Sounds to me like you got hate in your heart for your wife, and daughter. If you truly loved them you would not complain about the money you send for your child. To me your wife sounds like she might be lost herself and really needs some1 good in her life and some love and help. Its hard to make it in the evil times we live much less raise a daughter in these times where kids are taught lust instead of love "mainstreme music" these are greedy times we live and you should be praying to god and helping her with every cent u get because im sure if u guys didnt have so much hate in your hearts to begin with you she never would of turned to your EX. If she was the problem then she would have left you for anuther man, and would not be on food stamps. But from what u said it sounds like maybe it was abusive relationship either mentaly or physicaly. I ofter wounder why every1 is allways in search of a "perfect" relathionship when in facts we are humans and NO ONE IS PERFECT brother. We should only love and forgive and forget and move on. Life is to short and the times we live are to terrible to do anything other. God says u should never get a devorce because even back then most women could not work or be used for anything other then sex, so they turned to prostitution to just survive.... If fact ppl do not like the truth and take it out on there loved ones who love them more then any1 else and just feel like "hey i can find anuther person to love me the same no problem ect" then watch how long them relationships last for.... Its a never ending cycle that could be broken by yourself if u would just be man enuph to forgive and just send unconditional love brother. its never to late. I would blame yourself as to her condition..... this is fact and first step in finding love and seeing truth... then pray to god for guidience.