Am I the only gay guy that doesn't buy the "straight guy sees the light" bullshit?

What I don't get is why some of you people act flamboyant, shrill and effeminate while others are perfectly ordinary well-adjusted men.

The latter kind I've got nothing against, every man should be at liberty to put his pecker where he wants. The ones I can't stand are the in-your-face queers running around in nothing more than a pink-feathered bikini during the monthly parades they feel entitled to have.

A man should act like a man, have a sense of decency and humility and not put himself out there like the world has no greater interest than what he likes to fuck. Sexuality should be a private matter between two people, not necessarily a conversational topic and especially not a political issue.

Hi Deb,

Most gay men are NOT attracted to effeminate men and find them repulsive

I worked with a guy in the military who assumed I liked musicals. Lovely stereotypes. I can't stand musicals

The effeminate ones overidentify with their sexual preference and take on the maneurisms (they call it "camp" in the gay community)

I think OP is making alot of assumptions regarding heterosexual men. I honestly find most heterosexual men nice to be around and most don't have any issues with homosexuality

Honestly why would anyone have any objections to homosexuality unless they have emotions about it? Why would you feel emotions about something unless you have something inside you you are rejecting? If you didn't have homosexual feelings you wouldn't react emotionally to homosexuality

Most homo-hating is by those who are rejecting their own homosexual feelings. Otherwise there wouldn't be any emotions about it

i'll give you a strait up answer from a strait guy - happily married for 23 years.

op... you're 40... maybe too young to remember liberace. he was, for the most part a openly musician/entertainer back in the 50s and early 60s. he was always talking about "george".

anyway, people loved this guy. everybody. i mean i'm sure he had groups of people that weren't fans... but it certainly had nothing to do with his sexuality.

but now that homosexuality has hit main-stream, i think more people are actually pissed off about it and will hide it to your face and then call you a faggot behind your back.

and the reason for this, again i'm speculating, is because of this seemingly endless bombardment of pro-homosexual messages issued by the entrainment industry.

wednesday would be a perfect example of that, so much so that i even said something to my wife about it. 3 tv shows, 3 homosexual story lines.

and oddly enough, i have a lesbian friend who agrees with me completely.

another example is that football announcer, joe buck. the guy is, i think, a boring, mundane announcer at best - but then i had to be told he's gay.

why is this important information to me? seriously. who the fuck cares?!

now, i really don't even want to watch the guy. you know why? because he and his pals thought it would be best to display his sexuality into my footballs games.

some people just do not like having cultural differences thrust upon them - and they are going to react negatively, me by not watching joe buck.

i believe with a more subtle approach, society is much more apt to embrace cultural differences at their own pace, formulating opinions about the individual and not the sexuality.

in other words, forced multiculturalism doesn't not work.

Lol well nature fucked up big time, cuz most ppl who die from AIDS r straight

This is an example of bad logic. You could hate a lot of things without being secretly any of them! If you hate alcoholics, are you secretly an alcoholic? If you get emotional when someone wants to fight wars and kill people, does it mean you, deep inside, actually are a serial killer but hiding it? The list can go on forever. Basically, what you're saying suggests that if people hate something it is because they actually love it. Come on, this kind of logic is simply ridiculous!

Want to freak out a homophobic heterosexual?

Just tell him that it is the STRAIGHT man who is sexually aroused by:

lipstick
perfume
make up
long flowing hair
high heels
lingerie
jewelry

Not the gay.

Gay's mock femininity in drag - the hyper expression of feminine characteristics-- huge hair, elongated eyelashes, over-the-top costumes. (umm. gay pride, anyone?)

Why does the straight man finds femininity SEXUALLY attractive? Why is he SEXUALLY AROUSED by attributes a gay man scoffs at? Herein lies the psycho-sexual connection heterosexuality and femininity.

If you want the essence of true 'masculinity' you see it in the SEXUAL connection between two men, not between a man and a woman. The hetero man prefers to remain "a man" while his female counterpart inhabits all the feminine characteristics he works so hard at rejecting in himself. (umm. the Biblical notion of the man finding a 'replacement' for his mother, perhaps?)

Many straight men love to watch 2 women go at it......but not 2 men.

Why? Straight men contradict themselves in many ways. Effeminate gay men are the obvious ones and hence skewer the notion that gays are feminine. Not so obvious are the gay men who appear perfectly straight.

But because straight men generally do NOT find feminine men sexually attractive, it is the person who inhabits the trait that is sexually stimulating and not the trait itself. So we return again to what goes on inside the head of the straight male--- What does he find sexual about the OTHER sex inhabiting FEMININE characteristics?

I'm gay (of course). To piss people off, I sometimes say that homosexuality is nature's defense against our reckless male human nature--wars, aggression, hyper-expressions of angst and power. Nature's solution to the human problem is extinction: an evolution towards homosexuality

Hence.....homosexual men are........ EVOLVED.

(This future freaks straight men out)

(now...watch how straight men on GLP absorb this)

I'm a straight elderly man. I have gay friends, and usually
sexuality isn't an issue maybe some joking over a beer ...

