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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1218376 11/09/2012 10:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! baby becomes unhealthier from that |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25601325 11/09/2012 10:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? YOU PLAYED THAT ROLE BUT STILL IT DOESN'T MATTER DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25601325 11/09/2012 10:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go buy yourself some high quality pheromones. Dump that shit on you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3987337 Fuck her hard and good. Easy and done. LOL! TRICK HER TO FUCKING TRICK HER WITH CHEMICALS TRICK HER WITH MAGIC MONEY CAR ETC FUCK THAT! JUST LIVE LIFE LIKE WE USED TO! DON'T PLAY THE GAME, IT'S DEGRADING AND TAKES YOUR GOD HOOD AWAY FROM YOU! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25601325 11/09/2012 10:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! baby becomes unhealthier from that AND THE FACT THAT SHE JUST GOES ALONG WITH PHERMONE GUY IS RETARDED, IT'S LIKE SHE DOESN'T HAVE BRAINS THUS THEY WEAR WAR PAINT EVERY DAY BECAUSE THEY'RE INSECURE THEY SEEK THIS AND THAT, THINKING IT'S SOCIAL STANDARDS AND CONSENSUS/POPULAR IT'S ALL A SCAM WAKE UP |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 8659534 11/09/2012 10:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | do you meet them from dating sites? If so, then this is why you keep getting friendzoned. These bitches are only interested in meeting a guy, being lavished with drinks and attention, then they move on to the next guy, then the next. You have to REALLY get to know a woman before you can get it on with her, and I suggest you start socializing more, so you can meet more people (women). You never know, you might just find the right one. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 11/09/2012 10:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! baby becomes unhealthier from that AND THE FACT THAT SHE JUST GOES ALONG WITH PHERMONE GUY IS RETARDED, IT'S LIKE SHE DOESN'T HAVE BRAINS THUS THEY WEAR WAR PAINT EVERY DAY BECAUSE THEY'RE INSECURE THEY SEEK THIS AND THAT, THINKING IT'S SOCIAL STANDARDS AND CONSENSUS/POPULAR IT'S ALL A SCAM WAKE UP She may well have a lot of brains but she is also a female, a biological animal. And a good thing too, vive la difference! Yes women obviously use a lot of tools to appeal to men's visual senses, and they may take care to apply them subtly so they are indetectible to men, esp. horny men. All's fair in love and war, and it's more effective to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4946422 11/09/2012 11:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, gal here and I have to say, I do not have a "checklist". In fact most girls probably decide within the first 5 minutes if they are going to sleep with you or not. It's a matter of deciding when to actually act on that. Granted, if the chemistry is exceptional or a girl is kinda slutty you are much more likely to score within a date or 2. But friendzone does not equal never getting any, unless she says let's be friends and then ignores you entirely or something. She actually might have a lot going on and not want to start something until she has her shit together. Pro tips though? Go for the quiet girls at a party, get them a few drinks and watch magic happen as you throw some compliments their way. If she seems in to you, hug her and say she is so cute you just can't help it. Stuff like that, get inside our heads and make us feel wanted. I've seen lots of guy friends score doing this stuff. Last thought. Avoid the creeper vibe. Lots of intense staring, obvious sexual intent in touch and conversation, pretty much mentally screwing a girl as you talk will give off a very uncomfortable feeling to someone... NOT saying you are like this at all, OP! Just pointing that out in general. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4298234 11/09/2012 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quit trying to get in her head. You don't even know this bitch. Its creeping her the fuck out. Friends just means she has decided she will not ever have sex with you but you're not a creepy fuck so she will stay in touch with you. Find a new chick, and this time don't creep her the fuck out with your desperation. Women scare easily, and they sense neediness from a mile away. Let her take the lead at first, and let her think she is in control of the situation and evaluate her ability to do just that. And quit posting this shit on here. That's indication #1 that you are way too obsessed over shit that you obviously have no control over. Take control of your own shit and quit asking for advice from anonymous strangers. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1218376 11/09/2012 11:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, you said you chose not to kiss this broad, so why are you upset that she dumped you? You sound like a whiny faggot to me, try homosexuality instead. Quoting: Butch McGregor 1218784 Nope, he sounds like a great normal guy who, once he gets with the program, will get snatched (pun intended) up so fast and hard he won't be able to breathe. 'with the program' - means? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 12675558 11/09/2012 11:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Frend means the bitch is happy to spend YOUR money, but won't put out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Leslie Zevo Commander and Beef User ID: 17090286 11/09/2012 11:48 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Frend means the bitch is happy to spend YOUR money, but won't put out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's like being with a really expensive prostitute that never fulfills her end of the deal. I am a son of Earth and starry sky. I am parched with thirst and am dying; but quickly grant me cold water from the Lake of Memory to drink. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11400595 11/09/2012 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Your being too nice... just treat them like you do your male friends, I mean troll the shit out of them... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19065650 11/09/2012 12:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Frend means the bitch is happy to spend YOUR money, but won't put out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's like being with a really expensive prostitute that never fulfills her end of the deal. I don't even know why men date, OP just do prostitutes and be done with it. Why are you whining. They are cheaper too. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 11/09/2012 03:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lots of great advices here, thanks. I decided to give her up.. She wrote an sms saying "It was great seeing you and fun but thats it".. and I replied with a "I agree, lets leave it to this then, good luck." Since then no contact and she's ignoring me. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 11/09/2012 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, gal here and I have to say, I do not have a "checklist". In fact most girls probably decide within the first 5 minutes if they are going to sleep with you or not. It's a matter of deciding when to actually act on that. Granted, if the chemistry is exceptional or a girl is kinda slutty you are much more likely to score within a date or 2. But friendzone does not equal never getting any, unless she says let's be friends and then ignores you entirely or something. She actually might have a lot going on and not want to start something until she has her shit together. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4946422 Pro tips though? Go for the quiet girls at a party, get them a few drinks and watch magic happen as you throw some compliments their way. If she seems in to you, hug her and say she is so cute you just can't help it. Stuff like that, get inside our heads and make us feel wanted. I've seen lots of guy friends score doing this stuff. Last thought. Avoid the creeper vibe. Lots of intense staring, obvious sexual intent in touch and conversation, pretty much mentally screwing a girl as you talk will give off a very uncomfortable feeling to someone... NOT saying you are like this at all, OP! Just pointing that out in general. Hey girl, thanks for the input, even though I don't agree with all your points, great advices there. But I'll be honest: For us guys its fucking hard to put off our "creeper vibe". For me personally it's harder now because I feel rejected and shit, I can't even talk to other girls properly, so I just avoid it, at least for a few days. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 6604035 11/09/2012 05:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Are you 14 years old? Dating great girls is effortless if you are in good physical shape, dress well, are interesting, are honest but tactful, and are respectful to everyone. |
| Sneetch User ID: 14967850 11/09/2012 06:08 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Happened once. Pretty terrible for me and I beat myself up over it for a bit. Then I manned the fuck up and stopped being a giant vagina around girls. You just have to treat them like your fellow (slightly more retarded) friends I guess. I feel like a girlfriend is still a drain on time/money unless its someone that you do love though. We were meant to live for so much more, have we lost ourselves? |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7061022 11/09/2012 06:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I put all men in the friendzone then after time if they prove worthy we'll move into the jump on and down each other stage. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15057455 I hate it when a man is all about sex on the first date. I think it's very low level thinking. That's why I told the OP to just do porn and prostitutes He is wasting his time and frustrating himself dating He might even cross the line |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 11/09/2012 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Are you 14 years old? Dating great girls is effortless if you are in good physical shape, dress well, are interesting, are honest but tactful, and are respectful to everyone. I guess it's harder as it sounds, though... Even know 2 days after the date I still don't know why she rejected me. Happened once. Quoting: Sneetch Pretty terrible for me and I beat myself up over it for a bit. Then I manned the fuck up and stopped being a giant vagina around girls. You just have to treat them like your fellow (slightly more retarded) friends I guess. I feel like a girlfriend is still a drain on time/money unless its someone that you do love though. I got friendzoned like 5-6 times. And it's getting worse. I always manned myself up but after each friendzoning I need like a few months to fully recover. I'm getting sick and tired of this shit. FUCK GIRLS..... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7061022 11/09/2012 06:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Are you 14 years old? Dating great girls is effortless if you are in good physical shape, dress well, are interesting, are honest but tactful, and are respectful to everyone. I guess it's harder as it sounds, though... Even know 2 days after the date I still don't know why she rejected me. Happened once. Quoting: Sneetch Pretty terrible for me and I beat myself up over it for a bit. Then I manned the fuck up and stopped being a giant vagina around girls. You just have to treat them like your fellow (slightly more retarded) friends I guess. I feel like a girlfriend is still a drain on time/money unless its someone that you do love though. I got friendzoned like 5-6 times. And it's getting worse. I always manned myself up but after each friendzoning I need like a few months to fully recover. I'm getting sick and tired of this shit. FUCK GIRLS..... U could try boys, go to a gay bar, I am sure u can score on the first date |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 11/09/2012 06:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I put all men in the friendzone then after time if they prove worthy we'll move into the jump on and down each other stage. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15057455 I hate it when a man is all about sex on the first date. I think it's very low level thinking. FUck off you dumb bitch, this is why you bitches get slapped and raped because you're all fucking dishonest with us, you play nice and all but in fact you're just waiting for some fucking ugly idiotic asshole to put his dick in your pussy. You deserve it, I'm not going to put my dick in a dumb pussy like yours . I put all men in the friendzone then after time if they prove worthy we'll move into the jump on and down each other stage. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15057455 I hate it when a man is all about sex on the first date. I think it's very low level thinking. That's why I told the OP to just do porn and prostitutes He is wasting his time and frustrating himself dating He might even cross the line Yeah that's a good advice, I'm going to fuck some good prostitutes |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 11/09/2012 06:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Are you 14 years old? Dating great girls is effortless if you are in good physical shape, dress well, are interesting, are honest but tactful, and are respectful to everyone. I guess it's harder as it sounds, though... Even know 2 days after the date I still don't know why she rejected me. Happened once. Quoting: Sneetch Pretty terrible for me and I beat myself up over it for a bit. Then I manned the fuck up and stopped being a giant vagina around girls. You just have to treat them like your fellow (slightly more retarded) friends I guess. I feel like a girlfriend is still a drain on time/money unless its someone that you do love though. I got friendzoned like 5-6 times. And it's getting worse. I always manned myself up but after each friendzoning I need like a few months to fully recover. I'm getting sick and tired of this shit. FUCK GIRLS..... U could try boys, go to a gay bar, I am sure u can score on the first date I don't want to score one you, sorry and eat a dick you fucktard |
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