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I have been in a long relationship for 21 years.
We have four kids together and have been through the hell only to emerge into a deeper, cleaner relationship.

The reason I never got married because everyone I saw entering the process had a profound change in the relationship and it was not for the better.

All equal relationships with respect and yet marriage implies ownership. You become a possessive - you become my wife or my husband. And that simple transition gives many people the right to feel that they have complete access and control of the other.

I don't think this has anything to do with cheating or projection - i think life is giving you early warning system to bail out now whilst you can. If someone has this level of emotional maturity it will deteriorate daily.

You say you can't walk away - but you will eventually and it will be far more difficult than now.
You really have to honour the self before you can think of honoring anyone else.
My computer, my passwords are my own. I have a secret world as do each of us.
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Not everybody has a "secret world".Some of us have nothing to hide.
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I don't mean anything to hide.

Bascially you and I can both look at the exact same thing and see it in different ways.
I can never know how you feel - you can tell me how you feel but i won't know what is that you are actually feeling.
So that is what I am saying.
We all manifest certain aspects of being to function in the world but there are also just spaces where you are not putting on any mask or any hat. You are just pure being.
That is what I am talking about secret selves.
awareness abiding as awareness.
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there are some very immature poeple on this forum.

i will s +ay this much any man that does not enjoy anal is a terrible lover, coz squimish men do not make good lovers.
gay men are men enough to engage i anal, for goodnes sake, if a heterosexual guy is that inhibited, what the hell is he a girl?

any girl that thinks she does't enjoy anal just hasn't met a very good lover.

that some people get a bit giddy when we talk about certain perfectly natural sexual pracitces makes me think they are 16.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


So you really let hubby put that big tool up your bum? chuckle
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i sad body parts.raspberry

we are in two different countries now, which is why i spent all my time either talking to him or on GLP, but when i go home we won't stop making love for two days straight, forget the bum, maybe i will ask him to put it up my nose.ura
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


So I reckon you dig having a finger there while you're getting blasted? chuckle
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i know my sex life became everyone's business. i know camp walls are thin and i am loud.i know it's not anyone's fault i thought i had to run form love and end up with no privacy whats so ever....
( in my plan i'd be dead, at times maybe i'd rahter be dead than put up with some of the stuff i had to put up in the past year).

which is why, i am ever more surprised when we are talking about level of closeness any of us is comfy acheaving in a relationship, and i give an example that if i am close enough to my husband to overcome my aversion to certain kinds of sex, i must be very close to him, so passwords certaally do't trump overcoming aversion to where he places himself inside me....and some of you get so very hung up on the example that i feel i am talking to teenagers. yes, i enjog abdul's finger, anywhere he puts it, but you knew that already, why are you making such a big issue out of it?

i am not angry, i am just curious?
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Just say "no". Then go have a beer.
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"The nature of the universe is such that ends can never justify the means. On the contrary, the means always determine the end."
(Aldous Huxley)
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She is cheating on you, and she is projecting the guilt of that onto you and thus suspecting you of doing the same.
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yup...
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i will not comment on men calling women "hos" coz i never try to teach apes to have human understanding.
apes are apes, and men who are still at ape level, do not concern me.

i will comment on women who feel insecure about husband watching porn, coz "they cannot match up to the porn ladies"

why don't you protest your husband watching movies, or any kind of show involving pretty woman, coz none of us can match up to rich movie stars and tv ladies who get extra groomed and comsmetic surgery inhanced coz of the nature of their job.

so marry an amish man, and you do not have to worry about him watching,on tv, ladies you can ever match up to.

why don't you also protest your husband walking out in the street or going to work, since he is bound to meet some women prettier than you, which you can't match up to...

it's a flawed logic you are using, all men like porn, and all women would like it too, if they weren't hypocrits.

