Lightworkers I need help pleas

How does this problem have to do with lightworkers?
You want them to send frequency of love to kill the baby?
You want it to be a successful birth when you want to abort the baby at the same time?
Why were you so easy on a guy who is so sketchy?
The solutions is about human ethics and beliefs. What do you belief is right for you and the baby? You are also 36 years old, why do you still need to seek advice from your parents?
If it was a false alarm, great.
If it is not a false alarm, great. Raise the baby. Take responsibility.
If it is not a false alarm and you really really have to abort the baby, do it and send pictures of the fetus to your ex-boyfriend. Send it via email, mailbox, his friends, his families. Send it everyday too.

Once again, this is not an issue that lightworkers can solve. You can solve it alone. But, close friends and family members should support your decision.

Last Edited by beryuza on 11/05/2012 11:20 PM

You want light workers to help you due to your irresponsibility? Here, let me shed you some light. Wake UP! Take responsibility for yourself. You think other people want to be held accountable for your bad decisions? Give me a break!

Take control and responsibility for yourself and you will save the rest of us for helping you.

Thank you and good night.

You both are not lightworkers. You two are just looking for a group to belong. This never happened and we used birth control. Stop projecting and take the log out of your own eye before you point out the splinter in mine.

I just pointed out NOT everything happens for a reason and that just left you too butthurt! I sense fear. I guess the lightworker stuff really is bs.

Last Edited by Starlights on 11/06/2012 12:12 AM

Btw, never had a kid and never an abortion and 36. Supposed to have lost 80% of my eggs by now. Explain that. Spirits want me to raise this kid on my own, with a dead beat dad?

Maybe it's your destiny to be a Mother. This could be your last chance. You don't need that to raise a baby. Surely you could get support from family. God bless you.

Fixed.

Consider adoption.

Dear one, can you not meditate and go within and come to how you will handle it. My advice, before you kill a life, is to carry to term and put up for adoption if you find yourself unable to raise the child. And ponder why during that time, you opened your body to a man apparently not fit to be your husband or a father. What about the sex was such that you did this to yourself. I faced a situation back then myself, my issue was I couldn't say NO. I did marry the man and for many years we had a successful marriage. I did get pregnant, but lost the pregnancy 2 weeks after we married.


There are lessons you must go over in this. Why is it happening,. YOU KNOW WhY. You had sex and apparently unprotected sex. Karma is thus rooting, called experience. Now make the best you can out of it, and consider that the child has a right to life, even it is isn't convenient for you. And then READ my signature file, because "god" doesn't do this stuff to you, YOU DO THIS TO YOU. GOD DID NOT PUT THAT MAN IN YOUR LIFE< YOU OPENED THE DOOR TO HIM and since you are the one pregnant YOU WILL DEAL WITH IT. And allow God IN this time to help you thru it.

Last Edited by God Loves ALL on 11/06/2012 12:04 AM

I don't know why my computer is stalling but I we used what's called 'the method' or something like that, ya'know, right after my period, so I wasn't ovulating or not even starting to ovulate and he pulled out. It's very bizarre. I would think there was a right time and a planning and things supposed to fall into place and everything happens for a reason if you're on the right track and I haven't seen it. Now I'm miserable than ever. I think he needs an exorcism. Honestly, I'm afraid he has a demon controlling him like a puppet.

Do what you got to do, follow your heart....

Following the heart is not nessessary the easyest thing to do, me and my partner were in a desperate situation, we got a abortion, would have been our forth child, but at the time we were under a lot of pressure in many ways.

Looking back now, if i could go back and make the decision again, I wouldnt have done it.

