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Beauty guru confesses on Youtube and names father who allegedly raped, tortured her from age 4 - 13, true or false?
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You are not a woman are you? Never worked with abused women either, I'm going to assume.
Fear is instilled in abused women, it takes a very strong girl to turn her father in for rape while the attacks are still ongoing. Most abusers put the fear of God into their victims with threats of more violence and even death.
I't how they control their victims.
It's only once they are able to escape the situation and put some perspective on it that they can see that the way they were being treated is so very wrong.
Oh yeah, a woman should just be believed for any false accusation they make. You aren't a man and haven't worked with men who have had false accusations against them ruin their life, have you? And they can't defend themselves, people like you attack them, guilty or not.
Well from my own personal experience.
Spent 7 years in an abusive marriage.
When he picked up my young son and threw him against the wall during one of his tirades.
Long story short, I plotted to get out.
He lied on the witness stand in court, but the judge saw right through him.
I was granted an immediate divorce with a lifetime restraining order protecting myself and my kids.
His family called me all kinds of names, spread rumours about me, ruined my reputation.
Years later, I get a knock on the door from the police, they are investigating my ex for making snuff films and want to know what I knew. All this 20 years after the divorce.
Took a long time, but I was vindicated.
So do I believe her, yes. The world can be a cruel and ugly place.
And I know many women who are abusive, lie on the witness stand, and everything. It happens both ways. Sorry you hate men, but the reality is: there are scummy men and scummy women, and there are lying men and lying women. As long as you think "We must accept it is true" because it is an accusation you have set up a tyranny of injustice. Period.
Don't hate men, actually love men.
I don't even waste energy on hating the ex any longer, he is just not worth it.
I'm sorry you have crossed paths with abusive women, most women that claim abuse really are suffering.
Judges are very good at discerning who is lying and who is telling the truth.
That is why they are judges.
Yes there are scummy men and women, this girl appears to be disclosing the scummy man who just happens to be her father.
Unless she is one hell of a vindictive bitch and lying through her teeth, which in my opinion she is not, this guy is going to try putting the genie back in the bottle for now that the secrets are out, society will view him in a much different light.
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