Male 29 years old and no girlfriend in almost 5 years.

I am so sick of bring passed over for dooshbags and assholes all the time just because I don't ooze some kind of transparent fake confidence that supposed to make a girl think you've "got it all together" or whatever.

The women in my area of country are all like this:

Never saw it that way.

That's exactly what it is.

It's bullshitting yourself on the spot.

The ability to do that must indicate success in this system.

Too bad the system is bullshit.

The women are tricked into supporting it and only the male that supports it. Thinking they are supporting the real male.

It's all fucked up on this planet.

Evolution backwards.

Not good.

Too many people are letting the glowing propaganda box do all their thinking for them. They see how somebody acts on a television show and think that's the way "normal" people act.

First, it depends on where you live. If you're in a big city, you'll be surrounded by feminazis and clubbing sluts.

Second, if all you do is go to work and go home, your chances are lower.

Third, if you don't work around girls or only work with one or two hot ones or decent ones, your chances are low.

Forth, American women are incredibly fickle, selfish, preoccupied with status, looks, games. Trust me, you don't WANT most of them in your life.

Fifth, certain geographic locations probably offer more "real" and decent human beings. I would guess the Midwest, Wisconsin, Minnesota, maybe mountain regions like the Rockies.

Sixth, any girl who works with animals or loves them is probably better than the norm, more decent and down-to-Earth.

Seventh, liberalism, TV and the school system is producing really messed up people who instead of having a healthy sense of self-doubt and insecurity and morality, are instead, over-confident, bullying, loud, obnoxious and think they're entitled to everything.

Eighth, don't change into a douche to get girls. You can't even fake it. The best thing is to be happy with yourself, your life. If you're constantly worrying about yourself and how you "appear" to women, you're in trouble. They can sense fear a mile away!

Ninth, American women -- if anything -- make men work hard to get their attention, and they don't show much attention to men (unless you're some tatooed, loud-mouthed, skateboarding idiot). If you're not getting a reciprocal amount of attention from a girl, move on.

Eleventh, if you're in college, living on campus, your chances go way up. Seems so much easier to meet a girl in college. But most of us have grown up and live in the real world, and end up in jobs where we may not necessarily be around ANY girls.

In my opinion, the perfect kind of girl is a little humble and insecure, very nice, very kind, very sincere (all qualities few people seem to have anymore) and looking for something simple and appreciates the simple things in life: having a job, decent place to live is all she demands, and appreciates a guy who is nice.

That is the kind of woman I look for and any guy ought to prize.

Sheesh man your a failure ,my wife died 10 yrs ago and i have been fighting them off ,i even had a married one offering to buy me a house near her ,i had to hide in the end,buck up your letting mankind down .

God is protecting you from mindless relationships will typical materialistic women.

wait and she will find you./

Dude,

Go visit south America, the ration is like 7 girls to a guy.

Don't waste your time here and there' s nothing wrong with you.

The population mix is a disaster in the US.

Most men like myself, from my city in NJ, who are approx. 24, usually date foreign women. Take a trip to South America and be appreciated for being human by latin woman, who are not wealth seeking media washed junkies.

Buy: The Blue Print, by real social dynamics.

Too many people are letting the glowing propaganda box do all their thinking for them. They see how somebody acts on a television show and think that's the way "normal" people act.

Probably because you spell douche bag "DOOSHBAG" what a fucking joke. your an idiot that's why. Plain as day brother

Are you a male? I hope you earn plenty of income, have hard assets and social status or you will be in the same boat as the OP.

girls want a a bad boy/player type guy who plays hard to get

being 'sad' is not attractive

trust me, ive been there.

work on that my friend.

thats my best advice

I make over $100k and have 4 months off a year on vacation. I have many properties and high social status.

You could have all of these, too, if you weren't an Obamaweenieboy.

Pitiful....you're contradicting yourself!
They want you to think that in order to be happy, you NEED a woman, a house, a cool car, fame, etc.
Fact is you don't need it.
Why do you think they release all these love stories, where they portray the man as a sad pathetic miserable suicidal loser....UNTIL HE FIND THE ONE AND ONLY ONE HIS SAVIOR SEXY WOMAN!!!!
BRAINWASHING! THEY GOT YOU BY THE BALLS!
you're a sheep!

Pitiful....you're contradicting yourself!
They want you to think that in order to be happy, you NEED a woman, a house, a cool car, fame, etc.
Fact is you don't need it.
Why do you think they release all these love stories, where they portray the man as a sad pathetic miserable suicidal loser....UNTIL HE FIND THE ONE AND ONLY ONE HIS SAVIOR SEXY WOMAN!!!!
BRAINWASHING! THEY GOT YOU BY THE BALLS!
you're a sheep!

Ok, I understand that I'll be fine if I don't ever meet the right girl for me but that doesn't mean I can't aspire for a nice girlfriend/maybe wife eventually. Oh I know that there is that whole meme out there promoted on movies/television etc. but that doesn't mean there isn't a natural instinct in humans to be together...

Why shouldn't I want to be happy?

pffff so what??? you're so superficial and vain...these things have ZERO value! All that matters is your heart! Your character!
stay ignorant and indoctrinated by the evil media!

Ok, I understand that I'll be fine if I don't ever meet the right girl for me but that doesn't mean I can't aspire for a nice girlfriend/maybe wife eventually. Oh I know that there is that whole meme out there promoted on movies/television etc. but that doesn't mean there isn't a natural instinct in humans to be together...

Why shouldn't I want to be happy?

Go ahead and be dirt poor -- enjoy the hell out of it.

BTW, I am more well aware of the reality of the world than you'll ever be, Obamaweenieboy. For example, you are going to die in a thermonuclear war.