My youngest who's father died within a month of his life, has been spoiled. He had wonderful people in his life who have spoiled him from birth.

They are witnessing the fruits of their labor and they don't like what they see but they want to blame my son when I think it is their fault mostly and their anger is misplaced.

I know many of you will put the blame on me, his mother. I've done the best I can but when there are people in your life who'll give you anything you want, that's hard to beat.

How would you treat this situation?