i'm a girl and i'm here to tell you that there is something about chemistry (for girls). i've read that it is NOT the same for men...hetero men are mostly just looking for females (especially those with fertility signs such as narrow waist, shiny healthy hair etc). nature, however, made attraction a little more complicated for women. there is something about (going from memory here) females look for opposite genes to make sure any resulting baby is has the best chance for health.

i've dated perfectly strong, sexy, likeable etc men who just didn't have the right chemistry for me. they get put in the friend category.

i'm sorry but there is no way around it. well, except for pheremone guy, and that is just a temporary cheat--you don't sound like his type.

develop a "dating is fun" attitude get back in the game!

and don't be so picky yourself! you know we aren't all supermodels! maybe if you guys targeted normal every-day women you wouldn't get your hearts trampled on all the time. a woman is the whole package, not just looks. go for nice, friendly, hard working, sympathetic, honest... etc!