But at the time, it was the best thing to do for our situation.

hope this helps

Hello Celtic,

Personally I feel this baby was meant to be and I really hope you keep it. If you used birth control and got pregnant it was no accident. God is making changes at this moment in time. You will be a great Mom and something tells me the guy will have a drastic change of heart when he see's the baby in the ultrasound. Good luck to you

Peace

This "method" does not work, sorry that you have found out the hard way.
All things do happen for a reason but sometimes the reasons are not apparent at first.
This experience could be the catalyst for some incredible change in your life, only to be acknowledged with hindsight.
My advice is to do what your heart tells you, don't listen to the fear.
Best of luck whichever way you go.

I appreciate your advice. You've given me good advice before. Not sure if I will follow it this time. I've struggled with depression for years and am always tired. I'm satisfied mothering my cat, I took in. She is like my child. She was a stray and skeletal and declawed and I think I saved her life, when I took her in. She CAME TO ME. She is a lot of work for me, because of me, being tired all the time, it's hard even caring for a cat. I still take good care of her.

Last Edited by Starlights on 11/06/2012 11:11 AM

I've had a condom break before and heard of women getting pregnant on the pill, several times. I've heard of men pulling out and been successful not getting their woman pregnant. I feel like this little soul inside of me chose me but made the wrong decision. I don't know the first thing about being a mom and never thought I would make a good mom.
Thank you anyway. I know what you're trying to say and YOU COULD BE 100% RIGHT. I'm very scared of it all...9 months of pain and all that, labor, terrified. I have no tolerance for pain. They say logic and emotion cannot exist side by side of logic and passion can't exist side by side. I'm too emotional. I thought I was going to pass out at the doctors yesterday. That's how emotional and a nervous wreck I am. I don't even have a car. Money is the thing that is worrying me the most and I can't take the pressure.

Im not a lightworker.

But. I'm 24, I had a baby last year at 23. I never ever wanted kids. Especially so early. But it is the best possible joy imaginable. I can't even describe how wonderful it is to have this little guy in my life. I know it sounds cliche, but there is nothing comparable to having a baby, it's just such a wonderful experience. It's just an amazing thing to see him grow and learn everyday and to see his personality come out everday. You would be raising a person. It's hard, but it's oh so worth it.

Having an abortion just because you don't want one is a little off. Everyone feels different about abortion. I used to support the woman's right to choose until I actually got pregnant. At 6 months into the pregnancy we had a 3d ultrasound, he looked very well developed, his smile (yes a smile in the womb) and his facial features look almost identical to when he was first born.

You still have the legal right to choose whether you want to terminate or not, but it will probably haunt you forever. Friends of mine have gotten it, gone on with their lives, but they're different now, and I suspect even troubled by it.

As for Dad. Maybe he will come around. If not you can do it. I have a husband whos the father of our little one. He's a good dad, and even helps out pretty tremendously I have to admit. But the level of involvement between the two of us is uneven. I am definitly the primary caregiver of the baby, even though he is around and does a lot. Just natural for a mother I guess to be the one moreso in charge of the care of a baby.

So whether Dad stays or goes, expect to do the brunt of the work regardless.

If you read my previous post, I think you will see this differently. If all things happen for a reason, why have I been struggling with money? The father is too and says he can't afford it an if I keep it he will resent me for that.
I grew up with an absent father figure. Wasn't close to my step dad and my biological dad died when I was 5 months. I had father issues my whole like. I don't want this to happen to this baby, being without a dad to be close to. I'm speaking from experience. It still bothers me to this day I never knew my real dad.

Last Edited by Starlights on 11/06/2012 11:31 AM

I want to add, This is your decision. NOT DAD's. Don't let him talk you into an abortion if you don't feel right about it. It's both yours and his baby, but it's your body and your baby is living in it - you are the only one now giving that baby life.

