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Being Mindful User ID: 21615111 United States 11/08/2012 06:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27274832 Australia 11/08/2012 06:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | animals are so perceptive, if you have that"knack" with them none is needed. youre so right about communication. im experiencing a communication breakdown with someone at the moment...they are "hearing" my words but not listening.ive rearranged the words trying over and over and its not working. sometimes nothing works and i know it has to be a flow back and forth, not one way with misinterpretations because they arent truly listening. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19623226 United States 11/08/2012 07:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've tried, during a heated debate I always try to provide a valid point, backed by facts with complete understanding from both sides. Too bad most people are too ignorant/stupid to communicate like a human. Or the fact is they just don't care, they would rather act like animals and tear each other up. That's fine too, just keep me out of it. |
Funney (OP) User ID: 11648979 Czechia 11/08/2012 07:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I found it very curious, as a 6 year old or so, that i really want to understand LIFE as such it was a must for me, i was frustrated as a child from this environment, for i did not understand the casue and effect, something was hidden from me and i thought, those must be people motives, which i do not know.. and yes, this was the missing element for me.. From these child dreams nothing changed to this day. I think in the same way, with LIFE in the clouds, so fragile, so strong and noble at times. Do you understand that i love you ? people ? Over all those influences shaping our minds, i still know what is it like inside, for i wanted to know exactly this, our motives and that what drives them in us. (associations, relating to experiences, ..i know i speak the same all over again..bored ha ? :D but you see, thats me, i wanted this, and for me, it is worth observing) moral reasoning takes about 250 miliseconds we make errors in between perception->relation->behaviour |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10771535 United States 11/14/2012 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the peace, like drowning, breathing in water and going to sleep, but you are Awake, and you go to the Tree not because you want to sit but because it calls you, it is you sit under the Tree, and Listen, and Learn, and never sleep |
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Cheshire~Cat User ID: 21285652 United States 11/15/2012 12:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | in humans, when it finally comes to interaction Quoting: Funney problem is, one wont ask or the other wont listen i registered, that i have not this problem with animals I have addressed this problem here: Thread: Hieroglyphs It's a start :) Last Edited by Cheshire~Cat on 11/15/2012 12:58 AM ~How fine you look when dressed in rage. Your enemies are fortunate your condition is not permanent. You're lucky, too. Red eyes suit so few. ~Only a few find the way, some don't recognize it when they do - some... don't ever want to. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 32337439 United States 01/03/2014 04:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's a nice thought isn't it? Communication fixing people... if only it was that easy. People will NOT listen due to their silly religious beliefs, beliefs drilled into them by teachers, parents, doctors, anyone with any authority. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19623226 I've tried, during a heated debate I always try to provide a valid point, backed by facts with complete understanding from both sides. Too bad most people are too ignorant/stupid to communicate like a human. Or the fact is they just don't care, they would rather act like animals and tear each other up. That's fine too, just keep me out of it. The problem is you are debating incorrectly. Whenever you debate anyone in any argument, what is effectively happening is that person is throwing the millions of ideas/experiences/beliefs they have at your handful of points. They are refuting a couple of your ideas with everything they know to be true. That is setup to failure from the start. If you wish to have success, two things must happen: First, you must debate with people who are willing to listen and learn. Second, you must show them the process of reaching your conclusion as opposed to just stating the result. If you can walk them through the process, they "learn" the concepts with you. Only then do you have a remote chance of success. |