Wife popped the question and she wants the passwords to my cell phone, laptop, etc. More inside...

Haha, I don't want to agree with you on this, and yet...

You do anal?? Tell your hubby how lucky he is...that his wife admits it on the net lol

isn't it normal to share that stuff with your husband?

i'd be pretty sad if my husband wouldn't use my stuff (phone coputer), as if it was his own, nothing to do with distrust really, just closeness, also if he'd deny me passwords to his stuff.it's not like i don't trust him, it's just the man puts his body parts inside my bum, i think i'm entitled to use his facebook password as mine and vise verca.
i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?

This is insulting. Using sneaky tactics to see if the man you married, and supposedly trust, is cheating? Why not just enjoy life? If he's cheating you'll find out eventually somehow anyway. The only time I can imagine snooping like that being relevant is if he's being extremely seedy. People have a hard time hiding cheating behavior, so it's pretty damned obvious. There's no need to get your panties in a bunch because he doesn't want to share every file and folder with you. And using sneaky tactics to trick men into making your neurotic and overactive imagination feel better is crazy. The media may make it look normal, but it is CRAZY.

Living life with such suspicion is unhealthy and unloving towards the person you supposedly care about. I get it because there are plenty of men who do a lot of shitty things, and then come online to brag about it even. But worrying about what ifs like this when there's no evidence of wrongdoing is no way to live life. He'll probably end up a cheat because his wife is acting crazy and suspicious and he feels lonely and judged. So you reap what you sow, ladies.

but i look at porn too, why would my hubby hide his porn form me, unless it's child porn or snuff??
i don't understand people who think woman dislike porn, and woman who disilike it.
it's porn everyone likes it, stop pretending you don't.

call me what you want, i like the fact that we share everything. also why are we emailing ppl that whant to get into our pants in the first place?i wld not mind if my husband emailed female people for a legitimate reason, work, or she is marreid to, or his family or mine, but why would he need to email some random girl who wants him, that is just bad marriage strategy.frankly if my husband would not go thru my phone, i'd consider him unloving, cold and horrible. what kind of barbarian isn't interested in his woman's electronical life.if most people think that is controlling no wonder you fail at relationships.....you cannot have your cake and eat it, you cannot have amazing love and keep your bogos "freedom", the best freedom is in a loving relationship, where you share everything.

excuse me i will not apologize for having a sexy husband that keeps track of everything i do, and that makes me within my right to demand reciprocity in track keeping, and frankly its very sexy....

You are a woman to my taste, the porn part I mean. You sound a bit paranoid but I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt. I hope I meet a woman like you one day (soon) so we can watch porn and do it the way they do it on Discovery Channel.

We have a lot of anal freak chicks in this forum.

isn't it normal to share that stuff with your husband?

i'd be pretty sad if my husband wouldn't use my stuff (phone coputer), as if it was his own, nothing to do with distrust really, just closeness, also if he'd deny me passwords to his stuff.it's not like i don't trust him, it's just the man puts his body parts inside my bum, i think i'm entitled to use his facebook password as mine and vise verca.
i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?

isn't it normal to share that stuff with your husband?

i'd be pretty sad if my husband wouldn't use my stuff (phone coputer), as if it was his own, nothing to do with distrust really, just closeness, also if he'd deny me passwords to his stuff.it's not like i don't trust him, it's just the man puts his body parts inside my bum, i think i'm entitled to use his facebook password as mine and vise verca.
i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?

If she didn't offer to give you hers first then you have a very real problem.

Maybe HE doesn't like it. I would say with 99.9% certainty that he hates it. I left a margin for error, but just sayin.

You do anal?? Tell your hubby how lucky he is...that his wife admits it on the net lol

isn't it normal to share that stuff with your husband?

i'd be pretty sad if my husband wouldn't use my stuff (phone coputer), as if it was his own, nothing to do with distrust really, just closeness, also if he'd deny me passwords to his stuff.it's not like i don't trust him, it's just the man puts his body parts inside my bum, i think i'm entitled to use his facebook password as mine and vise verca.
i see nothing wrong with answering my husband's phone or him answering mine, it's just closeness and nothing to do with control, and frankly if you have nothing to hide why are you reluctant to give up the pass?

If she didn't offer to give you hers first then you have a very real problem.

Every man loves anal.. If they say otherwise they're lying. And before you say it.. ManAnal is not the same thing.. Not that I have experience of it, but mentally...

I think the point is not how men enjoy anal but how women do. For the both holes are the same but when you meet a chick that likes anal and she enjoys it more powerfully then your experience is enhanced also by their pleasure.

She is cheating on you, and she is projecting the guilt of that onto you and thus suspecting you of doing the same.

I think the point is not how men enjoy anal but how women do. For the both holes are the same but when you meet a chick that likes anal and she enjoys it more powerfully then your experience is enhanced also by their pleasure.

Probably this.