(i do not like all kinds of porn, but i make sure to find the kind i like, and in this day and age that is easy)
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So you really let hubby put that big tool up your bum? chuckle
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i sad body parts.raspberry

we are in two different countries now, which is why i spent all my time either talking to him or on GLP, but when i go home we won't stop making love for two days straight, forget the bum, maybe i will ask him to put it up my nose.ura
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


So I reckon you dig having a finger there while you're getting blasted? chuckle
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i know my sex life became everyone's business. i know camp walls are thin and i am loud.i know it's not anyone's fault i thought i had to run form love and end up with no privacy whats so ever....
( in my plan i'd be dead, at times maybe i'd rahter be dead than put up with some of the stuff i had to put up in the past year).

which is why, i am ever more surprised when we are talking about level of closeness any of us is comfy acheaving in a relationship, and i give an example that if i am close enough to my husband to overcome my aversion to certain kinds of sex, i must be very close to him, so passwords certaally do't trump overcoming aversion to where he places himself inside me....and some of you get so very hung up on the example that i feel i am talking to teenagers. yes, i enjog abdul's finger, anywhere he puts it, but you knew that already, why are you making such a big issue out of it?

i am not angry, i am just curious?
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Adbul? cruise

I like you Eve but you're certainly one of those crazy self absorbed bitches. I look forward to more amusement from your part though wink
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

-- Dixon Diaz
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i sad body parts.raspberry

we are in two different countries now, which is why i spent all my time either talking to him or on GLP, but when i go home we won't stop making love for two days straight, forget the bum, maybe i will ask him to put it up my nose.ura
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


So I reckon you dig having a finger there while you're getting blasted? chuckle
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i know my sex life became everyone's business. i know camp walls are thin and i am loud.i know it's not anyone's fault i thought i had to run form love and end up with no privacy whats so ever....
( in my plan i'd be dead, at times maybe i'd rahter be dead than put up with some of the stuff i had to put up in the past year).

which is why, i am ever more surprised when we are talking about level of closeness any of us is comfy acheaving in a relationship, and i give an example that if i am close enough to my husband to overcome my aversion to certain kinds of sex, i must be very close to him, so passwords certaally do't trump overcoming aversion to where he places himself inside me....and some of you get so very hung up on the example that i feel i am talking to teenagers. yes, i enjog abdul's finger, anywhere he puts it, but you knew that already, why are you making such a big issue out of it?

i am not angry, i am just curious?
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Adbul? cruise

I like you Eve but you're certainly one of those crazy self absorbed bitches. I look forward to more amusement from your part though wink
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


you're easily amused aren't you?

do you feel better now that you got that off of your chest?

aw, and, is that why you religously fallow my posts?
coz you think i am "crazy, self absorbed and a bitch?", or are you just trying to get a reaction out of me?

i think you ought to stop imagining we have some kind of connection and leave me be.

I don't like you.

you're nothing but a wankerwink
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So I reckon you dig having a finger there while you're getting blasted? chuckle
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i know my sex life became everyone's business. i know camp walls are thin and i am loud.i know it's not anyone's fault i thought i had to run form love and end up with no privacy whats so ever....
( in my plan i'd be dead, at times maybe i'd rahter be dead than put up with some of the stuff i had to put up in the past year).

which is why, i am ever more surprised when we are talking about level of closeness any of us is comfy acheaving in a relationship, and i give an example that if i am close enough to my husband to overcome my aversion to certain kinds of sex, i must be very close to him, so passwords certaally do't trump overcoming aversion to where he places himself inside me....and some of you get so very hung up on the example that i feel i am talking to teenagers. yes, i enjog abdul's finger, anywhere he puts it, but you knew that already, why are you making such a big issue out of it?

i am not angry, i am just curious?
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Adbul? cruise

I like you Eve but you're certainly one of those crazy self absorbed bitches. I look forward to more amusement from your part though wink
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


you're easily amused aren't you?

do you feel better now that you got that off of your chest?

aw, and, is that why you religously fallow my posts?
coz you think i am "crazy, self absorbed and a bitch?", or are you just trying to get a reaction out of me?

i think you ought to stop imagining we have some kind of connection and leave me be.

