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Did everyone have kids too early?

 
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Did everyone have kids too early?
I honestly look around and feel like one of the worlds biggest problems is people having children when they should really be waiting, figuring out life, getting a base built, or just creating a better family cohesion with THEIR parents. I mean seriously look at the world. Why are people having kids without maturing first? Most people I see are 100% neglected by their entire fa,ily from the moment they are born. They send them to "preschool" then k then 1-12 and let the state fail to raise them for them. And they "work" and pretend that that's "providing" for their family? While they completely neglect the emotional and spiritual needs of their child.

They buy a tv and sit their kid in front of them? Or " send them to school to get educated"? By liars who want to beat their souls and mind out of them. It's evil.

Having a child just to say you have children, or " because you feel like it" is not acceptable, it's cruel to the child. The rampant wickedness in society is coming from parental and familial neglect. The materialistic mindset most people have has to be taken on because their parents have on as well and no one is teaching people how to actually live, they let society mold robots and spiritually and emotionally stunted zombies out of their progeny.

Or maybe I'm just a cynic who's too sensitive and expects more LIFE out of people who are supposed to be ALIVE.
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i have kids every day

lots of them
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A woman has the same eggs her whole life, they don't get replenished like sperm.

With all of the toxins our bodies go through, by the time she is 30 and popping out babies those eggs are going to be contaminated and mutated by a lifetime of poisons already. That's why birth defects increase as a woman gets older.

Better to pop them out early while they'r still genetically intact. Sure, the parents might not have it together yet, but at least the kid has a better genetic start.
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I only have kids to collect benefits. They owe me. Thank god I have an Obama phone, heat, section 8 and a plethora of other benefits.

Good to be poor.
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Sing, O barren, thou that didst not bear; break forth into singing, and cry aloud,
thou that didst not travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate
than the children of the married wife, saith the Lord. (Isa. 54:1)

Wherefore I praised the dead which are already dead more than the living which
are yet alive. Yea, better is he than both they, which hath not yet been, who hath
not seen the evil work that is done under the sun. (Eccl. 4:2-3)

For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not. (Job 33:14)
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Sing, O barren, thou that didst not bear; break forth into singing, and cry aloud,
thou that didst not travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate
than the children of the married wife, saith the Lord. (Isa. 54:1)

Wherefore I praised the dead which are already dead more than the living which
are yet alive. Yea, better is he than both they, which hath not yet been, who hath
not seen the evil work that is done under the sun. (Eccl. 4:2-3)

For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not. (Job 33:14)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7254491


God just spoke to me through those... Thank you. I was unfamiliar with the first two and I especially like them.

Is "the married wife" referring to the bride of Christ? It would make sense that people who are married to god and Christ ( the elect) would have fewer or no kids knowing how evil the world is and knowing that they won't be marrying or having children in heaven. ( why is that? Does he just not want more souls by then?)
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The Feminist Movement is a NWO tool to destroy the family and western civ; depopulate the west.

If children does not happen early in life it often will not happen at all, and the NWO knows this.
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It's always too early to have kids. Never a good time!
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No. I had them on time, actually one came 3 days late. chuckle
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I don't know. I had all my kids while in my twenties. My husband and were pretty grown up, but became total grownups once we were responsible for more little human beings. Worked hard, took care of our kids, it was the right thing to do.
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The Feminist Movement is a NWO tool to destroy the family and western civ; depopulate the west.

If children does not happen early in life it often will not happen at all, and the NWO knows this.
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So true. When I was of childbearing age, the conventional wisdom was to have your children before age 30 (for females). We had no fertility problems, and had healthy kids. Don't wait til your forty and then try to get pregnant. It doesn't work well.
"When tyrants tremble in their fear, and hear their death knell ringing,
When friends rejoice both far and near, how can I keep from singing"

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I was 19 the first time I became pregnant, I miscarried at 8 weeks.

