Winning back a cheating wife | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27220378 New Zealand 11/09/2012 10:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nope. Been there, done that. Best thing is to just walk away. Sucks, yes, painful but true. Your bond has been broken. There is no going back, no matter how much you want to turn back time. The upside? Wait 18 years like I just have and re-connect with your children - they'll be glad to meet up with you. And yeah, the anger never goes away - I still want to meet my ex with an aluminium baseball bat filled with sand... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 12446936 Canada 11/09/2012 10:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 15515569 Netherlands 11/09/2012 10:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
drhoecker User ID: 27307992 United States 11/09/2012 10:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nope. Been there, done that. Best thing is to just walk away. Sucks, yes, painful but true. Your bond has been broken. There is no going back, no matter how much you want to turn back time. The upside? Wait 18 years like I just have and re-connect with your children - they'll be glad to meet up with you. And yeah, the anger never goes away - I still want to meet my ex with an aluminium baseball bat filled with sand... women are bitches, move on,they never change |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25390958 United States 11/09/2012 10:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 20589235 United States 11/09/2012 10:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't. Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater when it comes to women. Men and women cheat for different reasons and have a totally different mindset about sex. For men sex is often just a mechanical act with NO emotional content so men CAN come back and love and be faithful. Women on the other have cheat to either fulfill some sort of inner emotional need ... OR (MUCH more often)... as a way to exhibit and exhibit CONTROL BEHAVIOR. In either case the woman is NOT ever going to respect her spouse ever again ... so time to head out the the door, no matter how emotionally hurt one is or how much it costs economically. (and the man IS going to get screwed on the money side even if it is the woman who cheated ... which is a good reason for a male TO NEVER MARRY) (FWIW the latest statistics show married women cheating at a 70% rate) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 972577 United States 11/09/2012 10:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I stayed with my wife for the sake of our children, and I'm very glad that I did, but make no mistakes about how your marriage will change. I do not love my wife the same way I use too, I view her differently and I would have really wished for a new life but as I stated earlier, I do not regret staying for the sake of my children. My oldest is now 21 year of age, he has turned out to be an exceptional young man, I thank God for this blessing! There is no easy answer, I wish you the best! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23299950 United States 11/09/2012 11:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nope. Been there, done that. Best thing is to just walk away. Sucks, yes, painful but true. Your bond has been broken. There is no going back, no matter how much you want to turn back time. The upside? Wait 18 years like I just have and re-connect with your children - they'll be glad to meet up with you. And yeah, the anger never goes away - I still want to meet my ex with an aluminium baseball bat filled with sand... women are bitches, move on,they never change +1 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24513684 United States 11/09/2012 11:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Pyractomena borealis User ID: 14774797 United States 11/09/2012 11:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If a marriage is over, end it properly, with no acrimony, no lies or deceptions. And then move on....... Don't set a bad example for the kids........ There is nothing so powerful as truth, and often nothing so strange ~ Daniel Webster Omnia Vincit Amor ~ Virgil The more you learn, the less you know ~ Socrates That writer does the most, who gives his reader the most knowledge, and takes from him the least time. ~ Charles Caleb Colton |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1282620 United States 11/09/2012 11:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Would you even do it?!!! I wouldn't do it. I took my wife back after she had an affair and she ran up the credit cards and left again a few years later with an older, rich man. I have been with several women since then and I am beginning to realize that they don't need, or even really want, us as men to focus on them. It's too much pressure. We need to have goals that exist outside of the relationship, or they get bored with us. My advice to this man, after I slap him silly, is to stop begging and get focused on something else. Do things that the ex wouldnt approve of, things you wanted to do all along before your sack was emptied into her purse. Take back your life as a man. Strip club therapy will help teach you that a pretty face doesnt mean a pretty heart, and that all women look essentially the same from the neck down... It also teached men that signals can be faked and that we can be worked by a wink and a pair of perky tits. Besides, my friend, your wife isnt really much of a looker. You can do better. Get pissed and get under someone else. Just dont fall in love and blubber all over the place. That would be tragic beyond belief for you and your kids. Its hard for the kids. I know that. She left. She will be the bad guy some day. Not him. Get busy brother. |
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