what do you do if you fucked up really bad?

Just say "Hey shit happens" and you are profoundly sorry.

This and it depends on what it is.Its not cookie cutter,some people need special attention some just need a forgive me.It depends on the heart of both parties.

do the best you can and move on

Was the sex worth it?

when you say fix it, do you mean get things back to where they were for you or make amends to the person you've hurt?

Make amends to the people you''ve hurt.

No sex involved....

Sex, or the wanting of it, seems to always be involved.

There's no one way to fix that if there's more that one person to make amends to.
It takes guts.

FIRST of all, don't repeat it.

Try again, make amends. Work on yourself. Make appropriate changes. Persevere.

Go puchase another 12 pack!

Stand tall and take your licks.

Acknowledge that life has its up and downs, but it also has its miracles and surprises.

Sometimes, we take 2 steps back to move 1 step forward. Other times, we take 1 step back to move 2 steps forward.

It's usually hard to hear someone else say to you 'everything for a reason dear' because it's often true. A blessing in disguise, a curse on the surface, just meant to propel you along on your evolution.

Then there's that ol' Garth Brooks tune, Thank God For Unanswered Prayers...lol just another prosaic mosaic brought to you buy the Universe, that's all.

blame it on Obama...LOL

Fuck guilt, dude. Are you fucking crazy?

Oe that was a heavy red burden.

4 people i think.

Going on like it is ... Is pretty bad.

Elder i think ..

OO not ?

Own up to it, be as honest as you can about the situation. Often the consequences of trying to cover something up is far worse then the act itself.

Ff typen nog ... Why do you do like you do

Its not a mekka chest its not letting people help its no freedom with some tech its ... Nothing.

Yes im not responsible for it ..

Nope, it's bush's fault.

You suffer unfortunately there is no fixing it.

The taxpayers bail you out

Atonement and service to those you have hurt

depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.

Learn and improve oneself from it...and Rise above it....

Best advice!

Dont dwell on it brother , shit will kill you.