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Manu-Koelbren

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LOL that's kinda fucked up man. cruise

Anyway I do have a question. In the hypothetical scenario that you end up in a date with some woman for instance going for some drinks or dinner, when the time to pay comes, what is the best way to act?
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I guess you directed that question to our canadian friend but I'm going to answer it. Well normally I state beforehand that everything is 50:50 unless otherwise stated.

But now I've come to the conclusion that only feminazis like to pay for themselves because they would get crazy if you'd pay for them. On the other hand, meeting a decent normal woman and paying for her shows that you're a gentleman BUT I never payed for women and got a f-close. So, no big deal.

This time though, I made the mistake to pay for her.. I don't know if this was the major reason why she rejected me.
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Last date I had was with a Swedish cute chick and although I ended up making out with her in a club I did everything wrong. I payed for her shit and was just way too nice. I think she was fucking someone else in the meantime anyway. Only good thing I did was to stop talking to her when I saw the possibility of getting friend zoned.

I am shit to actually play the game, but I do know philosophically what the rules are and how it's done. Anyway I have a gf now and I am not looking to play the game anymore. But for those who do, yeah, heed the Canadian poster's advice closely.
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Did the same. At least saved some self dignity..

Where did you meet your GF and how? Was the first date different with her? What did you do different from the "date" with the swedish chick?
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I met my gf 6 years ago on my bday in a party at my apartment. We got drunk and stoned and had some bad sex but from then on we've been together on and off. It's particular relationship I wouldn't even know how to classify it but it certainly doesn't follow the rules of your typical dating scenarios so it's not too useful for an example.

Anyway I think the best thing a guy can do nowadays is to find a method to be able to fuck around but not commit. Marriage nowadays is like self immolation, women are insane and the system is about to collapse. All the usual desires of making a family and living a peaceful and regular life do not work anymore in the new paradigm. I think we're about to go into some worse shit than the 2 world wars of the 20th century and all their consequences. Just think about it.
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yeah spanish guy, you are right, shit will get worse and marrying these days should not come up in our minds with these crazy ass bitches.

Anyway, I think I'm off from this thread because I'm thinking again of my rejection and the failed date and I fucking miss her but she's ignoring me since 3 days. What a fucking bullshit. Bye.
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Yeah she probably didn't like the fact out of the whole package that I don't have drivers licence yet (which is pretty normal, I live as student in Berlin, no need for that).

The checkmarking down the list in their heads is FUCKED UP. One mistake and you're out, holy shit. I'm already a bit tired of dating so many different girls.
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heh, fuck their checklist. Don't commit so much man. If they can't be decisive, then they aren't worth your time.
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I think the checklist is sort of an internal excuse mechanism. They bias it to pass or fail based on chemistry (see above for definition.)

Otherwise women wouldn't go for total losers as they do. And since they often do, don't take checklist stuff too seriously, it's basically a lie, they may even lie to themselves.

It's convenient, because if you ask them (or one of their friends) "where did I go wrong" or "what am I doing wrong" they can give you a lot of instructions to make you work your ass off for them. Guarantee they won't respect you if you do that shit to please them though.
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Perfectly well said, we don't need to fall for that trap, thanks
clappa
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^yup. Though still looking for the right one'''Relax men we are who we are, we men know who we are the others who play games can well just KO.Never peacedid understand about women an slimballs. It is what it is . Carry on. KO {kiss off}
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is this a facebook thing?
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yeah spanish guy, you are right, shit will get worse and marrying these days should not come up in our minds with these crazy ass bitches.

Anyway, I think I'm off from this thread because I'm thinking again of my rejection and the failed date and I fucking miss her but she's ignoring me since 3 days. What a fucking bullshit. Bye.
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Don't stress about it man, go to a zen sort of place in your mind, this life is all bullshit anyway so you shouldn't expect anything, you have to become a bit insensitive to go through it.
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

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is this a facebook thing?
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No, man. I approached that girl on the street, got her number and dated her.

yeah spanish guy, you are right, shit will get worse and marrying these days should not come up in our minds with these crazy ass bitches.

