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what do you do if you fucked up really bad?

 
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Get down on your knees, repent and ask for forgiveness. We are all sinners and need to have a new heart. To those who think they can change their own nature. Let me tell you that you will only deceive yourself.

There is only one way. I dont have to tell you what it is, because you know it.
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depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
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Best advice!
 Quoting: cosmic strawberry


hf

you can tell everything you need to know about someone in their willingness to be honest. I am actually eternally grateful that certain people from my past that fucked me over never came looking to make amends, because life is too short to waste on people you can't trust.

When you find someone, or a friend that you can trust, you are wealthy beyond your wildest dreams.

Loyalty and trust are the two things I look for in a human being. And you only need one person to fit this criteria.hf but they are far and few between, so never let a good one get away.
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So you beat her up, did you?
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So you beat her up, did you?
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that deserves no forgiveness.
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depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
 Quoting: I know 5813027


I didn't cheat on anyone, its just my behaviour towards others has been negative, and I'm feeling guilty even though my behavior was a reaction to others being dicks....whatever
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depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
 Quoting: I know 5813027


Best advice!
 Quoting: cosmic strawberry


hf

you can tell everything you need to know about someone in their willingness to be honest. I am actually eternally grateful that certain people from my past that fucked me over never came looking to make amends, because life is too short to waste on people you can't trust.

When you find someone, or a friend that you can trust, you are wealthy beyond your wildest dreams.

Loyalty and trust are the two things I look for in a human being. And you only need one person to fit this criteria.hf but they are far and few between, so never let a good one get away.
 Quoting: I know 5813027

I'm Loyal , unfortunately I have trouble trusting people and now myself but I guess it's because of my own fears that have surface that I didn't think I have.
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How do you fix it?
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FIRST of all, don't repeat it.

Try again, make amends. Work on yourself. Make appropriate changes. Persevere.
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It's difficult, I've been acting in a way I never thought I would.it's as if I have devolved!!!
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Laughter is a VERY quick solution the tense emotional problems between two people. Example, when the wife accused me of an 'unforgivable' I ACTUALLY DID .... I would say " O.K., I forgive YOU !"

She busted out laughing and then started repeating it with more giggles as I laughed too. Thing WERE mended with VERY careful conversation after that.

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depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
 Quoting: I know 5813027


I didn't cheat on anyone, its just my behaviour towards others has been negative, and I'm feeling guilty even though my behavior was a reaction to others being dicks....whatever
 Quoting: izaak2

Self, the hardest to overcome when faced with a new reality.

How then can one be the accused and the accuser, to see the grey within the darkness, not dwelling on the black nor the white, to not be caught up into the ebb and the flow of this thing.

Perhaps a far easier thing to find GOD.
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 Quoting: izaak2


depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
 Quoting: I know 5813027


I didn't cheat on anyone, its just my behaviour towards others has been negative, and I'm feeling guilty even though my behavior was a reaction to others being dicks....whatever
 Quoting: izaak2

Self, the hardest to overcome when faced with a new reality.

How then can one be the accused and the accuser, to see the grey within the darkness, not dwelling on the black nor the white, to not be caught up into the ebb and the flow of this thing.

Perhaps a far easier thing to find GOD.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27481875

I've been thinking about those colors black and white ( [link to i246.photobucket.com] Thread: Princess Leia ) when we rise above that we see the illusion that black and white create...( Thread: The Decision ):hf:

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No, I have no spouse or partner Im feeling guilty for the way I reacted to my peers which is weird because usually I could care less.
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 Quoting: izaak2


depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
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I didn't cheat on anyone, its just my behaviour towards others has been negative, and I'm feeling guilty even though my behavior was a reaction to others being dicks....whatever
 Quoting: izaak2


So, why are you sorry if people were being dicks to you and you gave them back what they gave you?
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depends on what it is.

the longer you wait to come clean, the worse it is and less likely the other person will feel you are sincere (i.e, if you've been having an affair for a few years, stuff like that).

honestly is always the best policy, not just for the others involved but more for yourself, so you can be free and move on with being a true person, as opposed to being a jackass.

I've had a bunch of people fuck me over in life. of those who sincerely asked for my forgiveness and were sorry, I forgave them and then depending on how bad they fucked me over, I quickly discarded them from my life to protect myself from future fuck overs (history often repeats itself). Its hard when its a spouse, because there is so much riding on the next fuck up.

good luck. Just be honest and sincere, you can never go wrong for your own well being for that. what the other person does or thinks isn't really important.
 Quoting: I know 5813027


I didn't cheat on anyone, its just my behaviour towards others has been negative, and I'm feeling guilty even though my behavior was a reaction to others being dicks....whatever
 Quoting: izaak2


So, why are you sorry if people were being dicks to you and you gave them back what they gave you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27622626

That's what I don't understand....maybe cause I saw myself lose my composure and behave in a "low manner."
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Admit your failure.
Apologize.
Ask for forgiveness from those you harmed.
Sincerely try to not repeat what ever it is you did.
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Admit your failure.
Apologize.
Ask for forgiveness from those you harmed.
Sincerely try to not repeat what ever it is you did.
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Ok
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dont get fucked up
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dont get fucked up
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Ok just once in a while...
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Just apologize, poor your heart out and hope for the best. People are very forgiving when others outright apologize fore their behaviour.

You can do it!

SmileyWink
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Re: what do you do if you fucked up really bad?
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have sex with someones mother.
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Say u r sorry and mean it. God is good. X x
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Blame it on the boogey!
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So you beat her up, did you?
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nope,but maybe shes into that type of thing...whip
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Make amends to the people you''ve hurt.

No sex involved....
 Quoting: izaak2


Sex, or the wanting of it, seems to always be involved.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4893309


Maybe I did want to have sex with her and that was hard for me to accept???
I did feel the butterfly sensation in my stomach, a couple of times, those instances were right before she texted me. The interesting thing is I began to feel those sensations while interacting here in glp : )
The way I see it is, it is all about learning,but for some reason the resistance on this occasion to learn seems great, or maybe not I don't know.
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Blame it on the boogey!
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You mean my own Shadow?
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have sex with someones mother.
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lol nah relax
It's not completely about sex.
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Time has to pass. Time YOU spend showing how sorry you are. You have to pay, bitch! But you'll learn.
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Depends what you did bro, time heals most wounds but if its something THAT bad just change your name to Hawk-02 and celebrate in any and every Pride Parade you can find! That is what most people I know who do wrong resort to anyway, wouldn't know I'm perfect.
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Re: what do you do if you fucked up really bad?
It depends on what you exactly mean by fucked up really bad.
In some cases it means you bail, you leave and dont look back.

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