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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 09:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm confused, I thought girls were sent to the `friendzone' In any-case this makes little sense to me. You probably come off as desperate. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23524705 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23524705 United States 11/09/2012 09:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm confused, I thought girls were sent to the `friendzone' In any-case this makes little sense to me. You probably come off as desperate. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23524705 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. Now I'm even more confused, although its obvious that the girl didn't want you because you are a passive-aggressive rage-head. It has nothing to do with how 'manly' you are, you probably even have a nice cock ;) |
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queenbee User ID: 1562977 United States 11/09/2012 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 09:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! Well thanks for the input. You know it's not about looks, even supermodellookinglike girls can be boring, and I don't like that. The girl which friendzoned is a nice decent normal looking girl, no bitchy attitude. But during the date I waited to long after the initial attraction to kiss her or something :/ That was my mistake. She told me today that she had a great time with me and enjoyed it a lot but thats it. = friendzoning. ANd I don't like that. I told her that it's okay but I won't be available for her anymore. |
Dr.DoomLittle User ID: 6231580 United States 11/09/2012 09:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Uncle Doom's Dating Advice? Aim low. Usually if your looking for a P.O.P. Pick the 2nd ugliest, fattest, and dumbest one of the lot. Never the FATTEST UGLIEST, AND DUMBEST... they are usually damaged goods. Go to town. Stink on yer finger first date, stink on yer johnson by the 2nd. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 09:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Uncle Doom's Dating Advice? Aim low. Usually if your looking for a P.O.P. Pick the 2nd ugliest, fattest, and dumbest one of the lot. Never the FATTEST UGLIEST, AND DUMBEST... they are usually damaged goods. Go to town. Stink on yer finger first date, stink on yer johnson by the 2nd. Good one |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14392840 United States 11/09/2012 09:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm confused, I thought girls were sent to the `friendzone' In any-case this makes little sense to me. You probably come off as desperate. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23524705 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. Women test the chemistry, Ive been told they do it by your looks and mannerisms and what you talk about and your background, lifestyle and job and friends. They pretty much consider the whole package and if it doesnt measure up to them, they move on.. You literally will go thru hundreds of people (thru just normal socializing) before you find compatibility We are less picky, a pretty face makes us want to go all the way. Women judge by a helluva lot more criteria than we do..Trust me, their list is very, very long.. And they do the checkmarks down the list in their mind. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 09:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Going to meet a female friend of the girl that friendzoned me today. They know eachother. Going to have a nice time with her. I just need to wait til the news spreads. That's what I'm doing up to now. Dating, having fun and not giving assratsshit about what girls really care. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 09:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm confused, I thought girls were sent to the `friendzone' In any-case this makes little sense to me. You probably come off as desperate. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23524705 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. Women test the chemistry, Ive been told they do it by your looks and mannerisms and what you talk about and your background, lifestyle and job and friends. They pretty much consider the whole package and if it doesnt measure up to them, they move on.. You literally will go thru hundreds of people (thru just normal socializing) before you find compatibility We are less picky, a pretty face makes us want to go all the way. Women judge by a helluva lot more criteria than we do..Trust me, their list is very, very long.. And they do the checkmarks down the list in their mind. Yeah she probably didn't like the fact out of the whole package that I don't have drivers licence yet (which is pretty normal, I live as student in Berlin, no need for that). The checkmarking down the list in their heads is FUCKED UP. One mistake and you're out, holy shit. I'm already a bit tired of dating so many different girls. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17090286 United States 11/09/2012 09:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm confused, I thought girls were sent to the `friendzone' In any-case this makes little sense to me. You probably come off as desperate. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23524705 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. Women test the chemistry, Ive been told they do it by your looks and mannerisms and what you talk about and your background, lifestyle and job and friends. They pretty much consider the whole package and if it doesnt measure up to them, they move on.. You literally will go thru hundreds of people (thru just normal socializing) before you find compatibility We are less picky, a pretty face makes us want to go all the way. Women judge by a helluva lot more criteria than we do..Trust me, their list is very, very long.. And they do the checkmarks down the list in their mind. Yeah she probably didn't like the fact out of the whole package that I don't have drivers licence yet (which is pretty normal, I live as student in Berlin, no need for that). The checkmarking down the list in their heads is FUCKED UP. One mistake and you're out, holy shit. I'm already a bit tired of dating so many different girls. heh, fuck their checklist. Don't commit so much man. If they can't be decisive, then they aren't worth your time. |