Anyway, I think I'm off from this thread because I'm thinking again of my rejection and the failed date and I fucking miss her but she's ignoring me since 3 days. What a fucking bullshit. Bye.
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Don't stress about it man, go to a zen sort of place in your mind, this life is all bullshit anyway so you shouldn't expect anything, you have to become a bit insensitive to go through it.
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You're probably right, fuck them. I learned a lot from this: to care less and focus on yourself...
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So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it."

But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc?
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If you were friendzoned, you can be surethere was no chemistry. It´s not their fault, or your fault or anybody´s fault. Why not be friends until you get a real chemistry? You don´t have to "next" anybody...women can sense that. Just cherish them and go on...rejection only hurts in our ego, really...doesn´t make you less or more than anybody.
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Go buy yourself some high quality pheromones. Dump that shit on you.

Fuck her hard and good. Easy and done.
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And it's people exactly like you who wonder why nobody likes you.
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So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it."

But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc?
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If you were friendzoned, you can be surethere was no chemistry. It´s not their fault, or your fault or anybody´s fault. Why not be friends until you get a real chemistry? You don´t have to "next" anybody...women can sense that. Just cherish them and go on...rejection only hurts in our ego, really...doesn´t make you less or more than anybody.
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I agree and see what you're saying but she instantly ignored me after the date. No more conversations between us two. That's not respectful in my opinion.

But anyway, even if she'd try to speak with me, it would suck hurt and hurt. So it's better this way I guess.

I don't want her to tell me how she banged another guy last night. Fuck that. I'd rather tell her how I bang other chicks to make her jealous but I'm not in the mood to date other girls yet. But soon. And I will get one which is at least a HB 9 or 10. FUCK HER
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It is as simple as this. Tell the next girl you like that you like her as a potential girlfriend. What this does is places you in the very small group of people that the girl absolutely knows that she could have a relationship with, right now. Think about that. I don't care how pretty she is, this is a very small circle of people. She will think about this and come to the conclusion that a known quantity (you) is much better than something else that may never happen. Then treat her like you would want to be treated but don't be taken for granted, and watch the magic happen.
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It is as simple as this. Tell the next girl you like that you like her as a potential girlfriend. What this does is places you in the very small group of people that the girl absolutely knows that she could have a relationship with, right now. Think about that. I don't care how pretty she is, this is a very small circle of people. She will think about this and come to the conclusion that a known quantity (you) is much better than something else that may never happen. Then treat her like you would want to be treated but don't be taken for granted, and watch the magic happen.
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Good one, not dumb. But what if the girl is a 8-9? (I only date those) Is the circle bigger on this one? I read that hot girls are NEVER or Rarely approached.
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So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it."

But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc?
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If you were friendzoned, you can be surethere was no chemistry. It´s not their fault, or your fault or anybody´s fault. Why not be friends until you get a real chemistry? You don´t have to "next" anybody...women can sense that. Just cherish them and go on...rejection only hurts in our ego, really...doesn´t make you less or more than anybody.
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I agree and see what you're saying but she instantly ignored me after the date. No more conversations between us two. That's not respectful in my opinion.

But anyway, even if she'd try to speak with me, it would suck hurt and hurt. So it's better this way I guess.

I don't want her to tell me how she banged another guy last night. Fuck that. I'd rather tell her how I bang other chicks to make her jealous but I'm not in the mood to date other girls yet. But soon. And I will get one which is at least a HB 9 or 10. FUCK HER
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I have been ognored after the first date too, some times in my life. In that case, she´s not woman enough to even be friends with...not worth it. If I meet/befriend or date a guy in which I have no romantic interest, I ALWAYS just go and tell them right away, plain and honest and never lead them on. It just saves a lot of trouble for everyone. And if they want to be friends...better. I hate to be lead on by a guy so I also prefer straight honesty to the face with me as well. Nothing more coward than to drag something and not be interested.
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So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it."