I don't like you.

you're nothing but a wankerwink
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Well I do sort of like you, unfortunately you seem a bit too anally retentive (no pun intended chuckle) all the time. You should take it a bit easier girl, we're here to have a good time, don't take everything so personal. I am glad you called me a wanker, you'd be right in that, just as I am right in calling you a bitch wink
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

-- Dixon Diaz
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i know my sex life became everyone's business. i know camp walls are thin and i am loud.i know it's not anyone's fault i thought i had to run form love and end up with no privacy whats so ever....
( in my plan i'd be dead, at times maybe i'd rahter be dead than put up with some of the stuff i had to put up in the past year).

which is why, i am ever more surprised when we are talking about level of closeness any of us is comfy acheaving in a relationship, and i give an example that if i am close enough to my husband to overcome my aversion to certain kinds of sex, i must be very close to him, so passwords certaally do't trump overcoming aversion to where he places himself inside me....and some of you get so very hung up on the example that i feel i am talking to teenagers. yes, i enjog abdul's finger, anywhere he puts it, but you knew that already, why are you making such a big issue out of it?

i am not angry, i am just curious?
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Adbul? cruise

I like you Eve but you're certainly one of those crazy self absorbed bitches. I look forward to more amusement from your part though wink
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


you're easily amused aren't you?

do you feel better now that you got that off of your chest?

aw, and, is that why you religously fallow my posts?
coz you think i am "crazy, self absorbed and a bitch?", or are you just trying to get a reaction out of me?

i think you ought to stop imagining we have some kind of connection and leave me be.

I don't like you.

you're nothing but a wankerwink
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Well I do sort of like you, unfortunately you seem a bit too anally retentive (no pun intended chuckle) all the time. You should take it a bit easier girl, we're here to have a good time, don't take everything so personal. I am glad you called me a wanker, you'd be right in that, just as I am right in calling you a bitch wink
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i'm begining to think you like getting punched in the face by my husband. why else would you be asking for it AGAIN? so far you like stalking your friend's gf accross the country, listening in on their love making and calling her names untill you get one in the face?

any of your hobies i missed?

(aw yes, abusing women, slandering your best friend so you could get into his fiances panties. inventing preposterous undercover identities you can't possibly pull off....etc)

seriously do you ever plan to get a life of your own, or will you continue to live vicariously through your EX best friend's life?

this is not a rethorical question dude, you need to get a life!
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Wifey here............

I think she wants the passwords because she doesn't trust YOU!
Also, from a psychological point of view......you will be less likely to look at porn and email or phone another female because you realize now that she has your passwords, she can bust you for it.

BRILLIANT on her part.......... HEHEHEHEHEHEHE
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she should wipe his ass and examin his poop and boogers.

i'm serious. if she wants all his passwords and private documents and thoughts she should have his shit too.
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I don't mean anything to hide.

Bascially you and I can both look at the exact same thing and see it in different ways.
I can never know how you feel - you can tell me how you feel but i won't know what is that you are actually feeling.
So that is what I am saying.
We all manifest certain aspects of being to function in the world but there are also just spaces where you are not putting on any mask or any hat. You are just pure being.
That is what I am talking about secret selves.
 Quoting: khoisansun


this is sick control brought about from fear, paranoia and lack of confidence. where is the unconditional love?
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Adbul? cruise

I like you Eve but you're certainly one of those crazy self absorbed bitches. I look forward to more amusement from your part though wink
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


you're easily amused aren't you?

do you feel better now that you got that off of your chest?

aw, and, is that why you religously fallow my posts?
coz you think i am "crazy, self absorbed and a bitch?", or are you just trying to get a reaction out of me?

i think you ought to stop imagining we have some kind of connection and leave me be.

I don't like you.

you're nothing but a wankerwink
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Well I do sort of like you, unfortunately you seem a bit too anally retentive (no pun intended chuckle) all the time. You should take it a bit easier girl, we're here to have a good time, don't take everything so personal. I am glad you called me a wanker, you'd be right in that, just as I am right in calling you a bitch wink
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i'm begining to think you like getting punched in the face by my husband. why else would you be asking for it AGAIN? so far you like stalking your friend's gf accross the country, listening in on their love making and calling her names untill you get one in the face?

any of your hobies i missed?