I'm scared the way my mom brought me up. If I get an abortion because of money issues(main reason), I hope God doesn't make my financial situation harder, because of lack of FAITH that he will provide. This is WHY I THINK IT MIGHT BE A TEST AND I DON'T KNOW WHY THE BABY'S FATHER DOESN'T SEE IT THIS WAY Thank you for your advice. I do appreciate all the advice the good people on this thread give me.
Anybody think this is a test? Maybe I'm looking too deep into it

Last Edited by Starlights on 11/06/2012 11:41 AM

To be honest, I was getting signs/synchronicities (spelling?)
to have one and the Spirits made it clear they thought it would make me happy and a baby is a Blessing and would be Blessed with one, BUT IT'S TOO SOON.
I did almost did want a baby, last year, but ONLY because I want a family that consist of THREE people. The father of this child, has put money ahead of this child and that's the reason he is wanting me to abort it.

Does anyone know if abortion was a 'sin' BEFORE Christianity came along?

I don't want to live with guilt. I ASLO don't want to have a child that will tell me he/she wishes he/she was never born and hate me for something it may inherit from me or the dad.

Last Edited by Starlights on 11/06/2012 01:19 PM

Why is it either have the baby and keep the baby or have an abortion??? Why are you not considering having the baby and putting that baby up for adoption?

There are parents out there who wish to conceive but cannot. I have friends who decided to adopt and they have a beautiful son whose biological parents could not take care of him....

I don't know about "lightworkers" but I hope that you find the answers that you are looking for.

I will send you prayers for clarity and strength, no matter what the future holds. I hope that you really spend some time in deep thought before you make any big decisions. Be kind to yourself.

I know, I thought about it, but what if I got attached to it and wouldn't be able to let it go? Also, I never knew my real biological father. He died when he was 28 and I was only 5 months(it wasn't his fault). It bothered me though that I never knew him. I don't want the same thing to happen to this baby when it grows up. Thinking I abandoned her or him. Thank you anyway.

Hello ! I am a lightworker! I will send lots of energy and love your way. Please accept it and everything will be okay!

I've read this thread and really thought about it. I am not going to let THIS BULLY make me get an abortion, by threatening to not ever want to be with me again and not paying anything for the baby if I had it. He HAS to pay CHILD support. Isn't it a law. He can stop smoking a pack a day and come up with the money if he really wants too.

Thank you people that helped! I'm not going to bully me like he's done before this too. It's the last straw!

I've read this thread and really thought about it. I am not going to let THIS BULLY make me get an abortion, by threatening to not ever want to be with me again and not paying anything for the baby if I had it. He HAS to pay CHILD support. Isn't it a law? He can stop smoking a pack a day and come up with the money if he really wants too.

Thank you people that helped! I'm not going to bully me like he's done before this too. It's the last straw!

Sorry for the double post. My computer's been slow.

So isn't it a law he has to pay or he'll get in trouble??? I never went through this or known anyone that went through this.

DEAR, YOU ARE THE GOD FUCKING WITH YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION BY YOUR OWN POOR CHOICES. GOD DOESN'T DO ANY OF THIS, AS I JUST EXPLAINED. YOU DO. YOU SPREAD YOUR LEGS. YOU WERE NOT THINKING ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES, BECAUSE IF YOU WERE USING BIRTH CONTROL SOMEWHERE YOU OR HE MESSED UP WITH THAT ONE TOO.

DO NOT SPREAD YOUR LEGS IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO RAISE THE CHILD.. ITS JUST THAT SIMPLE. FREE WILL HAS CONSEQUENCES.

Last Edited by God Loves ALL on 11/06/2012 09:28 PM

Been having sex since I was 16! Never gave had a child or abortion and now almost 37. Several months ago, had a condom break, wasn't pregnant. Known women that got pregnant on the pill and the gel. So, what's your point? You don't think GOD put that there? Don't be a hypocrite. I've been 'responsible' for 20 years so don't preach. I know God wanted me to have a child a long time ago but that's none of your business, how I knew... It's been years. YOU don't know what GOD wants for me and don't have good intuitive skills. Talk to the hand.
<This comment was for the post above this one and ya'll know I'm right>

Last Edited by Starlights on 11/06/2012 09:44 PM