But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667


If you were friendzoned, you can be surethere was no chemistry. It´s not their fault, or your fault or anybody´s fault. Why not be friends until you get a real chemistry? You don´t have to "next" anybody...women can sense that. Just cherish them and go on...rejection only hurts in our ego, really...doesn´t make you less or more than anybody.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27378311


I agree and see what you're saying but she instantly ignored me after the date. No more conversations between us two. That's not respectful in my opinion.

But anyway, even if she'd try to speak with me, it would suck hurt and hurt. So it's better this way I guess.

I don't want her to tell me how she banged another guy last night. Fuck that. I'd rather tell her how I bang other chicks to make her jealous but I'm not in the mood to date other girls yet. But soon. And I will get one which is at least a HB 9 or 10. FUCK HER
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I have been ognored after the first date too, some times in my life. In that case, she´s not woman enough to even be friends with...not worth it. If I meet/befriend or date a guy in which I have no romantic interest, I ALWAYS just go and tell them right away, plain and honest and never lead them on. It just saves a lot of trouble for everyone. And if they want to be friends...better. I hate to be lead on by a guy so I also prefer straight honesty to the face with me as well. Nothing more coward than to drag something and not be interested.
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you sound like my type of girl.

anyway, she told me that she was "a serious girl" but seeing how she ignored me straightaway by dragging out things tells me she's a bitch..
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OP, you said you chose not to kiss this broad, so why are you upset that she dumped you? You sound like a whiny faggot to me, try homosexuality instead.
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You sound like the typical low IQ caveman that the damaged girls swarm to.Are you surprised that some people might actually want to bond and get to know people;rather than just shoving their tongue down the throat of every date they have?
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OP, you said you chose not to kiss this broad, so why are you upset that she dumped you? You sound like a whiny faggot to me, try homosexuality instead.
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You sound like the typical low IQ caveman that the damaged girls swarm to.Are you surprised that some people might actually want to bond and get to know people;rather than just shoving their tongue down the throat of every date they have?
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clappa
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There is no friendzone with woman. she puts out or fucks of. what would you wanna do with her? go shopping or talk stupid sheeple shit?
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cruise
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I'm confused, I thought girls were sent to the `friendzone' In any-case this makes little sense to me. You probably come off as desperate.
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What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss.
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Good for you - I cannot stand when I just meet someone and they already want to swap the spit - puhleeeeze
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This is the first time in life that I realise this: I'm not made for a normal life, I'm not made for dating and shit

I understand now why there are people who rape and fuck prostitutes


fuck this shit
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No, you can do this. You really can do this very well. But there may be some truths that you are resisting, so that you are sitting there confused.

A big one is that girls are nice. They are not nice. Maybe they are nice to their own children (your mom was nice to you) or occasionally nice enough to get what they want from other guys or girls. But she will not give you sex to be nice to you, and she does not need you to be nice to her.

Nice is irrelevant. I believe you can get laid if you're nice, it doesn't hurt but it doesn't help either. And the niceness has to be limited so she doesn't feel power. Apparently paying for her is a mistake. This didn't get in the way with the gf who became my wife, because when I asked her to a local restaurant, she refused and said that restaurants are too expensive for what you get and she would cook me dinner instead. So she corrected my mistake because I was not in her friend zone!
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It is as simple as this. Tell the next girl you like that you like her as a potential girlfriend. What this does is places you in the very small group of people that the girl absolutely knows that she could have a relationship with, right now. Think about that. I don't care how pretty she is, this is a very small circle of people. She will think about this and come to the conclusion that a known quantity (you) is much better than something else that may never happen. Then treat her like you would want to be treated but don't be taken for granted, and watch the magic happen.
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Interesting idea. Usually it's the girl who asks for commitment first, so this is a twist.

