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Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?

 
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11/10/2012 04:39 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
like the other poster said she resents you for something. It is your job to figure out what that is and try to resolve it in a way that pleases her. women have a way of holding on to anything and everything you have ever done wrong to her, whether real or perceived. showing more affection to her will only cause her to pull away further, but showing too little will cause additional resentment.

Don't make the mistake of asking her what is wrong, that will only dig you a deeper hole because she expects you to already know what you are doing and it will cause additional resentment.

I would suggest giving her a little "space" so that if she truly feels anything for you she will eventually come around to wanting you close to her again. But this also runs the risk of acquiring additional resentment because she could interpret this as you not wanting to be around her anymore, though the opposite is in fact the case. The bottom line is you can't force her to feel something for you she does not already, so you need to step back a little so she realizes how much you do for her.

there might be nothing you can do, in which case you will need to adjust your expectations of her, so that each time she does not show you affection you are not disappointed, but in the times she does show it you are surprised and can enjoy it.
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11/10/2012 04:55 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Sometimes I'm not affectionate with my husband because he grabs my ass all day long. Then when he actually tries to give me a simple kiss I push him away because I think he's trying to grope me.
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11/10/2012 04:58 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Can't believe howe MANY ACs and others post to an OP who LEFT, VERY shortly after he posted !

Just a post by GLP mods to keep 'things HOT', jumping on a weekend. OP is NOT REAL !
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11/10/2012 05:00 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
And I am not saying this to make you feel bad. Its just reality. Most women are evil
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11/10/2012 05:14 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
You just answered your own question ,your married now and she aint gotta put out anymore ,next comes massive weight gain ,farting in bed , leaving crumbs all over the duvet ,using your shaver and stretch pants ,your life is over banana2
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11/10/2012 05:16 PM
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You just answered your own question ,your married now and she aint gotta put out anymore ,next comes massive weight gain ,farting in bed , leaving crumbs all over the duvet ,using your shaver and stretch pants ,your life is over banana2
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11/10/2012 05:27 PM

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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Anybody know why a woman would be like this?
 Quoting: Married 22041307


Maybe she didn't get any affection at home from her parents. Maybe she never vitnessed her mother giving any affection to her father. Was your wife like that before you married her? Sorry, but you are not giving enough info to get the right answer. Why don't you just ask her WHY?
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11/10/2012 05:30 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
are you always on the computer? Buy her roses--like a dozen, make her dinner, clean the house, help her in with the groceries, Help the girl out....then and only then will she give....some how it really works out that way...
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11/10/2012 05:32 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Anybody know why a woman would be like this?
 Quoting: Married 22041307


Maybe she didn't get any affection at home from her parents. Maybe she never vitnessed her mother giving any affection to her father. Was your wife like that before you married her? Sorry, but you are not giving enough info to get the right answer. Why don't you just ask her WHY?
 Quoting: Kinga


She is female ,they dont need a reason their word is law ,i know coz i was married for 15 yrs ,the scariest time of my life slept with one eye open for most of it 5a
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11/10/2012 05:32 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
simple answer, she is not physically attracted to you any more.

lots of people get married for reasons other than love. big mistake.
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11/10/2012 05:34 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Affection is one thing . . . but what is wrong with people who believe sex is important for ANYTHING other than perpetuation of the species (which we do NOT need now).
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11/10/2012 05:37 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
are you always on the computer? Buy her roses--like a dozen, make her dinner, clean the house, help her in with the groceries, Help the girl out....then and only then will she give....some how it really works out that way...
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Your a female and trying to lull him into a false sense of security ,he aint no slave and should express himself as the man of the house ,maybe write her a letter stating this and leave it where she can see this ,while he hides in the shed or locked in the downstairs bathroom or if he refuses to cook dinner to make his point known thats what i would do hiding
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11/10/2012 05:46 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
I put up with that crap for 20 years before I finally got my fill of it and left.

Do yourself a favor and dump the bitch.
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11/10/2012 06:28 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Troll thread but I'm going to answer for fun

OP she is fucking some other guy and when you lick her pussy you still lick the sperm from the other guy
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OH SHIT! ITS LUXEMBURG! YOU MUST BE RICH!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21517034


well I'm not rich but I have big income and a decent life. I like it
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11/10/2012 06:38 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
plenty of affection she is rimming the entire local sports team while they take turns ass fuucking her good and hard

hence she is to tired for you
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11/10/2012 07:38 PM
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11/10/2012 07:55 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Maybe whenever she comes for a tiny hug of affection, you turn it into sex and she has just learned to stay away from you. Women don't usually walk around horny 24/7, it takes some preamble to light their fire. A guy's demand for sex as a response to an innocent hug or sweet smile can be annoying if a woman is busy or the kids are needing her attention.

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This..
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11/10/2012 09:41 PM
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Re: Married. Wife NEVER shows me affection. HOW COME?
Anybody know why a woman would be like this?
 Quoting: Married 22041307


Maybe she didn't get any affection at home from her parents. Maybe she never vitnessed her mother giving any affection to her father. Was your wife like that before you married her? Sorry, but you are not giving enough info to get the right answer. Why don't you just ask her WHY?
 Quoting: Kinga


She's always been this way. Even during dating. She's never been the type to just be affectionate. Plus, she NEVER owns up to anything, never admits wrong. I'm good looking, I'm not rich, but not poor either. So it's not my looks, or my money.

The only thing I bitch about is why she doesn't initiate sex ever and why there's no affection. if I don't make the move it NEVER happens. FRUSTRATING and it sucks. NOT FAIR TO ME.

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