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Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 06:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | (listening to spotify top tracks just because) GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
Iolair User ID: 27443754 Germany 11/10/2012 06:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yes.. I appreciate what you're saying but of course everyone here is basically a stranger to me. I'm sure you understand. Quoting: Veresanctus See, the way I see it, or according to what I think is that "family" is there for each-other and if you're in need they do whatever they are able to help fix things etc. They also stay in touch because they care about you and how things are going for you etc. I don't have that, and I'm sure there are many others that lack that as well here am I right? There will come a time when you believe everything ends. This will be the beginning [Louis L'Amour] ~ A r c t u r u s |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 15235536 United States 11/10/2012 06:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just feeling sad and lonely right now, so i decided to post it just because. Quoting: Veresanctus I think I will go see a movie, but it will have to be alone (since I can't find anyone that wants to go, not even my wife.) If I had parents or siblings maybe they would be cool with doing stuff but parents are passed and no siblings. Same here. Very little tolerance for,people right now. |
Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go out there OP and go to a place where people can meet other people. A movie is tough because you have to remain quiet. Go to a coffee shop or even a bar. I'm sure you are an interesting guy that people will want to talk to. Just be pleasant and friendly. Quoting: The Dudester I appreciate the advice, it's good advice, but I usually turn people off they tend to see me as anal or a know-it-all etc. GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
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Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 06:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Last Edited by Veresanctus on 11/10/2012 06:35 PM GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27455802 United States 11/10/2012 06:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's the changing of the seasons and the upcoming stress of the holidays! Yay! It's actually ironic when you think about it. For untold time mankind has been made saddened and troubled by the winter cycle and so they put festivals around that time to ease it. Yet in our modern day they've so twisted the meaning as to cause extra stresses. I think thats a lot of it.The holidays are the most stressful time of the year and this year with the economy tanking,no jobs,etc it will be much worse.Personally I hate dealing with them.I dont care about getting something,not materialistic,etc.Have no close family or anything special to do but I still stress because I have relatives in other states that just expect something from me.I dont like spending money I dont really have but it makes me feel bad to not send grandkids and kids gifts.They see it as me not caring about them and it makes me feel cheap. I use to love holiday times when I could just enjoy music,festive decorations everywhere.Now I dread them and cant wait till they are past.I read that more old people die during the holiday season in Nov and Dec than any other time of year.Maybe due to loneliness I dont know. |
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Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 06:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm surprised there hasn't been the negative posts like "you're a loser OP" etc. etc. odd GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27455802 United States 11/10/2012 06:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm surprised there hasn't been the negative posts like "you're a loser OP" etc. etc. Quoting: Veresanctus odd Most likely a whole lot more are having to go through the same thing now.Life has a way of slapping us all backward when we get to smug in our ways or feel we have a right to belittle others. I know how you feel OP.Hard to even explain it.I guess in my case its more of an emptiness.Cant find anything worthwhile that makes a difference anymore.Stuck in a rut maybe. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9321583 United States 11/10/2012 06:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just feeling sad and lonely right now, so i decided to post it just because. Quoting: Veresanctus I think I will go see a movie, but it will have to be alone (since I can't find anyone that wants to go, not even my wife.) If I had parents or siblings maybe they would be cool with doing stuff but parents are passed and no siblings. get a volley ball and paint a face on it with your blood and be good pals n frenz with it ... I heard it does wonders |
Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just feeling sad and lonely right now, so i decided to post it just because. Quoting: Veresanctus I think I will go see a movie, but it will have to be alone (since I can't find anyone that wants to go, not even my wife.) If I had parents or siblings maybe they would be cool with doing stuff but parents are passed and no siblings. get a volley ball and paint a face on it with your blood and be good pals n frenz with it ... I heard it does wonders Umm, I'm not there yet GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
141 User ID: 12497016 Denmark 11/10/2012 06:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just feeling sad and lonely right now, so i decided to post it just because. Quoting: Veresanctus I think I will go see a movie, but it will have to be alone (since I can't find anyone that wants to go, not even my wife.) If I had parents or siblings maybe they would be cool with doing stuff but parents are passed and no siblings. Sending you a lotta love and a big HUG! just be love in truth... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27475187 United Kingdom 11/10/2012 06:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have a wife can afford to go the cinema just think of tramps/street bums who used to have it all and through circumstances beyond their control they are considerably in a shitter place than you value and appreciate what you have dont be a POOR ME suffer in strength and silence dont sell hour integrity to the highest emotional vampire |
