Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27300636 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 628775 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27300636
Good for her, the best protection she could have is by coming forward and exposing him to the world. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 628775
I hope she found this expulsion of bottled up secrets and anger helps in her healing process.
And if this isn't true? What then should be done for false accusations and the life she ruined by lying? Why is it good to go for the internet mob instead of real justice? Why not go to a counselor instead of attention grabbing youtube which will make her $$$?
You are not a woman are you? Never worked with abused women either, I'm going to assume.
Fear is instilled in abused women, it takes a very strong girl to turn her father in for rape while the attacks are still ongoing. Most abusers put the fear of God into their victims with threats of more violence and even death.
I't how they control their victims.
It's only once they are able to escape the situation and put some perspective on it that they can see that the way they were being treated is so very wrong.
Oh yeah, a woman should just be believed for any false accusation they make. You aren't a man and haven't worked with men who have had false accusations against them ruin their life, have you? And they can't defend themselves, people like you attack them, guilty or not.
Well from my own personal experience.
Spent 7 years in an abusive marriage.
When he picked up my young son and threw him against the wall during one of his tirades.
Long story short, I plotted to get out.
He lied on the witness stand in court, but the judge saw right through him.
I was granted an immediate divorce with a lifetime restraining order protecting myself and my kids.
His family called me all kinds of names, spread rumours about me, ruined my reputation.
Years later, I get a knock on the door from the police, they are investigating my ex for making snuff films and want to know what I knew. All this 20 years after the divorce.
Took a long time, but I was vindicated.
So do I believe her, yes. The world can be a cruel and ugly place.