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thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644  United States11/06/2012 09:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just found out, from the a doctors pregnancy test, at the clinic...I tested positive for being pregnant.... Won't know for sure before the ultrasound. They said it could be a 'false positive', I think it happens in 1 out of 5 woman. I hope I'm that 1 out of 5. I've been crying all day because the father wants to get it aborted, and I don't want to be a single mom. I'm afraid abortion might be a major sin and that might be a huge mistake. I'm 36yo and never had a baby. Why is this happening. I'm going to talk to a nurse practitioner/couselor Tue. afternoon. It's a little after midnight, here. Quoting: thecelticcats I have to talk to her. I'm feeling like I want to die cuz the father is being so cold. He want's to just date me and see other women. Why did God put him in my life and why is God doing this to me? Dear one, can you not meditate and go within and come to how you will handle it. My advice, before you kill a life, is to carry to term and put up for adoption if you find yourself unable to raise the child. And ponder why during that time, you opened your body to a man apparently not fit to be your husband or a father. What about the sex was such that you did this to yourself. I faced a situation back then myself, my issue was I couldn't say NO. I did marry the man and for many years we had a successful marriage. I did get pregnant, but lost the pregnancy 2 weeks after we married. There are lessons you must go over in this. Why is it happening,. YOU KNOW WhY.  You had sex and apparently unprotected sex. Karma is thus rooting, called experience. Now make the best you can out of it, and consider that the child has a right to life, even it is isn't convenient for you. And then READ my signature file, because "god" doesn't do this stuff to you, YOU DO THIS TO YOU. GOD DID NOT PUT THAT MAN IN YOUR LIFE< YOU OPENED THE DOOR TO HIM and since you are the one pregnant YOU WILL DEAL WITH IT. And allow God IN this time to help you thru it.I'm scared the way my mom brought me up. If I get an abortion because of money issues(main reason), I hope God doesn't make my financial situation harder, because of lack of FAITH that he will provide. This is WHY I THINK IT MIGHT BE A TEST AND I DON'T KNOW WHY THE BABY'S FATHER DOESN'T SEE IT THIS WAY  Thank you for your advice. I do appreciate all the advice the good people on this thread give me.Anybody think this is a test? Maybe I'm looking too deep into it  DEAR, YOU ARE THE GOD FUCKING WITH YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION BY YOUR OWN POOR CHOICES. GOD DOESN'T DO ANY OF THIS, AS I JUST EXPLAINED. YOU DO. YOU SPREAD YOUR LEGS. YOU WERE NOT THINKING ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES, BECAUSE IF YOU WERE USING BIRTH CONTROL SOMEWHERE YOU OR HE MESSED UP WITH THAT ONE TOO. DO NOT SPREAD YOUR LEGS IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO RAISE THE CHILD.. ITS JUST THAT SIMPLE. FREE WILL HAS CONSEQUENCES. I'm sure you've many poor choices! Point one finger at someone and 4 POINT BACK AT YOU! BUSTED B!TCH!  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 3646007 United States11/06/2012 09:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just found out, from the a doctors pregnancy test, at the clinic...I tested positive for being pregnant.... Won't know for sure before the ultrasound. They said it could be a 'false positive', I think it happens in 1 out of 5 woman. I hope I'm that 1 out of 5. I've been crying all day because the father wants to get it aborted, and I don't want to be a single mom. I'm afraid abortion might be a major sin and that might be a huge mistake. I'm 36yo and never had a baby. Why is this happening. I'm going to talk to a nurse practitioner/couselor Tue. afternoon. It's a little after midnight, here. Quoting: thecelticcats I have to talk to her. I'm feeling like I want to die cuz the father is being so cold. He want's to just date me and see other women. Why did God put him in my life and why is God doing this to me? I'm glad to see you will rise above and be strong. Everything happens for a reason my friend. A baby is a light within you and now if truly positive will shine a light of their own if you choose to have the baby. You should search your soul and you will find the answer. Take care and wishing you serenity. |
| thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States11/06/2012 09:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just found out, from the a doctors pregnancy test, at the clinic...I tested positive for being pregnant.... Won't know for sure before the ultrasound. They said it could be a 'false positive', I think it happens in 1 out of 5 woman. I hope I'm that 1 out of 5. I've been crying all day because the father wants to get it aborted, and I don't want to be a single mom. I'm afraid abortion might be a major sin and that might be a huge mistake. I'm 36yo and never had a baby. Why is this happening. I'm going to talk to a nurse practitioner/couselor Tue. afternoon. It's a little after midnight, here. Quoting: thecelticcats I have to talk to her. I'm feeling like I want to die cuz the father is being so cold. He want's to just date me and see other women. Why did God put him in my life and why is God doing this to me? I'm glad to see you will rise above and be strong. Everything happens for a reason my friend. A baby is a light within you and now if truly positive will shine a light of their own if you choose to have the baby. You should search your soul and you will find the answer. Take care and wishing you serenity. I think it has already started to shine a light. I feel it. My friend, do you agree with me this just might be a hard test, to see if I will be rewarded by my FAITH that GOD will take care of us and by trusting in God, my financial situation will get better, if I keep it? I didn't do this for selfish reasons, like many welfare moms do. Some women I heard only had a child to feel loved. I say get a cat or dog, lol. I'm not selfish at all when it comes to another person's life. It always terrified me that I wouldn't be a good enough mom, so I never wanted a kid and people thought that was strange but I want to be the best mom in the world and I don't think I have to spoil a child, but I WANT TO. Get what I'm saying? Money is important, but I trust God because he knows I didn't mean to be careless and want the best for my child. I'm really a good person, but get really mad when insulted. I can't even watch the news because I get upset at all the crap going on. It's a scary world. Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/06/2012 09:58 PM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26750182 United States11/06/2012 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does this problem have to do with lightworkers? Quoting: beryuza You want them to send frequency of love to kill the baby? You want it to be a successful birth when you want to abort the baby at the same time? Why were you so easy on a guy who is so sketchy? The solutions is about human ethics and beliefs. What do you belief is right for you and the baby? You are also 36 years old, why do you still need to seek advice from your parents? If it was a false alarm, great. If it is not a false alarm, great. Raise the baby. Take responsibility. If it is not a false alarm and you really really have to abort the baby, do it and send pictures of the fetus to your ex-boyfriend. Send it via email, mailbox, his friends, his families. Send it everyday too. Once again, this is not an issue that lightworkers can solve. You can solve it alone. But, close friends and family members should support your decision. ^^^^THIS. |
| thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States11/06/2012 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does this problem have to do with lightworkers? Quoting: beryuza You want them to send frequency of love to kill the baby? You want it to be a successful birth when you want to abort the baby at the same time? Why were you so easy on a guy who is so sketchy? The solutions is about human ethics and beliefs. What do you belief is right for you and the baby? You are also 36 years old, why do you still need to seek advice from your parents? If it was a false alarm, great. If it is not a false alarm, great. Raise the baby. Take responsibility. If it is not a false alarm and you really really have to abort the baby, do it and send pictures of the fetus to your ex-boyfriend. Send it via email, mailbox, his friends, his families. Send it everyday too. Once again, this is not an issue that lightworkers can solve. You can solve it alone. But, close friends and family members should support your decision. ^^^^THIS. ^^^^TROLL |
| thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States11/06/2012 11:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'd love to play a dirty trick on him and give him pictures of an aborted fetus and say it was his. Believe me! Thanks for the GREAT IDEA! You rock for that!  I'll probably keep it and then say it was a dirty joke and he deserved it. Might fk him up in the head, but then he might be relieved it wasn't his aborted fetus.  |
| Yvo User ID: 15073756  Guam11/06/2012 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dont let the circumstances overwhelm...focus on the love and experience. Will it be tough, will there be obstacles..yes. As for the man wanting to leave...I understand the attachement can be hard...but maybe your path is not meant to be with this man...maybe you will do amazing things on your own or with another man that will give you the love you want to share. Focus on the love and gratitude for the amazing joy that a child can bring. Yvo |
