My husband beats me every night. What do I do? I'm scared. | |
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| Fishy User ID: 23648161 11/20/2012 01:04 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You CAN leave..and no one owns you.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22318215 Until you get it in your head that you are a FREE person, you'll stay with him. And he'll kill you, or maim you. I hope you arent trolling , cuz this isnt funny. Pack up the things you need while hes away at work NOW...dont call him..dont leave a trace of where you're going..and leave. There are shelters in your area..I know..Ive stayed in one, once. They helped me get an apartment on my own, and I went from there.. This is NOT a joke..get the hell out and dont look back. These kind of men will kill you. They've done it to plenty. Best advice on this thread. Do you have kids? Does he beat them? If not, they are next. Reach out to professionals as AC above advised. This is serious and your life literally depends on it. This happened to my sister. We got her out and to a safe place. She never went back again. Feel free to send me a private message if you need support. Ignore the aholes on this thread. It's unbelievable how insensitive some of the people on this thread/site can be. All I can figure is they are kids. Do not seek advise from them. They are just plain ignorant and immature. I wish you the best. |
| Fishy User ID: 23648161 11/20/2012 01:12 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This. Call the national domestic violence hotline while he is at work and get to a shelter. Police will transport you if needed. Do not tell anyone. Abuse gets worse when you try to leave...so know this will be the most dangerous time for you. pack some clothes, take important papers, and anything of sedimental value to you. Most abusers will trash what you have left behind in an effort to punish you. Also, cancel credit cards and withdrawal what you have out of bank before he knows you are gone. Domestic violence shelters can help you relocate if you have family or friends in another state. They can 'hide' you. Even through divorce, even to change your name, etc. He will not change, he will only get worse over time. So I pray you have the strength to ignore his threats (which may very well be real) in order to save yourself. Love should never hurt. Choose to love yourself more and leave all your material things behind. Agree! |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28124999 11/20/2012 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a known fact a man who hits a women is a coward put him in that position and he will be crying like the coward his is. I am curtain there is places you can go to, that can help you. You will have to get away from him. Do not listen to the comments that was given. By the sound of them it sound that they are not normal as well. |
| T Ceti H.C. Radnarg User ID: 27089841 11/20/2012 02:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ...just watch the Lady Gaga/Beyonce video entitled 'Telephone'...start at 5:55 in the video... How unfortunate for some rulers when men,women,and children continue to think... Keep repeating the lies loud enough and long enough and just maybe the people will start to believe the lies again and good luck with that...finding your energy open until mars becomes raging aries... |
| MarkinAZ User ID: 20006444 11/20/2012 02:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get in the yellow pages and look up a Battered Woman's Shelter close by. Call them! They will advise you how to leave him, give you and your children a place to live until you can get him in court and get the house and alimony and child support. Oh, he will be VERY cooperative about giving you anything you ask for in lieu of going to prison for ten years or so - which is what he's facing. NO WOMAN SHOULD EVER PUT UP WITH PHYSICAL ABUSE. IF it happens once it may happen again And it always gets more serious not less, as time goes by. I've known women who were killed by some drunken angry spouse who'd been slapping them round for years and one night he doubled his fist, hit her just right, and she went down and never got up. Brain blood vessel broke from the blow and she bled to death internally in a matter of second. Even had she been in a hospital she couldn't have been saved from such a horrific injury. If you want to see your kids grow up - get the fuck out of this situation immediately and do not ever go back. If you think "you love him" you're full of shit. What you may feel is a sick co-dependancy and some kind of "need" you have to be abused. You need help to get rid of him and to make sure you never walk into another relationship like this again in your life! Bye the way - these fuckers also often kill the children. So you're risking that, too. GET OUT and GET OUT NOW! Clean out the savings, checking and max out the credit cards with cash advances when you leave. Don't leave him a fucking dime that you now about! It will slow him down when he first starts to hunt for you. Then, the shelter will get you hooked up with an attorney to get a divorce going, along with temporary restraining orders, and orders for support, etc. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Let us know what you find out and what happens. Some of us are praying for you and your family. Remember - real men do not hit or harm people who cannot defend themselves. Women and children are totally off limits in terms of physical violence. Always. Any man that does otherwise is a total piece of trash and they ought to be castrated so they don't procreate into the gene pool! |
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