Male 29 years old and no girlfriend in almost 5 years.

There is a way for it to be even less than 0.5%, idiot. Take your numbers and fuck off.

Alright... I would be yourself... but.. if you are clingy and submissive and too nice you have an uphill battle. Women want some level of assertiveness from a guy who knows what they want in life. That's for starters. Don't be a pushover, and don't let her push you around when you know she is wrong or acting selfish. If she does not love you, kick her to the curb. Don't think you will make her love you some day, it's not gonna work. If she acts dismissive towards you constantly and is out with friends at all hours of the night, it's a warning sign.

If you are obese, lose the weight. There's no excuse here on this one. Eat less calories in a day. Just do it. Eat less carbs, and start exercising. Period.

Having a good paying job helps, and is essential if you don't have a cocky sense of humor. If you have a cocky sense of humor, and a naughty one at that, it's easy to get women for sex, you don't really need a good job then. Some people are good at this, some people are not. It will help if you are not overweight. Sex comes easy to people who talk naughty. Women eat that shit up, at least a lot of them do (not the type I would marry though)

After that you have to be careful and get to know her well, especially if she likes to go out clubbing, has a large social circle, and likes to gossip. These women are harder to please for guys not interested in that sort of thing. They are always trying to compete with each other for the 'best' man, and tend to be more on the shallow and superficial side.

Make sure you share common interests. Likes attract. Maybe she likes animals, or likes to go hiking in pretty areas, that sort of thing.

If you are thin, make sure she's not the type that will sit around all day watching soaps and let herself go. Honestly as a man it's not hard to keep the house clean. It takes maybe 10 minutes to do the dishes, and not long to do the laundry and pick up a few items. If people are that lazy that they can't even clean up after themselves, that's a warning sign they are just going to be lazy in general. If you are not lazy, avoid them. It will be hard to change this behavior and they will resent you and just do the opposite as a way of rebelling and expressing their individuality.

Use personal ads, but if they are deceptive in any way about themselves, don't be afraid to tell them off. For example if they list themselves as 'average' weight when they clearly are not. Honesty is essential. Put yourself out there. For the most part, women do not ask out men, the men have to do the work. It's a numbers game. Go to places where women your type might gather. Library, Petco, Humane Society, whatever.

Spend less time thinking and more time doing. The time you spend thinking about how you can't get a woman could be spent asking them out. The time people spend thinking about how they don't want to do this or that housework, they could just do it and it would be done. Don't be a slave to your programming. Change your mind and act on the changes. Don't be a sheep to your habitual programming. Try to use conscious willpower to change your habitual programming and break out of your 'rut'
Alright I'm done typing, I could type more but meh...

Thank you. ^THIS^ The rest of you are clueless.

being 'sad' is not attractive

trust me, ive been there.

work on that my friend.

thats my best advice

What's wrong with you?

I think that what "having confidence' means to women is having a steady paycheck, but I'm not sure. If you ask her what she means by having confidence, she'll assume you don't.

I am 21 and never had a boyfriend. I lose interest too fast. Trust me dude you have to remain patient someone will come along!

Make a tatto on yourself and women will come ...

29 with no g/f for nearly 5 years?

Sounds like someone has been stress free for nearly 5 years.

WTF does that mean? If I had good confidence, I'd obviously be the president of a business or the country. Most guys aren't.

If I was all that confident, and had that great job, I'd probably be looking for better looking women than most of the women who say they want a confident man. They can want a confident man, and I can want a 10, but will we get what we want?

Well....
I'll give you my advice, it's another way to met women : start a pen pal with women.
Often people says things in letters they would never say while talking. If you exchange by letters or mails with a woman you'll know her and her soul, her thoughts etc...and she'll do too, this is a way for you to express yourself and show your feelings. It's a way to talk about things without being judged for your appearance (for ex.)

Try it, it's really another way to met people !

The women in my area of country are all like this:

This is getting close to the truth.

It means the women in our country are into money and social status. Nevermind having the right facial features and height. That's why I call bullshit on the no less than 0.5% chance that Finnish dude wrote about.

This has much to do with feminism campaigns and things like this. It´s a fake feminineity, that is shown in this fake world. All that wants to be assured is that woman use that same abusive energy, the negative form of the male energy, that they have used for themselves over the last thousands of years, don´t know for how long.

This goes deep into the spiritual. The ones who control these campaigns and form those ideologies are well aware of what happened to woman, how men treated them in the past and most women do have scars from that, which still need to heal.
But the PTB are exploiting this. They´re using the pain of women and direct to a certain direction, namely: arrogance, ignorance, hatred... this is all very subliminal and most people don´t get that, cause nobody explained to them how this all works and it wouldn´t work of course if somebody could do that. They prevent that.

So basically what they´re preventing is the healing of the heart & the soul. You need to have a long breath if you want to wade through all this psychological stuff..
or you may find yourself lucky enough to meet a woman, who is well aware if this too, but this is rare.

We´re all pretty brainwashed one or the other way, and if you have been able to cut yourself loose from this, you find yourself in an even worse position, cause you see al of this and you can´t do much about it.