3 months later I became pregnant again & gave birth at the age of 20. Almost died 2 weeks later when I lost 65% blood supply one night.

I was 25 when my 2nd one was born.

When I became pregnant, things were going good for us but afterwards not so good, especially financially.

I stayed home with my kids full time, especially the first year. After that, I would leave them with their dad for short periods of time to have a little me time now & then.

My kids are 22 & 17 now. My oldest is married & lives about 4 hours away. My youngest is engaged to a great guy & they are already making wedding plans but kids are in the future, not too close.

If you wait until you can afford to have kids, you won't have them because there are always financial concerns. When I hear the numbers of what it costs to raise a kid from birth thru college I just laugh. I have to wonder, who really comes up with that number?
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A woman has the same eggs her whole life, they don't get replenished like sperm.

With all of the toxins our bodies go through, by the time she is 30 and popping out babies those eggs are going to be contaminated and mutated by a lifetime of poisons already. That's why birth defects increase as a woman gets older.

Better to pop them out early while they'r still genetically intact. Sure, the parents might not have it together yet, but at least the kid has a better genetic start.
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Totally correct. Even with all the so-called scientific advances, eggs get old, older eggs leads to more problems.
"When tyrants tremble in their fear, and hear their death knell ringing,
When friends rejoice both far and near, how can I keep from singing"

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Sing, O barren, thou that didst not bear; break forth into singing, and cry aloud,
thou that didst not travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate
than the children of the married wife, saith the Lord. (Isa. 54:1)

Wherefore I praised the dead which are already dead more than the living which
are yet alive. Yea, better is he than both they, which hath not yet been, who hath
not seen the evil work that is done under the sun. (Eccl. 4:2-3)

For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not. (Job 33:14)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7254491


God just spoke to me through those... Thank you. I was unfamiliar with the first two and I especially like them.

Is "the married wife" referring to the bride of Christ? It would make sense that people who are married to god and Christ ( the elect) would have fewer or no kids knowing how evil the world is and knowing that they won't be marrying or having children in heaven. ( why is that? Does he just not want more souls by then?)
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Praise Jesus.

For, behold, the days are coming, in the which they shall say, Blessed are the
barren, and the wombs that never bare, and the paps which never gave suck.
(Luke 23:29)

And woe unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck in those days!
(Matt. 24:19)

But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. (1 Cor. 6:17)

For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name (Isa. 54:5)
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Re: Did everyone have kids too early?
At first I thought I might have got married too early. I was the first of my friends to start a new family.

Then as the years go by I see some of them getting older and set in their ways, and too cautious to settle down...seem unhappy, choices narrowing as they get older. Then I realized it was actually a good thing I settled down early when I still had energy and the crazy youthful attitude of "plunge in without thinking too much about it." Otherwise nothing would get done!

Life is shorter than you think, don't wait too long or time might pass you by. This is true for lots of things, not only the family, wife, kids, etc.
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"praise Jesus"

Every instant I'm alive! I love him more than my own life or life itself, he is the epitome of perfection. Never been or will be in love with someone more :)



Why do people believe that women can't have children when they are old? I honestly do not understand that belief. They believe the science more than they have hope or trust in god to perform miracles or keep them able? He did it with Sarah and look how old she was then! I'm sure he's only gotten better at performing miracles like that.


Someone is going to say "the female body can't" or "it's a fact" and I'll just say, you're leaving god out of the equation with him everything is possible and humans also do a lot of stuff that hurts their own bodies for all we know we should all be living foreveron earth and women should be bearing children in their 100s still looking like their 20 but people just mess themselves up or go down all the wrong paths as a standard and nobody has achieved that yet because nobody obeys trusts or walks with god long enough for it to happen.
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i was 27, 29, and 32. Old enough. Love my kids hf
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Early or late, loving them and doing right by them is the most important.
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Only now, do I even feel somewhat mature enough
to even think of properly fathering offspring.
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We waited too long. I am 35 and my husband is 44 and we are struggling with infertility and have been for a year. People are waiting too long to have kids. It's a shame you have to be so old to be able to afford them. Maybe this is part of population control? It's doubtful because losers breed with no regard to how they will afford kids and the losers far outnumber responsible people who actually wait to have kids until they can afford them.
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So op would you prefer us having kids in our fifties instead??
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I was 28, feel it was too early.

