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Romantic Relationship: A neccessary constant?

 
AcrossTheUniverse
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11/10/2012 01:52 AM
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Romantic Relationship: A neccessary constant?
It's a bit obnoxious -- it seems that people are always complaining when they aren't in a relationship and vice versa.

I hear so much negativity from people who consider a person a "loser" if they aren't in a sexual relationship with someone (a romantic or even emotional one isn't even really important, it would seem).

It just breaks my heart to know how many people suffer and commit suicide this time of year. It can be lonely, but the pressure from mass media and mass marketing can certainly add to that pressure.

Just musing. Thoughts or further musing, always welcome!
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11/10/2012 01:55 AM
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Re: Romantic Relationship: A neccessary constant?
Neccesity? OH HELL NO! You can only know true peace outside any romantic entanglements, this is something I did not know until I tried it! My advice, get a dog!
eve incognito
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11/10/2012 09:46 AM
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Re: Romantic Relationship: A neccessary constant?
i'm wired in a way where the only purpos of my life is Love. seriously i am one fo those creatures, even my mother who marreid her high school sweetheart and has been living in a lovig marriage for 35 years now, used to make fun of my ideas about love and life, she said i was too romantic.
having said that, i'd rather be alone, then in a bad relationship, or in a superficial one based on sex only. (i've got porn access, i can do sex on my own, without even havig to shower or shave my legs)

i still have to say that i believe suicide is self motivated, nobody's actions, push you over the edge, suicidie is just part of some peoples plans, to cope.

most people who try or commit it belive there is something after this life....

not to get off topic too much but, basically you don't kill yourself coz you do not have a date for valentine's day, you do it when you are pretty sure there's not point in continuing to live anymore, whether you are right or wrong, who can be the judge of that.

also, nothng can fill the void left by not having experienced real love....who are we to judge people, for wanting a relatioship...

i'm not sure anymore if i agreed with your initial post or disagreed, but i do understand where you are coming from...

relationship at any cost is a bad deal!
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Re: Romantic Relationship: A neccessary constant?
most people who try or commit it belive there is something after this life....

 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


My guess is that you've never had someone you loved take their own life. Of course, we make the choice, but sometimes the pain of existing is unbearable.

But, back to the subject at hand...
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Re: Romantic Relationship: A neccessary constant?
most people who try or commit it belive there is something after this life....

 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


My guess is that you've never had someone you loved take their own life. Of course, we make the choice, but sometimes the pain of existing is unbearable.

But, back to the subject at hand...
 Quoting: AcrossTheUniverse


i understand what you mean.
and you are right, people do kill themselves coz the pain becomes unbearable.
i'm talking from a point of view of a girl that tried suicide a lot, and failed and was faced with with a loved one, my family and last time, my very recently reunited with, fiance thinking that they have done something to add to my pain and make me want to die.
in reality loved ones, as bad as things get sometimes between people who love each other, never add to pain, always help with it. i don't want people i love to think they have done something bad...
but i know what your saying, that it was selfish of me to try and take my life, when there would be people suffering pain if i died. at the time i didn't think like that, i thought people i love were better off if i'm dead, but i am begining now to see how that was an error in judgement, and you are right....it's selfish kill myself.

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