You can indeed recognize a flaming queer and a bull dyke, but then there are pretty regular people . or very strange people who just happen to be gay.


Homophobia, like racism and macho misogyny are phenomena that typically exist on the bottom of the society, the reason being that the loser guys, who suck at everything are desperate to find somebody to look down: at least I'm a man not a faggot! I just hate graggers!

But also I'm annoyed at the Agenda how it's pushed relentlessy, and especially I'm pissed of at the professional class of people who get offended because of perceived discrimination ... endless education when you really can't cure stupid.


A case in point a Finnish ad making fun of stereotypes - actually it makes fun of two stereotypes, there was an old suspicion among Finnish (loser) males, "those Swedes have too good manners and dress too well, they gotta be homos!"



The people who get paid for getting offended got offended, the actual gays thought that was fun ...

Your booze analogy is false. Actually any kind of analogy with sexuality is false, since sexuality is the strongest force in Humanity.

Stronger than the need to aquire money, since that accumulation in many many aspects are related to make someone SEXUALY "appealing".

So no. The analogies don't work.

You are right at a certain extent. They do love lipstick, pantyhose, etc...

But a lot of gays also like to dress up as women. And ENJOY it very much so. Not only to mock.

But the bottom of it is that we truly are more advaced than them, and they hate our asses for it.

That is why the constant historical persectution.

i think having gay people is good for the population.
some of them are super loving parents for adopties. wich is good. and im pretty sure that even if you have gay parents that doesnt mean you will be gay.

it seems to be a natural reaction to over population?
i hope this doesnt seem rude

Gays being a minority, tend to migrate in to cities, easier to find other gays ... so it looks like high population density means more gays

It is put on......and not authentic.


Any other questions?

you just made me realise its not a reaction to over population its just that if there are more people now. and the same % is gay that means theres automaticly more gay people if there are more people.

and i have no problem with that at all. most of em are very nice

Our schools teach it as okay and have for quite a while now. It is really stressed in college.

What does it matter how it came to be, or if it is fake?

Live, be happy.

I think most people are bisexual physically, and the ones that can't come to term with this end up developing a rage to compensate for their loss in metal stability. Not saying every dude wants to ram man ass and every girl wants to scissor their Wednesdays away, but on some kind of level, every human as shades of bi.

I think most people are bisexual physically, and the ones that can't come to term with this end up developing a rage to compensate for their loss in metal stability. Not saying every dude wants to ram man ass and every girl wants to scissor their Wednesdays away, but on some kind of level, every human as shades of bi.

OK, but you didn't get my point. I talked about hatred. That hatred has nothing to do with whether or not you're actually hiding your real feelings masking them as hatred. Analogies work if you actually want them to. People feel hateful emotions for many different reason. You can't generalize like the person I responded to that it is only because they are trying to mask their real feelings.

I'm a gay man an agree with most of what you wrote there, but you have to remember that gays have been villified for years and therefore had to be assertive about their identity to gain the equality they deserve.

"You've just got a bit o' the old homophobia, it'll clear up"

its mostly down to people realizing it doesn't matter and that homophobes usually have gay tendencies themselves.

first world problems

I truly believe that if a man wants to be gay, then he should be allowed to be gay. However, when that gay then turns around and DEMANDS that everyone accept them and ALL of their demands, when they refuse to allowed any demands upon them, then there is a very real problem.

Didn't our neighbor decided that parents are NOT allowed to know what the gay agenda IS teaching to our children in school? Didn't a European country decided that if a parent rejects the homosexual agenda, then their children will be forcibly removed from the home?

It seems to me that the gay agenda is the problem, not the homosexual. Problem with that is that so many homosexuals identify themselves through the agenda, that it has become the voice and demands of all homosexuals.

You are completely correct.

Anyone who has spent time on any webcam site knows this to be the truth.

The thing is, the "illuminati" has access to all the porn data consumed on Earth, and they don't say a fucking word.

Tom Cruise is in the closet to make money, they say!

Nah. There was a brief time when I was a teen and really into music and certain underground cultures that I thought it would be "cool" to be bi, so it's not as if I've ever had a problem with it. But for me it just isn't so. Not only am I not the least bit attracted to other males, they pretty much gross me out. Always hated when they'd suddenly start focusing on a guy during a sex scene.

It's no different than if I had a friend who really liked getting pissed on. Do whatever floats your boat, but I don't want any part of it.

Of course a Brazilian would understand this! ;)

It could be something as small as comparing your body to another of the same sex you'd define as "attractive" (As in: If I look like THAT guy/girl, I'll be attractive too so I can bang people of the opposite sex!)

Or it could be something as major as having sex with both genders.

But everyone has at least a small tinge of it. And furthermore, people take sex when they can get it. If society were a bit more carefree on sex, if STDs were nonexistant, EVERYONE would be banging EVERYONE.

I don't know, I still bet if you were black out drunk and some faggot started polishing your knob you'd enjoy it. You wouldn't fall in love with the guy, but you'd enjoy the feeling.

Prove me wrong asshole!