Since I was about 40 I started having more "straight" guy friends than gay ones. Don't know how it happened but it did. The a funny thing started happening. My "straight buddies" and I would go out for a drink or two - then back to one of our houses and he usually mad the first move! A quick kiss, or a grope, or an excuse to get into my spa but doesn't have a swim suit & since we'er both guys, who cares? Once in the spa, a hand, a touch, an erection and we're off and running.

And it almost invariably leads to sex! They want to "try" it - they're curious, they've always wondered, etc. Next thing you know they're swinging on my cock or they've got their ass in the air asking me to fuck them!

I mean it wasn't one or two. I was like a dozen in a year. I never said or did anything that even would or coud have conveyed any interest to them on my part, because I figured they were 'straight" and felt we were friends and nothing more. I did find a couple attractive, but no more so than you might think someone you met or know is pretty or handsome. But that was the extent of it, I swear!

The number of "straight" guys who seem to want to try gay sex is astounding! And most of them want to play the "passive" or "feminine" role in bed when they do try it. (Suits me fine because I much prefer the top or active role, myself.)

Most of these guys I've stayed friends with. A couple finally came out. a couple are still married and cheating on their wives, and three I know are dating men as well as women now. Oh, and one or two stop by once in a while for a booty call at my house. To tell the truth, I've had more sex with my "straight male friends" than I ever managed to have with my gay buddies. So far none of them have freaked out about it. Most have wanted a repeat in the middle of the night or early the next morning, (and they got one.) And somehow we're still friends. I do NOT understand what is happening. I've never wanted to seduce straight men. I always figured they had their preference and I had mine and never the twain would meet. Seems I was wrong somehow.

I stopped trying to analyze it and have just accepted it as being the way things are right nwo. Maybe it will change. May it won't. The only slightly "scary" think is one of these guys thinks he may be in love with me. He says he's found feelings and emotions in bed with me that he only dreamed of finding with his ex wife. How do you respond to that? And not responding to it seems at the very least rude and worse, even insensitive to his feelings