There is no solution for this.
The only solution is that this world stops this madness and gets hit by the biggest wave of awakening that has ever happened.
Looking forward to this.

If women and men would both be aware of this, then they could take the chance and heal this together, cause in the end, women and men belong together, the one needs the other.
There is so much confusion about this.
We need to forgive each other and start to love again the way it used to be.

Last Edited by A r c on 11/10/2012 10:50 AM

BZZZZZZT!

Make a tattoo on yourself and...you'll just have a tattoo.

I wrote what I had to in this fine topic. I won't be replying anymore. Don't let me kill the topic.

Take ttowngirl to Utica Square

FOREMOST: The number one problem with guys complaining like this is they are expecting women out of their leagues. If a woman isn't even talking to you, she prob thinks you are not a potential match. Don't be one of these bitter, angry 40yr-olds on this web site trashing women cause they were too stubborn to get this fact.






Also: Have you tried something online, when you can talk a while and give her a chance to know you?

Also: You and your age group may just be too young. Girls and guys are both dating around at that age.

Hey OP....

You are born into this world alone and you will leave this world alone.

Remember, God only made Adam to begin with. It was Adam and God.

Many people hate being alone. They get into a relationship so they won't be alone... anything is better than being alone.

Love between a man and woman is conditional.
Love between a parent and child is unconditional.

So...what am I trying to say here?

actually in the begining it was god and eve.

god only made adam coz he wasn't strong enough to handle eve.
eve is a creature that is wired to live as apart of a couple, and since god kiddnapped eve, and enslaved her in a body of a spiritually naive and simple creature (aparanetly a gorilla), he had to give her an appearance of beign a part of a loving union, so he made adam.
adam was supose to fill eve's longing for lucifer, eve's husband and male counterpart of hers, whom she lived with before she was kidnapped by god of this world, and enslaved.
adam was only there to help god control eve coz apparently eve is one of the strongest creatures ever to inhabit this universe, she i spossibly even stronger than the creator god, why else would he have all the upper hands possible and still coudn't manage to trick eve into doing much for him. eve did have his beastie little rape baby, and she even gave him a chance suffering from stockholm syndrome, when she was just a simple peasent girl from the desert jewish tribe, but never for a moment did miriam the mother of jesus christ, (basically same person as eve only in another incarnation), feel that god justifes for a minte love she is deperately trying to feel for him, coz she is told she was suppose to, and pretty soon miriam started thinking she was really a prisoner of satan, and the real loving god that made her was the other guy, that this satan god that's keeping her prisoner and made a baby to her, named lucifer....this is a true story miriam the mother of god died believing lucifer was the god her creator, and YHWH was really her satan keeper, who made her son a raging lunatic that enjoyed silly talk and raping his mother.....people talk of what they think they know, coz they couldn't really handle the truth if they knew it for what it was....the story of jesus christ is not a pretty one, or romantic one as chrstioans would like you to belive...he was insane and on number of ocassions raped his own mother.miriam felt shame and humiliation, but most of all guilt that she rasied such a monster. she was the best mother she could have been and joseph was a good dad, but nature one over nurture and jesus christ was a nasty psycho who enjoyed humiliating his mother in every possible and graphic way and i wish people would stop telling old wives tales abot jesus and instead learn about Lucifer, and Love...people do not know much about Love, and as it turns out neither do angels.

Who is ttowngirl?

OP just because you have not encountered women who are attracted to you on that level does not mean there is something wrong with them, they just are not attracted. Why do men constantly use this to say something is wrong wit the women????????????

No one can help wsho they are attracted to as a potential mate. If that could be resolved sthere would be a lot of very rich people who would pedal it.

You will meet that special person and you will have absolutley nothing at all to do with it, just be ready when it comes your way.

Just to clear things up, I'm not mega-depressed, and I'm not fat. I eat mostly organic/free range and I'm 6'4 210 lbs and get decent exercise. I'm not rich, but I've got a job and live on my own. I don't hate women anymore than I hate men if they are behaving badly. I understand that women want a confident provider type, security and all that but they don't understand that a truly confident person doesn't have to go broadcasting it to the world constantly. If they do that then there is a high probability they are actually insecure. That's what frustrates me a lot is lots of women don't seem to have a very good sense of fake confidence and a more reserved kind of confidence that doesn't have anything to prove.

god & eve

good & evil ?

stop dressing gay

Wow, you sure did alot of people....on the planet.

Just don't waste your life chasing stupid girls like I did.

In my opinion, Sex is overrated even i spend all my life in chasing that I just had enough of stupid girls and I catch myself in NOT looking at them anymore

So what do i do, i get bored, but then my ex calls my and fuck up my life once more so then I got something to do. I ended up with a Son and that is the best thing in life, -to have children, now I have someone who loves me and someone to care for.

But most gild are complete hookers, and they don't even charge, that is they are cheaper even than a real hooker. They are so cheap i would throw up over their pussy if they told me how many and who and how often they just spread em like they are trash

And its no help getting a slutty non-white girl, they are just as slutty and full of STD's

So i guess you will have to get really lucky, but off course you can find one but there is a 90% chance she will ruin you and your health and your life

Sorry!

Best of Luck!