(aw yes, abusing women, slandering your best friend so you could get into his fiances panties. inventing preposterous undercover identities you can't possibly pull off....etc)

seriously do you ever plan to get a life of your own, or will you continue to live vicariously through your EX best friend's life?

this is not a rethorical question dude, you need to get a life!
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


WTF are you talking about? I think you either have me confused with someone else or you have an acute case of paranoid schizophrenia cruise In any case dear, I suggest you follow my advice and chill out a bit. It's all in good fun with me, if you take it any other way you're taking it the wrong way.
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

-- Dixon Diaz
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It's obvious that there are trust issues between you two. What exactly will you lose if you open up? Besides a line that is fair enough to draw as a boundary. Boundaries are good; without them people will walk all over you because you have no lines that can't be crossed, so they will keep pushing until they find one, let them cross and they will look for another...instead hold your ground; if they respect that fine, if not move on. Life is too short.
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I'd refuse. If she really does this she doesn't really love you and/or trust you, in my opinion. Then again people with really active social lives out partying all the time shouldn't even be getting married and having kids, they need to grow up first.
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i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?
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Because his wife won't give him her passwords but yet wants him to give up his.
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you're easily amused aren't you?

do you feel better now that you got that off of your chest?

aw, and, is that why you religously fallow my posts?
coz you think i am "crazy, self absorbed and a bitch?", or are you just trying to get a reaction out of me?

i think you ought to stop imagining we have some kind of connection and leave me be.

I don't like you.

you're nothing but a wankerwink
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Well I do sort of like you, unfortunately you seem a bit too anally retentive (no pun intended chuckle) all the time. You should take it a bit easier girl, we're here to have a good time, don't take everything so personal. I am glad you called me a wanker, you'd be right in that, just as I am right in calling you a bitch wink
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i'm begining to think you like getting punched in the face by my husband. why else would you be asking for it AGAIN? so far you like stalking your friend's gf accross the country, listening in on their love making and calling her names untill you get one in the face?

any of your hobies i missed?

(aw yes, abusing women, slandering your best friend so you could get into his fiances panties. inventing preposterous undercover identities you can't possibly pull off....etc)

seriously do you ever plan to get a life of your own, or will you continue to live vicariously through your EX best friend's life?

this is not a rethorical question dude, you need to get a life!
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


WTF are you talking about? I think you either have me confused with someone else or you have an acute case of paranoid schizophrenia cruise In any case dear, I suggest you follow my advice and chill out a bit. It's all in good fun with me, if you take it any other way you're taking it the wrong way.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


or what you'll hit me?

gosh goodness, you are really desperate for a reaction aren't you?

WOW
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Well I do sort of like you, unfortunately you seem a bit too anally retentive (no pun intended chuckle) all the time. You should take it a bit easier girl, we're here to have a good time, don't take everything so personal. I am glad you called me a wanker, you'd be right in that, just as I am right in calling you a bitch wink
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i'm begining to think you like getting punched in the face by my husband. why else would you be asking for it AGAIN? so far you like stalking your friend's gf accross the country, listening in on their love making and calling her names untill you get one in the face?

any of your hobies i missed?

(aw yes, abusing women, slandering your best friend so you could get into his fiances panties. inventing preposterous undercover identities you can't possibly pull off....etc)

seriously do you ever plan to get a life of your own, or will you continue to live vicariously through your EX best friend's life?

this is not a rethorical question dude, you need to get a life!
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


WTF are you talking about? I think you either have me confused with someone else or you have an acute case of paranoid schizophrenia cruise In any case dear, I suggest you follow my advice and chill out a bit. It's all in good fun with me, if you take it any other way you're taking it the wrong way.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


or what you'll hit me?

gosh goodness, you are really desperate for a reaction aren't you?

WOW
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Why do you have this image of me? I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I've never hit my gf. Stop projecting your man hatred onto me, I am not the demon you'd like to imagine I am.
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

-- Dixon Diaz
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i'm begining to think you like getting punched in the face by my husband. why else would you be asking for it AGAIN? so far you like stalking your friend's gf accross the country, listening in on their love making and calling her names untill you get one in the face?

any of your hobies i missed?

(aw yes, abusing women, slandering your best friend so you could get into his fiances panties. inventing preposterous undercover identities you can't possibly pull off....etc)

seriously do you ever plan to get a life of your own, or will you continue to live vicariously through your EX best friend's life?

this is not a rethorical question dude, you need to get a life!
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


WTF are you talking about? I think you either have me confused with someone else or you have an acute case of paranoid schizophrenia cruise In any case dear, I suggest you follow my advice and chill out a bit. It's all in good fun with me, if you take it any other way you're taking it the wrong way.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


or what you'll hit me?

gosh goodness, you are really desperate for a reaction aren't you?

