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My Scorpio male
Hey Im new. I hoping to get male scorpio views on my situation with one I've been with for over 6 years. Sorry this is bit long, I'm trying to give a clearer idea of the issue.

We broke up for the first time recently allegedly to a combination of things, the main with me is him feeling somewhat neglected to my career as well as a situation he said where I hurt him many years ago, one in which I never knew I did. Anyhow I understand that he wants to be alone, it's more so about him dealing with a lot in his life right now.

I sincerely apologized and poured my heart because although he says I'm cold (I'm generally not emotional like that) I have no shame in expressing how I feel because I am very passionate. He previously blocked me out but let me back.

He says he loves me and can't replace me, no one will ever fill that space, he knows this. He says he is not in love due to those things I allegedly did. He sees us back together in the future. He began communicating more and I demanded a fair 2nd chance. He kept this inside when I'm very open, he could have told me he felt that way. He later agreed I was right. He said will have a 2nd chance because I'm am right fair is fair and I deserve that. He just need to get over it, I guess for now.

This is where the confusion comes. I try to give space but he contacts by email asking for things like documents etc. ok. When I contact him sometimes he says he feels like I'm not giving him the space he needs and wants. It makes him resistant.

This confuses me because we practically see each other everyday and contact daily for all these year and I've surely stopped it to maybe 1 time a week and contact ever so often. I think his emotions are possibly messing with his logic? Also, I am trying to heal as well from things he did to me by acting out of being hurt. I'm very resilient and this is another issue, when he gets upset it doesn't bother me like that.

So I'm not contacting him anymore. His bday coming and I'm pretty big on that and he knows this but i decided I'm not bringing the gift I put great thought into to give him either because he says I'm not giving him space. He not cooperating with trying to resolve the old wounds and stuff and take time to get to know each other needs again to work towards trying again, although he said he will give me a 2nd chance. I suppose it's a invisible power struggle because he sees it as I'm decided when that will be when in my head I'm not. I'm just doing what obviously needs to be done to try again later when he is ready. Although I'm not looking for us to jump back in right now, he keeps concluding I'm trying to make him go into a relationship when he said he doesn't want one.

This is very confusing. How else will we get the 2nd time to be golden if we don't work on the issues now? Only thing passing is time. Am I misunderstanding something? I do feel misunderstood. I know he still loves me but all the years we've been together he was never cold to me like this except in the very beginning. He actually isn't being as bad as he can be because it hurts him to hurt me. He thinks I don't understand that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he has a lot to deal with aside the relationship, yet I really do. I helped him a lot in always solving the problem, always being there. I get that he wants to show independence and remove me so he can handle things by himself. I don't think he understands that in trying to heal the problems for the 2nd try whenever he ready to try again, hopefully sooner than later but it's not my call and I'm not making it my call. Possibly since I am a strong force in my wants and views he thinks I'm trying to make him when that's not the case. Scorp guys?
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Coming to GLP with your relationship problems?!

God, seriously?!
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Too long to read.

No ones that complicated.

Sorry.
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Coming to GLP with your relationship problems?!

God, seriously?!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


Well, a few days ago someone came here to ask for butt plug reviews, so why not? GLP is a big tent. ;)
Blasphemy is a victimless crime.
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Coming to GLP with your relationship problems?!

God, seriously?!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


Well, a few days ago someone came here to ask for butt plug reviews, so why not? GLP is a big tent. ;)
 Quoting: JamesOblivion


Because the people here have no fucking idea how to live their own lives properly.

...SO, let's ask them for their advice on my relationship.

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Hey Im new. I hoping to get male scorpio views on my situation with one I've been with for over 6 years. Sorry this is bit long, I'm trying to give a clearer idea of the issue.

We broke up for the first time recently allegedly to a combination of things, the main with me is him feeling somewhat neglected to my career as well as a situation he said where I hurt him many years ago, one in which I never knew I did. Anyhow I understand that he wants to be alone, it's more so about him dealing with a lot in his life right now.

I sincerely apologized and poured my heart because although he says I'm cold (I'm generally not emotional like that) I have no shame in expressing how I feel because I am very passionate. He previously blocked me out but let me back.

He says he loves me and can't replace me, no one will ever fill that space, he knows this. He says he is not in love due to those things I allegedly did. He sees us back together in the future. He began communicating more and I demanded a fair 2nd chance. He kept this inside when I'm very open, he could have told me he felt that way. He later agreed I was right. He said will have a 2nd chance because I'm am right fair is fair and I deserve that. He just need to get over it, I guess for now.

This is where the confusion comes. I try to give space but he contacts by email asking for things like documents etc. ok. When I contact him sometimes he says he feels like I'm not giving him the space he needs and wants. It makes him resistant.

This confuses me because we practically see each other everyday and contact daily for all these year and I've surely stopped it to maybe 1 time a week and contact ever so often. I think his emotions are possibly messing with his logic? Also, I am trying to heal as well from things he did to me by acting out of being hurt. I'm very resilient and this is another issue, when he gets upset it doesn't bother me like that.

