Post here your experiences with girls FRIENDZONING you.

Never been friend zoned - maybe it's because im honest & interesting. I'm not ugly but not stunningly hot either.

In all honesty, going out with the intent of getting a girlfriend is what gets you friend zoned - you try too hard. You need to give up, & just let it happen - she will come along when the time is right, & she will like you even more because you're not trying to get into her pants.

Mind you, on the other end of the scale, if you already know a girl & are interested in taking it further with her, make the move - girls (or in my experience anyways) don't read the nice guy hints - you need to pretty much state your intentions. THe nice guy excuse is worn thin & so over used, it's just another way of saying "I like a girl, but I have no balls or confidence to ask her out" (which girls don't really find apealing to begin with) & then whining about friendzoning is even worse - carrying this behaviour around with you is going to prevent you from getting into a relationship.


Seriously, just start fresh, live your life, meet new people without the intention of sparking a relationship, & see how you go.

This is the first time in life that I realise this: I'm not made for a normal life, I'm not made for dating and shit

I understand now why there are people who rape and fuck prostitutes


fuck this shit

So you're basically saying I start for the 10th time all over again with the same shit to see it end like it ended this time?

NOT, men just want sex, lets all be hones with ourselves.
If we r honest, we can all move on with our lives

Um, rape is not cool.

Stick to porn and whores please.

You experience was friendzone level 1.

THIS is friendzone level 99!
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thats fucked up... Well I payed her on our first date our 10 euros ice cream and shit saying "on the second date its you who payes" so I stick with it. I didn't know that she would disappear and ignore me after the day. FUCK it

I never pay for girls but I was so sure this time to see her again... so fuck

Well there's subtleties here you see, a guy who can fuck anyone he wants probably won't want a steady relationship unless he has fucked enough chicks and is actually looking for some emotional stability/support. But for the majority of guys who can't get laid often with whoever they want, the prospect of having a constant source of vajayjay is a good one. If they find such scenario they will rejoice but only until the GF effect kicks in and other girls begin to be interested in them too, in which case they will most likely fall for temptation, cheat and then end up with nothing

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Here is my advice:

-always make sure a woman knows right away you want her-sexually-but don't be a pig about it, be flirty
-touch her during your first meetings but again, in non sexual way-be the touchy guy but don't overdo it
-dont agree with everything she says, dont put her on a pedestal, and dont be a bitch poodle-if she uses the words "friend" "nice guy" or anything like that, forget her and move on
-always have atleast 2 or 3 women on the go, getting all emotional over one woman is called ONEITIIS-its a horrible disease that it took me years to overcome
-never text or stay on the phone too long
-never respond right away to her communications-you're a busy guy who will make time for her when you're ready
-dont contact her everyday in the beginning-women don't want a needy guy-they want to chase after you, not the other way around-they are already being chased by 4 guys at once-dont be one of them
-compliment her but do it sparingly, and make them count
-when you're ready to ask her out, don't plead with her-just say something like "you should come to the movies with me, I will pick you up at 8". dont ask, just make statements-if she shoots you down, just say, Ok, and let her communicate with you next
-for gods sake dont buy her anything until after she gives you some attention-no flowers, no dinners, no candies-she is not going to like you more because you gave her a gift


Uh, if I think of anything else I will let you know

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One more piece of advice my friend: believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself, then fake it until you make it. Women can smell fear and desperation-I mean that literally. Put your mind into a zen state when it comes to women. Mating is just a game-unfortunately we have to play it.

Myself, I am 37 and now separated, but looking back I've had alot of fun with many different women. Its time for me to ratchet back a bit but if you're a young man you will take my advice.

DON'T PUT THE PUSSY ON A PEDESTAL. TREAT THEM LIKE YOU DO YOUR GUY FRIENDS BUT MAKE SURE THEY KNOW YOU WANT THEM. ITS ALL ABOUT BEING SUBTLE BUT DIRECT.

This is it, definitely. But also if you really can't find a way around it better to let go of that pursuit and focus your energy on something better. Maybe you have other talents you can exploit and in the fullness of time they will bring you success and by addition, women. Or maybe when you succeed in your endeavors you won't want women anymore, after all women are never really beneficial. Sex is desirable yes, but if you can rid yourself of the desire for sex then you will become freer than most.

Well said compadre.

Bullcrap. Every man on this planet has been "friend zoned".

That hurt my motherfucking soul, man.

So just how many years you been a virgin now then?

THANKS SO MUCH, you just described everything I suspected to be true. Thing is I behave exactly like this when I go on dates. EXACTLY but I made one mistake on this date for paying her something...

Hello my canadian Friend. Thanks, I will again believe in myself. Sometimes I forget because this Oneitis state makes me fucking vulnerable and is hard to overcome.

Everytime I meet girls I tell myself that I'm meeting my little sister, nothing else. It helps a lot!! I treat them exactly like I would treat my little sister, with the difference that I'm flirty and sexual.

Just quick: How do I quickly overcome Onetitis? I've been struggling with it now since the date is over. But its not as worse as it was compared to all other rejections.

LOL that's kinda fucked up man.

Anyway I do have a question. In the hypothetical scenario that you end up in a date with some woman for instance going for some drinks or dinner, when the time to pay comes, what is the best way to act?

I guess you directed that question to our canadian friend but I'm going to answer it. Well normally I state beforehand that everything is 50:50 unless otherwise stated.

But now I've come to the conclusion that only feminazis like to pay for themselves because they would get crazy if you'd pay for them. On the other hand, meeting a decent normal woman and paying for her shows that you're a gentleman BUT I never payed for women and got a f-close. So, no big deal.

This time though, I made the mistake to pay for her.. I don't know if this was the major reason why she rejected me.

Last date I had was with a Swedish cute chick and although I ended up making out with her in a club I did everything wrong. I payed for her shit and was just way too nice. I think she was fucking someone else in the meantime anyway. Only good thing I did was to stop talking to her when I saw the possibility of getting friend zoned.

I am shit to actually play the game, but I do know philosophically what the rules are and how it's done. Anyway I have a gf now and I am not looking to play the game anymore. But for those who do, yeah, heed the Canadian poster's advice closely.

Did the same. At least saved some self dignity..

Where did you meet your GF and how? Was the first date different with her? What did you do different from the "date" with the swedish chick?

I met my gf 6 years ago on my bday in a party at my apartment. We got drunk and stoned and had some bad sex but from then on we've been together on and off. It's particular relationship I wouldn't even know how to classify it but it certainly doesn't follow the rules of your typical dating scenarios so it's not too useful for an example.

Anyway I think the best thing a guy can do nowadays is to find a method to be able to fuck around but not commit. Marriage nowadays is like self immolation, women are insane and the system is about to collapse. All the usual desires of making a family and living a peaceful and regular life do not work anymore in the new paradigm. I think we're about to go into some worse shit than the 2 world wars of the 20th century and all their consequences. Just think about it.

yeah spanish guy, you are right, shit will get worse and marrying these days should not come up in our minds with these crazy ass bitches.

Anyway, I think I'm off from this thread because I'm thinking again of my rejection and the failed date and I fucking miss her but she's ignoring me since 3 days. What a fucking bullshit. Bye.

^yup. Though still looking for the right one'''Relax men we are who we are, we men know who we are the others who play games can well just KO.Never did understand about women an slimballs. It is what it is . Carry on. KO {kiss off}