WOW
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Why do you have this image of me? I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I've never hit my gf. Stop projecting your man hatred onto me, I am not the demon you'd like to imagine I am.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


of course you're not. actual demons are dangerous to their enemies.
the only people you are dangerous to, are people who try to be your friends.

you're the guy from that saying, "with friends like that who needs enemies."

i feel sorry for any woman who had anything relationship or sexual like with you, i really do.

and you do know that you are so disqualified, don't ya?

LOL

how does it feel to know your thinking with your dick disqulified you from the war?

aw wait, yolu are not matture enough to relize that, you blame me, lol.

you are a truelly pathetic excuse for anything other than an ape.
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isn't it normal to share that stuff with your husband?

i'd be pretty sad if my husband wouldn't use my stuff (phone coputer), as if it was his own, nothing to do with distrust really, just closeness, also if he'd deny me passwords to his stuff.it's not like i don't trust him, it's just the man puts his body parts inside my bum, i think i'm entitled to use his facebook password as mine and vise verca.
i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Um. Really? There has to be some separation. You start out as two individual people so you should remain as such. It isn't like when you said vows you automatically morphed into ONE person.

I am baffled by the Facebook and email accounts that are Mr&MrsWhatever@... Why can't there be some aspects of privacy?

I am a 46 year old widow (2 years in now) who didn't trust my husband for good reason but I swear if I had insisted on knowing all his private information I would have shot myself.

There IS such a thing as TOO MUCH "closeness"
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Maybe the wife wants a reason to be able to trust...I can relate to that.
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i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?
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Because his wife won't give him her passwords but yet wants him to give up his.
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He never said she wouldnt give him her passwords..I didnt see that post anywhere.
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i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597

Because his wife won't give him her passwords but yet wants him to give up his.
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He never said she wouldnt give him her passwords..I didnt see that post anywhere.
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he actually said something to the point of "she didn't offer her passwords, just asked for mine", but i assume this would be kind of two way street, situation.

or is the husband seriously expecting her to take his passwords and keep hers a secret?

i really don't understand what the big deal is, my husband is my best friend, why would i need to keep him at bay.
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WTF are you talking about? I think you either have me confused with someone else or you have an acute case of paranoid schizophrenia cruise In any case dear, I suggest you follow my advice and chill out a bit. It's all in good fun with me, if you take it any other way you're taking it the wrong way.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


or what you'll hit me?

gosh goodness, you are really desperate for a reaction aren't you?

WOW
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Why do you have this image of me? I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I've never hit my gf. Stop projecting your man hatred onto me, I am not the demon you'd like to imagine I am.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


of course you're not. actual demons are dangerous to their enemies.
the only people you are dangerous to, are people who try to be your friends.

you're the guy from that saying, "with friends like that who needs enemies."

i feel sorry for any woman who had anything relationship or sexual like with you, i really do.

and you do know that you are so disqualified, don't ya?

LOL

how does it feel to know your thinking with your dick disqulified you from the war?

aw wait, yolu are not matture enough to relize that, you blame me, lol.

you are a truelly pathetic excuse for anything other than an ape.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Damn, you're batshit insane, I like you more every second, go on, please. grinning
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

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If she didn't offer to give you hers first then you have a very real problem.
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Yeah.
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My ex did the same thing...

She was mentally ill and this was a reflection of her illness. You can't fix it - and you can't endure it. If she's mentally ill it will just get worse.

Eventually mine left, but it was a crazy thing to go through. Financially devestating, and incredibly damaging to my kids. Indescribably so... Position yourself now.

Understand it's over... Ride it out, but ready yourself for a "soft-landing." Get a safe deposit box in another state and sock away some money, and any important papers you'll need to start a new life when the time comes. She'll try to destroy everything of value to you when she goes. That's the way control freaks are.

When the time comes you'll want to get a PO box as well. The way you phrase your problem shows that you already feel unsafe in the relationship. You're spider-ssense is correct. Trust your feelings.

If you have kids you'll need to get copies of their birth certificates - because you'll never see the ones she has control of. BTW - I got custody of my kids. But it was not easy.

You can prolong the pain by giving up your information... It will buy you time, and maybe get you laid a couple more times - but the paranoia will continue. At least ask for hers as a quid-pro-quo - and go in and look at it. Copy her address book [look for evidence of other email addys she might be using] and any questionable emails - the ones that show she is a crazy, stalker bitch... Paranoiacs always leave a trail, because they burn too much brain space keeping track of everyone else to clean up their own mess...