So I'm not contacting him anymore. His bday coming and I'm pretty big on that and he knows this but i decided I'm not bringing the gift I put great thought into to give him either because he says I'm not giving him space. He not cooperating with trying to resolve the old wounds and stuff and take time to get to know each other needs again to work towards trying again, although he said he will give me a 2nd chance. I suppose it's a invisible power struggle because he sees it as I'm decided when that will be when in my head I'm not. I'm just doing what obviously needs to be done to try again later when he is ready. Although I'm not looking for us to jump back in right now, he keeps concluding I'm trying to make him go into a relationship when he said he doesn't want one.

This is very confusing. How else will we get the 2nd time to be golden if we don't work on the issues now? Only thing passing is time. Am I misunderstanding something? I do feel misunderstood. I know he still loves me but all the years we've been together he was never cold to me like this except in the very beginning. He actually isn't being as bad as he can be because it hurts him to hurt me. He thinks I don't understand that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he has a lot to deal with aside the relationship, yet I really do. I helped him a lot in always solving the problem, always being there. I get that he wants to show independence and remove me so he can handle things by himself. I don't think he understands that in trying to heal the problems for the 2nd try whenever he ready to try again, hopefully sooner than later but it's not my call and I'm not making it my call. Possibly since I am a strong force in my wants and views he thinks I'm trying to make him when that's not the case. Scorp guys?
 Quoting: Dream chase


Scorpio men want what they can't have, stop thinking about it and get on with your life - he will be instantly fascinated that you can do that and be straight back, be all up in your own stuff - the only stuff to work on is YOURS, why do you want someone who doesn't want you???
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Hey Im new. I hoping to get male scorpio views on my situation with one I've been with for over 6 years. Sorry this is bit long, I'm trying to give a clearer idea of the issue.

We broke up for the first time recently allegedly to a combination of things, the main with me is him feeling somewhat neglected to my career as well as a situation he said where I hurt him many years ago, one in which I never knew I did. Anyhow I understand that he wants to be alone, it's more so about him dealing with a lot in his life right now.

I sincerely apologized and poured my heart because although he says I'm cold (I'm generally not emotional like that) I have no shame in expressing how I feel because I am very passionate. He previously blocked me out but let me back.

He says he loves me and can't replace me, no one will ever fill that space, he knows this. He says he is not in love due to those things I allegedly did. He sees us back together in the future. He began communicating more and I demanded a fair 2nd chance. He kept this inside when I'm very open, he could have told me he felt that way. He later agreed I was right. He said will have a 2nd chance because I'm am right fair is fair and I deserve that. He just need to get over it, I guess for now.

This is where the confusion comes. I try to give space but he contacts by email asking for things like documents etc. ok. When I contact him sometimes he says he feels like I'm not giving him the space he needs and wants. It makes him resistant.

This confuses me because we practically see each other everyday and contact daily for all these year and I've surely stopped it to maybe 1 time a week and contact ever so often. I think his emotions are possibly messing with his logic? Also, I am trying to heal as well from things he did to me by acting out of being hurt. I'm very resilient and this is another issue, when he gets upset it doesn't bother me like that.

So I'm not contacting him anymore. His bday coming and I'm pretty big on that and he knows this but i decided I'm not bringing the gift I put great thought into to give him either because he says I'm not giving him space. He not cooperating with trying to resolve the old wounds and stuff and take time to get to know each other needs again to work towards trying again, although he said he will give me a 2nd chance. I suppose it's a invisible power struggle because he sees it as I'm decided when that will be when in my head I'm not. I'm just doing what obviously needs to be done to try again later when he is ready. Although I'm not looking for us to jump back in right now, he keeps concluding I'm trying to make him go into a relationship when he said he doesn't want one.

This is very confusing. How else will we get the 2nd time to be golden if we don't work on the issues now? Only thing passing is time. Am I misunderstanding something? I do feel misunderstood. I know he still loves me but all the years we've been together he was never cold to me like this except in the very beginning. He actually isn't being as bad as he can be because it hurts him to hurt me. He thinks I don't understand that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he has a lot to deal with aside the relationship, yet I really do. I helped him a lot in always solving the problem, always being there. I get that he wants to show independence and remove me so he can handle things by himself. I don't think he understands that in trying to heal the problems for the 2nd try whenever he ready to try again, hopefully sooner than later but it's not my call and I'm not making it my call. Possibly since I am a strong force in my wants and views he thinks I'm trying to make him when that's not the case. Scorp guys?
 Quoting: Dream chase


Scorpio men want what they can't have, stop thinking about it and get on with your life - he will be instantly fascinated that you can do that and be straight back, be all up in your own stuff - the only stuff to work on is YOURS, why do you want someone who doesn't want you???
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26272920


As a Scorpio male, I disagree wholeheartedly with the above comment.
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Scorpio men are psychopath's.

There biggest skill is knowing the "symptoms" of things

like when somethings wrong or when somethings going wrong.

Make up "symptoms" and he'll go crazy.

Just don't push him to cheat or go nuts.
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Hey Im new. I hoping to get male scorpio views on my situation with one I've been with for over 6 years. Sorry this is bit long, I'm trying to give a clearer idea of the issue.