Wubbo Ockels User ID: 14726463 Netherlands 11/10/2012 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, do watch this video... only a few minutes of your time and it will make you laugh... so funny that the laughing becomes infectious! Laughter makes everything feel better... have a great evening; be safe. Peace "my hands are tingling. It must have been the way I was lying" Hahahahahaha! R.I.P. for the real Wubbo Ockels. He was a true icon of my country, and a great front-fighter for sustainable energie/technology and humanism. "Yes, we have hurdles, we have distractions, we have disasters, personally and world-wide, and we do have to work it all out ourselves. BUT, there is a most amazing experience awaiting us on the other end of the finish-line. The idea being, once we can handle it all down here, then we can live and explore eternally, responsibly, because we know what not to do, and not be resentful about being responsible, so we don't start a polarity domino effect in the other realms of existence." "The Fraction" of Life can be increased in value not so much by increasing your Numerator as by lessening your Denominator. Nay, unless my Algebra deceive me, Unity itself divided by Zero will give Infinity." Thread: LADIES & GENTLEMEN: I PRESENT to YOU OUR NEW SUN !! |
Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have a wife can afford to go the cinema just think of tramps/street bums who used to have it all and through circumstances beyond their control they are considerably in a shitter place than you value and appreciate what you have dont be a POOR ME suffer in strength and silence dont sell hour integrity to the highest emotional vampire Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27475187 GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
Veresanctus (OP) User ID: 26108394 United States 11/10/2012 07:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, do watch this video... only a few minutes of your time and it will make you laugh... so funny that the laughing becomes infectious! Laughter makes everything feel better... have a great evening; be safe. Peace Ya was funny but messed up at the same time lol GET SAVED: Thread: Are you SAVED from DAMNATION? "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another." -- Galatians 5:14-26 |
AcrossTheUniverse User ID: 20162918 United States 11/10/2012 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | American society dictates and brainwashes that one MUST be with other people . . . you must get married, even if you don't want to . . . you must have tons of friends, even if they are not true and loyal and you don't like them . . . you must have children, even if you don't want to be a parent . . . you must attend social functions, even if you're out of your element . . . you must talk on the phone, email, get a FFB account, tweet your every move . . . it's insane. You couldn't be more right on. There are social creatures and some that enjoy their own company to that of a group. And, even though people call society a scapegoat, turn on MTV for about 15 minutes. You will lose faith in humanity. If it helps, OP, know that you are not alone. There are many people who feel the way you do, even though they may not be geographically near. Take care. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27478883 United States 11/10/2012 08:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Depression is preferable to extreme anxiety. Its something I embrace in a headlock and dive to the bottom of a lake to elude the panic attacks. Also, when it dies there is the mania. You live your whole life in a few minutes. Then it goes back to the life review and every little thing you ever did is there to haunt and hound you till the fear and guilt builds up to paralyze you. And over and over. So you come here looking for some doom that will break the cycle. But it never comes. |
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mreliphaz User ID: 26801641 United States 11/11/2012 12:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What's wrong with being alone? I'm always by myself except during work hours and wouldn't trade it for anything. Quoting: mreliphaz You must have friends/coworkers that you socialize with all day etc. No I have 3 coworkers. "Friends" all faded away when I left the highway years ago. Family is deceased. I'm not sad or bitter in the least. eliphaz |
mreliphaz User ID: 26801641 United States 11/11/2012 12:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What's wrong with being alone? I'm always by myself except during work hours and wouldn't trade it for anything. Quoting: mreliphaz You must have friends/coworkers that you socialize with all day etc. American society dictates and brainwashes that one MUST be with other people . . . you must get married, even if you don't want to . . . you must have tons of friends, even if they are not true and loyal and you don't like them . . . you must have children, even if you don't want to be a parent . . . you must attend social functions, even if you're out of your element . . . you must talk on the phone, email, get a FFB account, tweet your every move . . . it's insane. The truth is, there are some beings who are simply lone creatures - they do not want to be around people/sheeple, they don't want to "go along to get along", and they don't want to "do as others do" - they don't want to be part of the trite and sheeple-mentality existence. The problem though, is that sometimes you can't be alone, because of financial issues, health issues, etc. which sadly require the help of others and that's very tough for those who love their independence and whose characters simply cannot adapt to being with people. I know for a fact that your intellectual logic can tell you that you really should work to develop social connections . . . but your true self tells you it simply is not who you really are and you'll never, ever be comfortable trying to integrate into foreign territory. Very well written and accurate. eliphaz |