My exwife is on welfare and foodstamps, typical of her. | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25148952 United States 11/07/2012 06:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | (1) First, determine the noncustodial parent's income. In this case, it is $2,000. (2) Determine the appropriate percentage. For one child, it is 17%. Thus, the basic child support obligation is 17% x $2,000, or $340. [link to www.fathersrightsnetwork.net] |
Doomwaffles User ID: 27255765 Belgium 11/07/2012 06:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When your child is in poverty you stand up , be a man, and pick up the slack for your loser ex. YOU DO NOT ALLOW YOUR OWN CHILD TO LIVE LIKE THAT. Otherwise, as I said before, be grateful taxpayers are covering for your poor parenting and quit complaining. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26957116 I wish i could give you some green karma for what its worth, i meant that |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24184617 United States 11/07/2012 06:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 250 a month is not much if your ex is not working. What did she do before? What did she do when you were married? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27228929 And 24,000 a yr for child support is quite a bit from where I stand. The person that pays that must make about 100K +per yr or so I would imagine. She's a walmarter, she still works some i think. Knowing her, its the very bare minimum. Op 250 a month is a joke... ur ex needs food stamps and welfare! Let her get up on her feet for a couple years. Should have tried to work things out because you made a commitment.. just wondering, you left her for another pussy and regret not having your family now that you realize you're going to die alone |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24184617 United States 11/07/2012 06:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds to me like you got hate in your heart for your wife, and daughter. If you truly loved them you would not complain about the money you send for your child. To me your wife sounds like she might be lost herself and really needs some1 good in her life and some love and help. Its hard to make it in the evil times we live much less raise a daughter in these times where kids are taught lust instead of love "mainstreme music" these are greedy times we live and you should be praying to god and helping her with every cent u get because im sure if u guys didnt have so much hate in your hearts to begin with you she never would of turned to your EX. If she was the problem then she would have left you for anuther man, and would not be on food stamps. But from what u said it sounds like maybe it was abusive relationship either mentaly or physicaly. I ofter wounder why every1 is allways in search of a "perfect" relathionship when in facts we are humans and NO ONE IS PERFECT brother. We should only love and forgive and forget and move on. Life is to short and the times we live are to terrible to do anything other. God says u should never get a devorce because even back then most women could not work or be used for anything other then sex, so they turned to prostitution to just survive.... If fact ppl do not like the truth and take it out on there loved ones who love them more then any1 else and just feel like "hey i can find anuther person to love me the same no problem ect" then watch how long them relationships last for.... Its a never ending cycle that could be broken by yourself if u would just be man enuph to forgive and just send unconditional love brother. its never to late. I would blame yourself as to her condition..... this is fact and first step in finding love and seeing truth... then pray to god for guidience. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5929355 BEST POST IN THIS THREAD |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27251905 United States 11/07/2012 06:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | matters a lot, i pay support to prevent this kinda crap from happening. Must not pay enough if she still qualifies. That 30 cents a day thing only works for children in Ethiopia. Yah and can do without another smart mouth. I pay $250 a month, and damn hard to pay that. Lawyer wanted me to pay just $200 but I volunteered the extra $50 You people make light in something I dont consider a joke So you think because you pay $250 a month that should keep her from needing help.She is lucky to feed the child and buy her clothes for that.That might cover a weeks housing at most.If she qualifies so what at least it helps provide for the child.Its hard to just meet basic expenses now.Rent and utilities alone takes what one person can make in many instances.Sounds like you are pissed that she gets help.If you only pay $250 a month then you have to be pretty low income yourself. |
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Sungaze_At_Dawn User ID: 1458670 Canada 11/07/2012 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: The Light Under the Door In the US if you go into welfare claiming you make no money they investigate you because they can't understand how you're alive and paying for food, etc. thats interesting to read It's built into the system. If you have bills they want to know when the last time you paid them was, and where the money came from. It's rather invasive, but I suppose it prevents fraud once in a while. i agree thats very invasive and somewhat privacy impeeding on the other hand, this would be called fraud in belgium so I can't help to think that if you make yourself suspicious , you'll be investigated and there are ways to keep a low profile You guys must have a good minumum wage, and even part time work. I met a friend with 3 children when she was living next to us in a townhouse complex, and working just under the amount to qualify for benefits from KFC, so nearly full time. The wage covered rent, bills and about 1 weeks worth of food. Her daugher was eating flour and sugar in a cup while waiting for mom to come home and hopefully bring some of the leftover food you're not allowed to bring home but do anyway. I used to give the kids peanut butter and jam sandwhich's. Her youngest son was a bit street smart, making little pipes at 11 for any kind of extra money so somehow they got reported and the Ministry stepped in. She was under the amount for her family size, so despite pride, starving children are unacceptable. She had to take the boost up, and that includes back to school, medical and some extra's, after school childcare, or they would take the kids. So, don't know about your country. But I for one was very relieved when there was food on the table for them most of the month. Having them eating sugar and flour was not something anyone should be doing. Last Edited by Sungaze_At_Dawn on 11/07/2012 07:17 PM The Devil tries to convince everyone he doesn't exist. The state tries to convince everyone they cannot resist. Do not go quietly into the good night. Rage Rage against the dying light! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18066254 United States 11/07/2012 07:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | matters a lot, i pay support to prevent this kinda crap from happening. Must not pay enough if she still qualifies. That 30 cents a day thing only works for children in Ethiopia. Yah and can do without another smart mouth. I pay $250 a month, and damn hard to pay that. Lawyer wanted me to pay just $200 but I volunteered the extra $50 You people make light in something I dont consider a joke That 250 a month is NOTHING....she can't support a child off that. Of course she qualified |
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