Anyway OP, best of luck in your life.
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Wife popped the question and she wants the passwords to my cell phone, laptop, etc.
I'm not cheating on her! I use passwords for my own
security reasons, but what is the solution to this?
She has her own laptop, cell phone, and is constantly on Facebook. Again, I repeat, I am not cheating on her and there is no reason for her to distrust me...just the passwords...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26780828


Wow. I guess I'm alone in this thinking but really OP, it's your WIFE we are talking about here. Me thinks you protest too much. This is the woman you share your life with and you have a problem giving out passwords? Why does a husband and wife even require passwords? This is why the divorce rate is so high.
Idiot. If you have a problem providing her complete access to your "online" activities...you have bigger problems than her!
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or what you'll hit me?

gosh goodness, you are really desperate for a reaction aren't you?

WOW
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Why do you have this image of me? I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I've never hit my gf. Stop projecting your man hatred onto me, I am not the demon you'd like to imagine I am.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


of course you're not. actual demons are dangerous to their enemies.
the only people you are dangerous to, are people who try to be your friends.

you're the guy from that saying, "with friends like that who needs enemies."

i feel sorry for any woman who had anything relationship or sexual like with you, i really do.

and you do know that you are so disqualified, don't ya?

LOL

how does it feel to know your thinking with your dick disqulified you from the war?

aw wait, yolu are not matture enough to relize that, you blame me, lol.

you are a truelly pathetic excuse for anything other than an ape.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Damn, you're batshit insane, I like you more every second, go on, please. grinning
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i don't know if you cannot understand, or you refuse to understand, coz i don't know you well enough, and i am not planning to change that, but i will one last time try and explain things to you.

you got stuck in between two people that love each other very much, and you were never eve so much as a person to me, you were means to an end, and end was to protect my husband from what i thought was his immidiate demise.

maybe you were lonely, maybe just an egotistical ass that took pleasure in hurting your friend, i dunno, probably both, but you handled things poorly.

abusing a broken dowm woman in distress aside, you proved yourself to be a bad friend, and that was definetly your loss, coz you lost an amazing man and a very good freind, but that is between you and your freind.

i am asking you for the last time, to please leave me alone.

i don't want to talk to you, see you, see your posts that comment on mine, or have anything to do with you.
you have hurt me enough, and done plenty of damage and it's time you relized i want nothing to do with you and left me alone.

you greatly misunderstood me and my motives for ever looking your way, let along anything else, and my life is not a show for your ammusment, and have the decency to just stay out of it.
quit fallowing me around in virtual reality or physical reality.

you are hurresing me, and if that hasn't been all to clear to you up to know, i am hereby making it crystal clear for you and everyone else.

please leave me alone and never address me again, by any means or way imaginable.

if you continue to persue me, i will have to ask around for ways to protect myself agaisnt you pestering me, and when i learn the proper channels i need to go through i will take the neccessery measure to stop you from doing so.

enough is enough, and this ends right here and now.
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Why do you have this image of me? I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I've never hit my gf. Stop projecting your man hatred onto me, I am not the demon you'd like to imagine I am.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


of course you're not. actual demons are dangerous to their enemies.
the only people you are dangerous to, are people who try to be your friends.

you're the guy from that saying, "with friends like that who needs enemies."

i feel sorry for any woman who had anything relationship or sexual like with you, i really do.

and you do know that you are so disqualified, don't ya?

LOL

how does it feel to know your thinking with your dick disqulified you from the war?

aw wait, yolu are not matture enough to relize that, you blame me, lol.

you are a truelly pathetic excuse for anything other than an ape.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Damn, you're batshit insane, I like you more every second, go on, please. grinning
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i don't know if you cannot understand, or you refuse to understand, coz i don't know you well enough, and i am not planning to change that, but i will one last time try and explain things to you.

you got stuck in between two people that love each other very much, and you were never eve so much as a person to me, you were means to an end, and end was to protect my husband from what i thought was his immidiate demise.

maybe you were lonely, maybe just an egotistical ass that took pleasure in hurting your friend, i dunno, probably both, but you handled things poorly.

abusing a broken dowm woman in distress aside, you proved yourself to be a bad friend, and that was definetly your loss, coz you lost an amazing man and a very good freind, but that is between you and your freind.

