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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 10:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you are sincere they will think you are a creep if you are not sincere they will think you are a dream come true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1018225 If you like someone just convince yourself you don't and they will be all over you. No they won't. A man is judged on his looks and wealth by other men(friendship) and women. Simple, really. Basically right, you need something to stimulate that oxytocin-fueled moment of attachment. Then she's in your hands. There's no guessing about this in my experience. You'll know. If you don't know, don't work at it, you're not making progress. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 10:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23991183 There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though. How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake? Thats probably the reason why single fathers get hit on so much by women, cus they can prove they are sincere and genuine.! I'd guess it's because the man has already reproduced, thus showing his strength, and the girl is also drawn into competition against the other female who is the child's mother. Showing they are sincere and genuine, please! The advice above about "getting" who the girl is and what's she's about, that's great conversational advice. If the girl is liking you, sitting close, letting her smell you and having a conversation like that will probably stimulate the attachment. I think it would be very effective. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 10:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A lot of decent women like lame, nerdy, shy, flawed etc. guys that are honest and genuine. It puts us at ease and makes us more comfortable showing our true selfs, flaws and all. Superficial women like the cocky, macho, conceited guys, but those relationships rarely are long term. If you're looking for a one night stand put on an act but for anything more, be yourself or you'll have to fake it for the rest of your life. It's you that you want her to fall for not some made up guy. BTW. A lot of pretty girls think the guys on "The Big Bang Theory" are pretty hot. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8550958 They are quite rational. The guys' brains will last a lot longer than their prettiness, and they know it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 10:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26851286 The second way is to be the nice guy who doesn't get friend zoned. He's always funny and oftentimes upbeat with her. He flirts with her frequently. He lets her know without being a creepy sleaze that he wants to fuck her brains out; that he wants to be a caveman around her - but he does it in a subtle, metaphorical-yet-direct way. He lets her know that it's ON without her having to feel like she's "easy" if she goes with him. He lets her know outright when he thinks she's wrong. He doesn't ignore nor tolerate her shit. He puts her at an equal value to himself - he doesn't put her on a pedestal above himself. ... Man I really respect you and that it seems to have worked for you. For me personally, it's way way too hard and I'm not even sure what some of it means. Fortunately I never had to do any of that. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 943791 Canada 11/09/2012 10:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23991183 There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though. How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake? where whore moans that make them hornies |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10777137 United States 11/09/2012 11:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if i try to be nice.. they see right through it Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818 if i just be kind like i would to anyone, i feel dumb b/c they seem to think it's bs if stick my tongue out like a pervert their eyes open and they smirk and get away fast if i ignore them and pretend their not there when every other guy has a boner rdy to stick em with.. they think im a snob i can't win with just meeting chicks out and about. now any women I have worked with for 1-2+ years... dig me, cry when I leave. i run into a chick i havn't seen in 3 years but worked with for 5 years... they just wanna flat out fuck. So how can i pick up chicks at the grocery store, gym, bar..etc? bar i have bad chances i know. i had two chicks live down the hall from me and different times, after years.. one just knocked on my door and fucked my brains out. the other i ran into couple years after she left... gave her a ride and she blew me in the car. she was married. explain myself to me. i hate having to put in years or wait years to get sex.. i wanna be on a 1 day to couple week time frame not this half decade shit Here here!! Times iz tough... this thread is really bringin em in (the nerdy losers that is,ha!!!) looks, dancing, money.... looks, dancing, money... |
Being Mindful User ID: 21615111 United States 11/09/2012 11:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23991183 There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though. How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake? When you deal with the real deal the heart shines and it will be felt within. www.heavenletters.org |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14596164 Canada 11/09/2012 12:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Being nice to girls often doesn't work because guys usually pretend to be nice to get girls to like them and that's just weak. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23991183 There are many ways of actually being genuinely nice though. How do ladies actually tell the difference between a man pretending to be nice as compared to just a great cool guy? What gives it away when a man is being fake? Well sometimes intuition tells us, and other times, the guy is just so smooth, that we cant really tell right away. If a guy is just pretending to be nice, time will tell all, but the girl has to keep a really close eye to figure him out. Men that fake it, can't do it for very long and they start to lose there edge, slipping up here and there. I'm not going to give away every little detail, just in case your that guy thats pretending and wants to know how Not to get caught, or, Figured out! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21211135 United States 11/09/2012 10:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you are sincere they will think you are a creep if you are not sincere they will think you are a dream come true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1018225 If you like someone just convince yourself you don't and they will be all over you. No they won't. A man is judged on his looks and wealth by other men(friendship) and women. Simple, really. Basically right, you need something to stimulate that oxytocin-fueled moment of attachment. Then she's in your hands. There's no guessing about this in my experience. You'll know. If you don't know, don't work at it, you're not making progress. |