Still trying to find myself at 36 and develop a greater understanding of life which I can then impart on my child.

I like the ancient culture idea that the young have the kids but the teaching is left to the elders who have developed wisdom.
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I honestly look around and feel like one of the worlds biggest problems is people having children when they should really be waiting, figuring out life, getting a base built, or just creating a better family cohesion with THEIR parents. I mean seriously look at the world. Why are people having kids without maturing first? Most people I see are 100% neglected by their entire fa,ily from the moment they are born. They send them to "preschool" then k then 1-12 and let the state fail to raise them for them. And they "work" and pretend that that's "providing" for their family? While they completely neglect the emotional and spiritual needs of their child.

They buy a tv and sit their kid in front of them? Or " send them to school to get educated"? By liars who want to beat their souls and mind out of them. It's evil.

Having a child just to say you have children, or " because you feel like it" is not acceptable, it's cruel to the child. The rampant wickedness in society is coming from parental and familial neglect. The materialistic mindset most people have has to be taken on because their parents have on as well and no one is teaching people how to actually live, they let society mold robots and spiritually and emotionally stunted zombies out of their progeny.

Or maybe I'm just a cynic who's too sensitive and expects more LIFE out of people who are supposed to be ALIVE.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19278758


Well said. Could NOT agree more. Evaluating some of our social values, particularly ones that put pressure on young adults to be "normal" by getting married and raising children before they're financially and emotionally ready for that kind of responsibility, is something that we need to take very seriously. Having children (or getting married, for that matter) just because you think it's "what people do" is totally unacceptable, and it could probably be blamed for more than a few of our society's social, political, and economic failings.
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I honestly look around and feel like one of the worlds biggest problems is people having children when they should really be waiting, figuring out life, getting a base built, or just creating a better family cohesion with THEIR parents. I mean seriously look at the world. Why are people having kids without maturing first? Most people I see are 100% neglected by their entire fa,ily from the moment they are born. They send them to "preschool" then k then 1-12 and let the state fail to raise them for them. And they "work" and pretend that that's "providing" for their family? While they completely neglect the emotional and spiritual needs of their child.

They buy a tv and sit their kid in front of them? Or " send them to school to get educated"? By liars who want to beat their souls and mind out of them. It's evil.

Having a child just to say you have children, or " because you feel like it" is not acceptable, it's cruel to the child. The rampant wickedness in society is coming from parental and familial neglect. The materialistic mindset most people have has to be taken on because their parents have on as well and no one is teaching people how to actually live, they let society mold robots and spiritually and emotionally stunted zombies out of their progeny.

Or maybe I'm just a cynic who's too sensitive and expects more LIFE out of people who are supposed to be ALIVE.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19278758


Well said. Could NOT agree more. Evaluating some of our social values, particularly ones that put pressure on young adults to be "normal" by getting married and raising children before they're financially and emotionally ready for that kind of responsibility, is something that we need to take very seriously. Having children (or getting married, for that matter) just because you think it's "what people do" is totally unacceptable, and it could probably be blamed for more than a few of our society's social,
political, and economic failings.
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Yes... And the idea that it's normal to kick people out of the house the moment they turn 18 or "weird" for a progeny to live in the same house longer than that. Do animals kick their kids out? No they stay together forever in packs and thrive together.