i am asking you for the last time, to please leave me alone.

i don't want to talk to you, see you, see your posts that comment on mine, or have anything to do with you.
you have hurt me enough, and done plenty of damage and it's time you relized i want nothing to do with you and left me alone.

you greatly misunderstood me and my motives for ever looking your way, let along anything else, and my life is not a show for your ammusment, and have the decency to just stay out of it.
quit fallowing me around in virtual reality or physical reality.

you are hurresing me, and if that hasn't been all to clear to you up to know, i am hereby making it crystal clear for you and everyone else.

please leave me alone and never address me again, by any means or way imaginable.

if you continue to persue me, i will have to ask around for ways to protect myself agaisnt you pestering me, and when i learn the proper channels i need to go through i will take the neccessery measure to stop you from doing so.

enough is enough, and this ends right here and now.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27593724


Ok, are you on drugs, mentally insane, or just have an uncontrolled imagination?

Cuz I am honestly flipping out rainbow dolphins with you right now.
"White privilege" is the liberal religion's version of Original Sin: you are born guilty, and you carry that burden of guilt all your life, and the only way to escape eternal damnation is for white people confess their sin, to bow, kneel and believe the dogma of the Church of Liberalism, genuflect at its altars, honor its saints, fill the collection plate, and never, ever doubt.

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Wife popped the question and she wants the passwords to my cell phone, laptop, etc.
I'm not cheating on her! I use passwords for my own
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She has her own laptop, cell phone, and is constantly on Facebook. Again, I repeat, I am not cheating on her and there is no reason for her to distrust me...just the passwords...
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The solution is giving her the gift of absolute trust.
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of course you're not. actual demons are dangerous to their enemies.
the only people you are dangerous to, are people who try to be your friends.

you're the guy from that saying, "with friends like that who needs enemies."

i feel sorry for any woman who had anything relationship or sexual like with you, i really do.

and you do know that you are so disqualified, don't ya?

LOL

how does it feel to know your thinking with your dick disqulified you from the war?

aw wait, yolu are not matture enough to relize that, you blame me, lol.

you are a truelly pathetic excuse for anything other than an ape.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27444597


Damn, you're batshit insane, I like you more every second, go on, please. grinning
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


i don't know if you cannot understand, or you refuse to understand, coz i don't know you well enough, and i am not planning to change that, but i will one last time try and explain things to you.

you got stuck in between two people that love each other very much, and you were never eve so much as a person to me, you were means to an end, and end was to protect my husband from what i thought was his immidiate demise.

maybe you were lonely, maybe just an egotistical ass that took pleasure in hurting your friend, i dunno, probably both, but you handled things poorly.

abusing a broken dowm woman in distress aside, you proved yourself to be a bad friend, and that was definetly your loss, coz you lost an amazing man and a very good freind, but that is between you and your freind.

i am asking you for the last time, to please leave me alone.

i don't want to talk to you, see you, see your posts that comment on mine, or have anything to do with you.
you have hurt me enough, and done plenty of damage and it's time you relized i want nothing to do with you and left me alone.

you greatly misunderstood me and my motives for ever looking your way, let along anything else, and my life is not a show for your ammusment, and have the decency to just stay out of it.
quit fallowing me around in virtual reality or physical reality.

you are hurresing me, and if that hasn't been all to clear to you up to know, i am hereby making it crystal clear for you and everyone else.

please leave me alone and never address me again, by any means or way imaginable.

if you continue to persue me, i will have to ask around for ways to protect myself agaisnt you pestering me, and when i learn the proper channels i need to go through i will take the neccessery measure to stop you from doing so.

enough is enough, and this ends right here and now.
 Quoting: eve incognito 27593724


Ok, are you on drugs, mentally insane, or just have an uncontrolled imagination?

Cuz I am honestly flipping out rainbow dolphins with you right now.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


cruise
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"Yes, we have hurdles, we have distractions, we have disasters, personally and world-wide, and we do have to work it all out ourselves. BUT, there is a most amazing experience awaiting us on the other end of the finish-line.
The idea being, once we can handle it all down here, then we can live and explore eternally, responsibly, because we know what not to do, and not be resentful about being responsible, so we don't start a polarity domino effect in the other realms of existence."

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