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| thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States11/06/2012 11:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP- your life is exactly where it is supposed to be. Relax and take some time to reflect and meditate. A child is an amazing gift and the benefits will be amazing to your life and experience in this life. Quoting: Yvo Dont let the circumstances overwhelm...focus on the love and experience. Will it be tough, will there be obstacles..yes. As for the man wanting to leave...I understand the attachement can be hard...but maybe your path is not meant to be with this man...maybe you will do amazing things on your own or with another man that will give you the love you want to share. Focus on the love and gratitude for the amazing joy that a child can bring. I have let the circumstances overwhelm. You can 'read between the lines'(my energy when I type my posts) Thank you. I may not be pregnant though, they told me. An ultrasound will tell for sure. The sperm may not have properly fertilized the egg. It's a 20% chance I'm not pregnant, SO maybe this was a lesson to show me his TRUE COLORS and never talk to him again. If he is that materialistic and is bullying me to abort it, he's not the type of man I want to be with. I've given him chances, but I don't think he will change anytime soon. I've seen people change, with God's help. Hardcore drug addicts and bad people can change but he is not even attractive to me anymore. His spirit has made him unattractive on the outside, so I'm done. Last Edited by Maria Monroe on 11/06/2012 11:32 PM |
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| itsamadmadworld User ID: 27182922 United States11/07/2012 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does this problem have to do with lightworkers? Quoting: beryuza You want them to send frequency of love to kill the baby? You want it to be a successful birth when you want to abort the baby at the same time? Why were you so easy on a guy who is so sketchy? The solutions is about human ethics and beliefs. What do you belief is right for you and the baby? You are also 36 years old, why do you still need to seek advice from your parents? If it was a false alarm, great. If it is not a false alarm, great. Raise the baby. Take responsibility. If it is not a false alarm and you really really have to abort the baby, do it and send pictures of the fetus to your ex-boyfriend. Send it via email, mailbox, his friends, his families. Send it everyday too. Once again, this is not an issue that lightworkers can solve. You can solve it alone. But, close friends and family members should support your decision. How dare you give that kind of reckless advice! OP - WHY would you seek advice for something that serious on a forum like this? |
| thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States11/07/2012 12:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How does this problem have to do with lightworkers? Quoting: beryuza You want them to send frequency of love to kill the baby? You want it to be a successful birth when you want to abort the baby at the same time? Why were you so easy on a guy who is so sketchy? The solutions is about human ethics and beliefs. What do you belief is right for you and the baby? You are also 36 years old, why do you still need to seek advice from your parents? If it was a false alarm, great. If it is not a false alarm, great. Raise the baby. Take responsibility. If it is not a false alarm and you really really have to abort the baby, do it and send pictures of the fetus to your ex-boyfriend. Send it via email, mailbox, his friends, his families. Send it everyday too. Once again, this is not an issue that lightworkers can solve. You can solve it alone. But, close friends and family members should support your decision. How dare you give that kind of reckless advice! OP - WHY would you seek advice for something that serious on a forum like this? I've talked to friends and family and some people on here made me think...the good people...There not all bad. I have Aspergers, didn't you read? I see things through a child's eyes. I try to think not everybody is an ahole and the haters don't do anything to my emotions at all. I wouldn't cross the street to spit on them. What do I care about the crap they post? |
| thecelticcats (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States11/07/2012 12:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hello ! I am a lightworker! I will send lots of energy and love your way. Please accept it and everything will be okay! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11643473 I have felt better ever since I started getting concerned people giving me advice, my heart felt good with, and my GUT told me certain people were sending me love, peace, clarity, prayers and energy. Be back another time and thanks. |