A huge part of it is the whole brainwashing scam that is "education" and college. It's a total hoax and everyone buys into it and it breaks up families for a supposed gain or reward and the end result is everyone fails and is unhappy and sells their souls for a job they hate and that really doesn't do anything for society.
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So op would you prefer us having kids in our fifties instead??
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Yes, or older, or not at all. It's cruel to bring a kid into the world that you can't raise, especially if you aren't can't or haven't figured out how to take care of yourself. Even if it's your "purpose" ( which is bullshit). It's just downright cruel to the kid.
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Early or late, loving them and doing right by them is the most important.
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Which is what I'm saying, most people can't do that right because they are "at work" 24/7 so they slough off raising their kid on the school system and the state and then somehow expect a parent child bond when they put In no effort and can't even love themselves.
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Yes... And the idea that it's normal to kick people out of the house the moment they turn 18 or "weird" for a progeny to live in the same house longer than that. Do animals kick their kids out? No they stay together forever in packs and thrive together.

A huge part of it is the whole brainwashing scam that is "education" and college. It's a total hoax and everyone buys into it and it breaks up families for a supposed gain or reward and the end result is everyone fails and is unhappy and sells their souls for a job they hate and that really doesn't do anything for society.
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Nice post and cool thread OP.
As I was reading it earlier, I thought to myself that perhaps
this current, ongoing economic depression would cause families
to become extended once again rather than nuclear.

Three or four generations living in the same house or same land.

There are a lot of benefits besides economic with this sort of arrangement.
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Waiting until you can afford it is too lonG? Did I read that right? College is a damned scam, so there goes most of your " money" worries. And material things are a waste of time and souls, raising a kid on the bear minimums, food, water, and love, costs little. People eggar want to buy all sorts of presents at Christmas and send them to a " good school" are actually doIng the kid a disservice, there's no love in sending your kid into debt to become a slave to a fiat currency.


I guess I'm right. Most of the world is having kids too earlybecause they're having them before they realize what a hoax99% of society is
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Yes... And the idea that it's normal to kick people out of the house the moment they turn 18 or "weird" for a progeny to live in the same house longer than that. Do animals kick their kids out? No they stay together forever in packs and thrive together.

A huge part of it is the whole brainwashing scam that is "education" and college. It's a total hoax and everyone buys into it and it breaks up families for a supposed gain or reward and the end result is everyone fails and is unhappy and sells their souls for a job they hate and that really doesn't do anything for society.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19278758


Nice post and cool thread OP.
As I was reading it earlier, I thought to myself that perhaps
this current, ongoing economic depression would cause families
to become extended once again rather than nuclear.

Three or four generations living in the same house or same land.

There are a lot of benefits besides economic with this sort of arrangement.
 Quoting: wisc_natureboy


Look at mexicans. They stick together and pool their money.

Destroying the family is destroying the base oef the pyramid. From there, controlling everyone is easy because they need to look to the state or their likewise neglected peers for family.
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I had my first at 27, 2nd at 29... Married 4 years before getting pregnant with my first. The one thing my husband and I wanted was for me to be a stay at home mom....if we couldn't do that, we would have waited longer to have kids until I could be a SAHM. Either way though, the timing was right for us and you grow a lot as a person and with each other after having kids (at least we did). There are deadbeat parents out there and young moms who don't take care of their kids or don't want to spend time with them. ...that kids are more of a nuisance taking away from their "me" time. I think you see that more with teen and very young mothers though or moms that have other issues--depression, relationship problems, etc.

I do notice younger moms tend to have a more laid back attitude about child raising than the older moms...and i sometimes see more "hovering" among the older moms. Also, the older moms I know have kept their careers in one way or another--working 20-40 hour weeks. --and not necessarily because the money is absolutely needed. I think older moms have a harder time adjusting and changing their previous pre-kids life, and kids end up with a nanny or full time preschool during the week. Honestly, don't know how 2 full time working parents with kids do it, time is stretched really thin as it is as a stay at home mom. I guess everyone finds their balance one way or another.
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First child at 35, second at 38...too late I think, but I sure enjoyed my younger years! :-)





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