We broke up for the first time recently allegedly to a combination of things, the main with me is him feeling somewhat neglected to my career as well as a situation he said where I hurt him many years ago, one in which I never knew I did. Anyhow I understand that he wants to be alone, it's more so about him dealing with a lot in his life right now.

I sincerely apologized and poured my heart because although he says I'm cold (I'm generally not emotional like that) I have no shame in expressing how I feel because I am very passionate. He previously blocked me out but let me back.

He says he loves me and can't replace me, no one will ever fill that space, he knows this. He says he is not in love due to those things I allegedly did. He sees us back together in the future. He began communicating more and I demanded a fair 2nd chance. He kept this inside when I'm very open, he could have told me he felt that way. He later agreed I was right. He said will have a 2nd chance because I'm am right fair is fair and I deserve that. He just need to get over it, I guess for now.

This is where the confusion comes. I try to give space but he contacts by email asking for things like documents etc. ok. When I contact him sometimes he says he feels like I'm not giving him the space he needs and wants. It makes him resistant.

This confuses me because we practically see each other everyday and contact daily for all these year and I've surely stopped it to maybe 1 time a week and contact ever so often. I think his emotions are possibly messing with his logic? Also, I am trying to heal as well from things he did to me by acting out of being hurt. I'm very resilient and this is another issue, when he gets upset it doesn't bother me like that.

So I'm not contacting him anymore. His bday coming and I'm pretty big on that and he knows this but i decided I'm not bringing the gift I put great thought into to give him either because he says I'm not giving him space. He not cooperating with trying to resolve the old wounds and stuff and take time to get to know each other needs again to work towards trying again, although he said he will give me a 2nd chance. I suppose it's a invisible power struggle because he sees it as I'm decided when that will be when in my head I'm not. I'm just doing what obviously needs to be done to try again later when he is ready. Although I'm not looking for us to jump back in right now, he keeps concluding I'm trying to make him go into a relationship when he said he doesn't want one.

This is very confusing. How else will we get the 2nd time to be golden if we don't work on the issues now? Only thing passing is time. Am I misunderstanding something? I do feel misunderstood. I know he still loves me but all the years we've been together he was never cold to me like this except in the very beginning. He actually isn't being as bad as he can be because it hurts him to hurt me. He thinks I don't understand that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he has a lot to deal with aside the relationship, yet I really do. I helped him a lot in always solving the problem, always being there. I get that he wants to show independence and remove me so he can handle things by himself. I don't think he understands that in trying to heal the problems for the 2nd try whenever he ready to try again, hopefully sooner than later but it's not my call and I'm not making it my call. Possibly since I am a strong force in my wants and views he thinks I'm trying to make him when that's not the case. Scorp guys?
 Quoting: Dream chase


You never told us your sign.
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Scorpio men want what they can't have, stop thinking about it and get on with your life - he will be instantly fascinated that you can do that and be straight back, be all up in your own stuff - the only stuff to work on is YOURS, why do you want someone who doesn't want you???
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Well the problem has to do with my neglect for him over my career so I would imagine me in my own life is pretty high up there.
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Scorpio men are psychopath's.

There biggest skill is knowing the "symptoms" of things

like when somethings wrong or when somethings going wrong.

Make up "symptoms" and he'll go crazy.

Just don't push him to cheat or go nuts.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12446936


I don't understand what you mean by this.
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Scorpio men are psychopath's.

There biggest skill is knowing the "symptoms" of things

like when somethings wrong or when somethings going wrong.

Make up "symptoms" and he'll go crazy.

Just don't push him to cheat or go nuts.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12446936


I don't understand what you mean by this.
 Quoting: Dream chase


We're psychopaths now eh?

...God, give me a break.

People have one good/bad experience with a scorpio - or any sign and they rush to conclusions.

So much disinfo on here.

I would love to back away, but I feel I need to shut you all up for the sake of my zodiac sign.

...Most men who aren't scorpio hate scorpio men because they cannot do what we do in the sheets.
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Re: My Scorpio male
Scorpio men are psychopath's.

There biggest skill is knowing the "symptoms" of things

like when somethings wrong or when somethings going wrong.

Make up "symptoms" and he'll go crazy.

Just don't push him to cheat or go nuts.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12446936


I don't understand what you mean by this.
 Quoting: Dream chase


We're psychopaths now eh?

...God, give me a break.

People have one good/bad experience with a scorpio - or any sign and they rush to conclusions.

So much disinfo on here.

I would love to back away, but I feel I need to shut you all up for the sake of my zodiac sign.

...Most men who aren't scorpio hate scorpio men because they cannot do what we do in the sheets.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1266452


lol geez all my friends are Scorpio's. I'm a cancer, all psychopath means is you can lie to yourself until you believe it
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Ok this is going to be cold and im sorry.. But as a scorpio male im just saying leave him alone.. NO communication.. If he rlly wants to be with you he'll come back.. If not what can you do? Better to have loved and lost right?
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scorpio can hold a grudge when burned.

its to late for you, really.

let him go. heal, renew, and love with come again.

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