Being nice to girls. Questions for the ladies.

No they won't. A man is judged on his looks and wealth by other men(friendship) and women. Simple, really.

Thats probably the reason why single fathers get hit on so much by women, cus they can prove they are sincere and genuine.!

A lot of decent women like lame, nerdy, shy, flawed etc. guys that are honest and genuine. It puts us at ease and makes us more comfortable showing our true selfs, flaws and all. Superficial women like the cocky, macho, conceited guys, but those relationships rarely are long term. If you're looking for a one night stand put on an act but for anything more, be yourself or you'll have to fake it for the rest of your life. It's you that you want her to fall for not some made up guy. BTW. A lot of pretty girls think the guys on "The Big Bang Theory" are pretty hot.

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The second way is to be the nice guy who doesn't get friend zoned. He's always funny and oftentimes upbeat with her. He flirts with her frequently. He lets her know without being a creepy sleaze that he wants to fuck her brains out; that he wants to be a caveman around her - but he does it in a subtle, metaphorical-yet-direct way. He lets her know that it's ON without her having to feel like she's "easy" if she goes with him. He lets her know outright when he thinks she's wrong. He doesn't ignore nor tolerate her shit. He puts her at an equal value to himself - he doesn't put her on a pedestal above himself.
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Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak.

There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though.

How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake?

if i try to be nice.. they see right through it

if i just be kind like i would to anyone, i feel dumb b/c they seem to think it's bs

if stick my tongue out like a pervert their eyes open and they smirk and get away fast

if i ignore them and pretend their not there when every other guy has a boner rdy to stick em with.. they think im a snob

i can't win with just meeting chicks out and about.

now any women I have worked with for 1-2+ years... dig me, cry when I leave. i run into a chick i havn't seen in 3 years but worked with for 5 years... they just wanna flat out fuck.

So how can i pick up chicks at the grocery store, gym, bar..etc? bar i have bad chances i know.

i had two chicks live down the hall from me and different times, after years.. one just knocked on my door and fucked my brains out. the other i ran into couple years after she left... gave her a ride and she blew me in the car. she was married.

explain myself to me. i hate having to put in years or wait years to get sex.. i wanna be on a 1 day to couple week time frame not this half decade shit

Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak.

There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though.

How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake?

Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak.

There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though.

How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake?

Basically right, you need something to stimulate that oxytocin-fueled moment of attachment. Then she's in your hands. There's no guessing about this in my experience. You'll know. If you don't know, don't work at it, you're not making progress.