," you have your answer.

If she responds in tears, start laughing and play it off as a joke. She will understand.

Works everytime.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9620311


THIS.

cruise
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27049752


OOH that's cruel and so NOT funny!
Who are you Don Rickles?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20068093


Why isn't it funny? it IS fucking funny.

At least he would get the info he wants to know.
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11/06/2012 04:57 AM

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If she hasn't stolen anything from you and keeps your secrets, consider the value of that. However if she tells you that she kept your secrets, yet complained to her fiends about your quirks then do some cord cutting, and let her go.
It sounds like your girlfriend is only with you because she has yet to find someone better. Once she does find someone better than you, she will be gone to them instead of you, until she gets bored again. Does she leave you alone for thanksgiving and Christmas, and her birthday? Maybe says she is homesick for her family, then say her family does not include you? Then comes to stay with you because she is bored, yet won't cook or clean for you? Look towards doing some cord cutting, of ties that are dysfunctional between you and her. If you can let her go, both of you will find who you're both supposed to be with. She might be with you because you are kind and keep buying her stuff. What does she get for you on your birthday and for the Christmas holidays? Does she buy you little presents every once in a while or buys hardly anything for you, ever? Or is it you that keeps getting her little things? What will you do if you find someone better suited for you than her, and she is still hanging around?
Religion is 100% reusable.

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11/06/2012 05:02 AM

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Hey brother, life is to short to fight we should only spread love for each other. if u love her un-unconditionally she will never leave you, unless her soul is lost. if so still love her and pray she finds love in herself. It takes a real man to apologize even if your right just so she knows u truly care. Most relathionships lack love. We should love one anuther weather u are in relathionship or not brother. god will help guide you to the right person he is in controll. And if not just pray that she does wake up because if u give her love and she truly feels it. then she would never leave you. This kind of love is super rare now a days and believe me a true good soul would never let that go. i hope my words help you guys out. I would start by praying when your all alone and ask god for guidence and to be forgivin. Remeber brother we are all not perfect and its not worth it to hate some1. send only un-conditional love and this will also make u have great wisdom. so please take this message and pray to god for forgivnes and to show u the light and wake u up to true love in yourself. go back appologize to her even if u think she is wrong and tell her your sorry u been acting the way u have and forgive you. and watch if im not right and things get great in your relathionship brother. we should love every1, i love every1 and hope the best for u guys. take care brother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5929355



Thank you, but what if I have worn out my sorry's and they don't mean anything to her anymore...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25234912



It is also possible that she has heard the words "I love you" from other men so much that it doesn't mean anything anymore. She may be widely traveled, yet to you says she doesn't go anywhere. To you she may be showing a tame version of how she is when she isn't with you
Religion is 100% reusable.

"Good Queen Sarah, protect us from the Black Dog King"
- from the play, Dissocia

Sometimes to get people to believe in themselves again, outlandish things must be said - [link to www.tcm.com]
Smashy76

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just ask yourself "is this what I want for the rest of my life? Do I want to feel this way for the rest of my life"

If you say "yes" then you'd better stop being a douche and accusing her or she will cheat, because she's getting in shit for any ways, so what's the difference? You also need to grow up and learn that no matter what you do, if she wants to cheat, she will and you can't do shit all about it. Also you're making her associate you and talking to you sucks as it's always a fight. If she doesn't want to be with you, she won't and you can't stop her if she's made up her mind.



Also, man the fuck up! no woman likes insecure whiny guys. Have some fucking balls, be a man, one that doesn't need to coddled like a baby in mamma's arms. If she's with you, it's cause she DOESN'T want to split, so just be happy.

Most people who cheat are the most insecure. They think since they are getting away with it, their partner is too.

Women hate replacing a guys mother.
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11/06/2012 05:43 AM
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man up you little bitch and call her bluff, would you rather waste 6 years instead of 5?

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