It would not work if the "friend zone" or "ladder" theory is correct. If you're in her friend zone, there you are regardless. But it could save you a lot of time; it's better to be rejected quickly and save much time and money. This makes attempts much less costly, so a win there.

The only potential loss is if the question gets you kicked into the friend zone from somewhere better, and I don't see why it would, but I am not sure it would not because it would surprise her and I guess might make her lose the feeling of being seduced. I have no experience with it and haven't heard other guys' experience either.
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Go buy yourself some high quality pheromones. Dump that shit on you.

Fuck her hard and good. Easy and done.
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And it's people exactly like you who wonder why nobody likes you.
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Angry comment there ...

The only part I don't like about it is the idea of dumping them and on to the next, endlessly. One should respect others. One should treasure a potential girlfriend or wife, mother of your children. For women especially, this process is high-stakes.

If you want someone, do what you can to get her. Pheromones are a tool that are available to men -- men don't use tools so often, but women use tools (makeup) to increase their dating success all the time.

But once you have her, make the most of it for both of you, rather than destroying it and leaving behind a woman who is, at best, emotionally confused for a while.
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bump for more advices... read all of them here, great ones, thank you
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you have to show you want them sexually and be direct about wooing them. Confidence!

Too many guys put on mr nice guy act in order to win the woman over so she will open her legs, but that shit is fake, and they don't like that. 'Oh look at me, aren't I the mr nice guy you've always been looking for... I'm not interested in sexing you. I'm not a sleaze'. And that's the problem: the inability to create a sexual spark. Fact is, you DO want to sex them... that's the point of a man / woman relationship.

What they do like, is a man who makes it known that he fancies her and he would like to sex her, but so long as he does it in a fun, flirtatious way - this is the precursor to getting her in the mood. You can't just go straight from A to Z, as women aren't as horny as us guys are (due to lower testosterone levels)... it takes some wooing to get them horny.

They also like it when the guy moves in for the kiss. How else are you to create sexual feelings within a woman, without first creating a sexual situation?

Remember: flirt first, then when she is responsive, initiate some body contact, then move in for the kiss.
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P.S. I remember when I was in school, and the school bully would close in on the girls all the guys wanted to get with, and he'd always get her.

When we left school I remember for years afterwards the guy would net himself the most stunningly gorgeous women, and it was he who dumped them for other women. He wasn't even remotely good looking either, but he used the same strategy he always did in school: he was direct about what he wanted, and the lady became putty in his hands.

When I started doing the very same things (growing a pair of balls and being direct with them), I began having amazing success with the ladies also.

It's not a magic formula, it's just using natural methods to ignite a sexual spark. That's all.
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£100 gets me a choice of 50 women in my area.

That's all the women I need.
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well it's your choice and life, I respect that. I paied prostitutes in the past, too. But it's not as fun as dating, imho.
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you don`t pay a hooker to fuk u,u pay the bitch to leavebananasex
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you have to show you want them sexually and be direct about wooing them. Confidence!

Too many guys put on mr nice guy act in order to win the woman over so she will open her legs, but that shit is fake, and they don't like that. 'Oh look at me, aren't I the mr nice guy you've always been looking for... I'm not interested in sexing you. I'm not a sleaze'. And that's the problem: the inability to create a sexual spark. Fact is, you DO want to sex them... that's the point of a man / woman relationship.

What they do like, is a man who makes it known that he fancies her and he would like to sex her, but so long as he does it in a fun, flirtatious way - this is the precursor to getting her in the mood. You can't just go straight from A to Z, as women aren't as horny as us guys are (due to lower testosterone levels)... it takes some wooing to get them horny.

They also like it when the guy moves in for the kiss. How else are you to create sexual feelings within a woman, without first creating a sexual situation?

Remember: flirt first, then when she is responsive, initiate some body contact, then move in for the kiss.
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amazing info, thanks

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