Cold Pizza User ID: 25845227 United States 11/09/2012 09:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Stop posting in these threads. They are designed to stop us from communicating about the issues at hand. These types of issues are better left discussed on other forums. That's just my opinion. Free thinker; Diogenes of Sinope; Shameless bumper of Relevant Shards of Truth |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 09:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. Women test the chemistry, Ive been told they do it by your looks and mannerisms and what you talk about and your background, lifestyle and job and friends. They pretty much consider the whole package and if it doesnt measure up to them, they move on.. You literally will go thru hundreds of people (thru just normal socializing) before you find compatibility We are less picky, a pretty face makes us want to go all the way. Women judge by a helluva lot more criteria than we do..Trust me, their list is very, very long.. And they do the checkmarks down the list in their mind. Yeah she probably didn't like the fact out of the whole package that I don't have drivers licence yet (which is pretty normal, I live as student in Berlin, no need for that). The checkmarking down the list in their heads is FUCKED UP. One mistake and you're out, holy shit. I'm already a bit tired of dating so many different girls. heh, fuck their checklist. Don't commit so much man. If they can't be decisive, then they aren't worth your time. True.. that's what I told myself, too. Helps to NEXT her faster. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27220378 New Zealand 11/09/2012 09:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? Uncle Doom's Dating Advice? Aim low. Usually if your looking for a P.O.P. Pick the 2nd ugliest, fattest, and dumbest one of the lot. Never the FATTEST UGLIEST, AND DUMBEST... they are usually damaged goods. Go to town. Stink on yer finger first date, stink on yer johnson by the 2nd. OMG LOL!!! So funny - well done that man |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 09:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! His pheromones stimulate your oxytocin. And the effect of oxytocin isn't necessarily temporary, is it dear? You might be surprised at what you think is causing this indefinable "chemistry", maybe it is actually chemistry. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 10:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 What the fuck are you talking about? Read my OP. I got put in the friends corner by girl. I wasn't desperate. I know what mistakes I did. I choose not to kiss her on the first date. This put her off and she probably thought I'd be awkward or not manly enough to do it. But I'm not an easy-to-get guy so fuck it. I choose which girl I kiss. Women test the chemistry, Ive been told they do it by your looks and mannerisms and what you talk about and your background, lifestyle and job and friends. They pretty much consider the whole package and if it doesnt measure up to them, they move on.. You literally will go thru hundreds of people (thru just normal socializing) before you find compatibility We are less picky, a pretty face makes us want to go all the way. Women judge by a helluva lot more criteria than we do..Trust me, their list is very, very long.. And they do the checkmarks down the list in their mind. Yeah she probably didn't like the fact out of the whole package that I don't have drivers licence yet (which is pretty normal, I live as student in Berlin, no need for that). The checkmarking down the list in their heads is FUCKED UP. One mistake and you're out, holy shit. I'm already a bit tired of dating so many different girls. heh, fuck their checklist. Don't commit so much man. If they can't be decisive, then they aren't worth your time. I think the checklist is sort of an internal excuse mechanism. They bias it to pass or fail based on chemistry (see above for definition.) Otherwise women wouldn't go for total losers as they do. And since they often do, don't take checklist stuff too seriously, it's basically a lie, they may even lie to themselves. It's convenient, because if you ask them (or one of their friends) "where did I go wrong" or "what am I doing wrong" they can give you a lot of instructions to make you work your ass off for them. Guarantee they won't respect you if you do that shit to please them though. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 27376667 Luxembourg 11/09/2012 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: APOLLO ILLUMINIST Women test the chemistry, Ive been told they do it by your looks and mannerisms and what you talk about and your background, lifestyle and job and friends. They pretty much consider the whole package and if it doesnt measure up to them, they move on.. You literally will go thru hundreds of people (thru just normal socializing) before you find compatibility We are less picky, a pretty face makes us want to go all the way. Women judge by a helluva lot more criteria than we do..Trust me, their list is very, very long.. And they do the checkmarks down the list in their mind. Yeah she probably didn't like the fact out of the whole package that I don't have drivers licence yet (which is pretty normal, I live as student in Berlin, no need for that). The checkmarking down the list in their heads is FUCKED UP. One mistake and you're out, holy shit. I'm already a bit tired of dating so many different girls. heh, fuck their checklist. Don't commit so much man. If they can't be decisive, then they aren't worth your time. I think the checklist is sort of an internal excuse mechanism. They bias it to pass or fail based on chemistry (see above for definition.) Otherwise women wouldn't go for total losers as they do. And since they often do, don't take checklist stuff too seriously, it's basically a lie, they may even lie to themselves. It's convenient, because if you ask them (or one of their friends) "where did I go wrong" or "what am I doing wrong" they can give you a lot of instructions to make you work your ass off for them. Guarantee they won't respect you if you do that shit to please them though. Perfectly well said, we don't need to fall for that trap, thanks |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27304459 United States 11/09/2012 10:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have fun, OP. And I wouldn't be surprised if you get de-friendzoned by that chick later. Happened to me once, a girl I had known slightly a year before hung around talking to me and actually said "there's something different about you". But I was not looking for a new relationship; my gf would have killed me! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27117386 United States 11/09/2012 10:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! Darn hard to find when they are decietfull. Why can not they just be true without the dam pharmone effect. yes it is real and I had it happen. You must all understand that the phermone (made of natural substance is real and very over powering.)just my input an darn it was a frizy...Untill boston came back an heck the only thing talkin was the person I used to know. End of story though true.oh and the words from the bostonian was bullshit after she came back.Decietfull and ya I cary on and learned. Suffer in your wold biatch or listen to the music. No hard feelings... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1218376 Denmark 11/09/2012 10:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health. Quoting: queenbee 1562977 i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category. i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type. develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game! and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc! baby becomes unhealthier from that |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25601325 United States 11/09/2012 10:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, I recently got friendzoned again. I put too much faith in me that it could work out on the first date but I ended being called later "It was fun with you, but that's it." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27376667 But no big fucking deal for me because I've learned through the past that I can do better by NEXTING her and choosing another one. Pretty easy. But meanwhile it hurts a bit. SO, what are your experiences, tips, etc? YOU PLAYED THAT ROLE BUT STILL IT DOESN'T MATTER DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK |