Positive sickly sweet people make me nauseous

Do you mean the fake sweetness from people but really inside their hearts it's dark and fear

No. I think its the fake sweetness that comes from shallow thought and mental mediocrity.

debbie downers make me nauseous

Goth

Thank you :)

I always think of the camp counselors in the second Addams Family movie when I think of forced/fake kindness.
"Don't we just hate them? Don't we wish they would just die? No, we don't!!"

My mother is a narcissistic

negative "nellie"

but I don't like positive pussies

either

any sweet is better thab dour sour

nope.

I agree. Real nice and smiley people bore me. It's like they are superficial and have no depth.

I say, quit faking it, already. I know they have some problems ... that's what I want to hear about. So I can relate.

Gnomemean?

There you are,knew you,or someone like you,wouldn't be far away. Fairy tales are for the children.

^ This, nobody on this earth is perfect. Balance is key.

This is relevant to me.

Relevant perhaps to any person who can remember when they were a small child and when being punished or "sent to their room", indulged in the most extreme kinds of self pity and dramatic thought.

Probably relates to most people, if one allows them self to dig deep enough.



One is blind to so many beautiful strange things that go on all the time in the most common of situations if they are only somehow superficially "happy".

If a person has never really suffered, but always lives a sweet or pampered life, then they can only be superficially happy, and in reality are probably bored and discontent.

But if they have been through the depths of hell, and in so many ways, their eyes are totally open to the beauty and that surrounds them all the time in so may ways and they are eternally grateful for every precious liquid drop and second of time that awareness affords.

In that case even ones energetic eye becomes open and they naturally read the fundamental energy of reality ahead of the simple superficial view of the blind discontent.

One can not know true contentment until they have scraped the depths of hell, or experienced also total loss or hopelessness. They are all equally valuable to a soul in the end. The good and the bad. The silence and the noise. And each to it's extreme too.

"Jesus descended into hell before rising into heaven", this is a roadmap for ALL souls.

There is one of the basic elemental energetic forces that some people confront perhaps a little more than others; the infinite loneliness and sadness. In my humble opinion that general state of being is NOT good to follow up with relationships, more people and noise, but better perhaps even more isolation, and through that hopefully learning to pass a barrier, to first learn to love the loneliness and sadness as an abstract energy, even harness it in some ways, and then to replace loneliness with solitude, which is a state of contentment, balance, resolve, a state of strength and clarity, when or if, one comes out the other end successfully.

Last Edited by ehecatl on 11/05/2012 09:20 PM