This is insulting. Using sneaky tactics to see if the man you married, and supposedly trust, is cheating? Why not just enjoy life? If he's cheating you'll find out eventually somehow anyway. The only time I can imagine snooping like that being relevant is if he's being extremely seedy. People have a hard time hiding cheating behavior, so it's pretty damned obvious. There's no need to get your panties in a bunch because he doesn't want to share every file and folder with you. And using sneaky tactics to trick men into making your neurotic and overactive imagination feel better is crazy. The media may make it look normal, but it is CRAZY.

Living life with such suspicion is unhealthy and unloving towards the person you supposedly care about. I get it because there are plenty of men who do a lot of shitty things, and then come online to brag about it even. But worrying about what ifs like this when there's no evidence of wrongdoing is no way to live life. He'll probably end up a cheat because his wife is acting crazy and suspicious and he feels lonely and judged. So you reap what you sow, ladies.