My husband beats me every night. What do I do? I'm scared. | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25567776 United States 11/11/2012 09:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25567776 United States 11/11/2012 09:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4398586 United States 11/11/2012 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you don't fight back and get him off your back, you might snap and do something you'll regret for the rest of your life. Do something NOW while you still have some control over yourself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26873869 I knew of a guy that was abusive to his wife, she snapped while he was beating her and she bit his nose off. Then she lost everything. Be smart, no violence, get away from him, he is psycho. im sure he was sorry you did that! Nope, wasnt me. I will never get married. I love being a single guy. It happened to a psycho guy I went to hs with. A real douche bag. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27513593 United States 11/11/2012 09:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14408911 United States 11/11/2012 10:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wait till he falls asleep, then leave the house and don't come back. Maybe even leave town. You have relatives or friends out of town, go to one of them but don't call them from your home phone first. Cover your tracks. Watch the movie "Sleeping with the Enemy" and make your plans. Don't make the same mistakes she did. |
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oscanator User ID: 24421278 United States 11/11/2012 10:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | get yourself a lead pipe the next time he raises a hand to you beat the living shit out of him with it. then leave. Or maybe put the address of his work place and someone can go pay him a visit, id love to kick the crap out of this asshole |
stella stevens User ID: 1490898 Canada 11/11/2012 11:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | your mind. you know he will eventually kill you, even if it is an accident. it doesn't take much, he could be pushing you around, next thing you know he's thrown you against the sink or toilet and crushes your brain into porcelain or kicks you down the steps and your neck gets broke. I hope you are okay right now. |
yI User ID: 13090071 United States 11/11/2012 11:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Little Miss Sunshine User ID: 5678840 United States 11/11/2012 11:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I can tell ya what I did to my husband. Married 15 yrs and he decided one day he didnt like me on the phone talking to my cousin Autumn, he jerked the phone out of my hand, threw it across the yard and pushed me down by my face. He is 6'3. I am 5'3. So he went in the house to take a shit. I kicked a hole thru the bathroom door and kicked it open and commensed to beating the living crap out if him while on the shitter! I beat his head off the wall about 15 times. He was so shocked that I caught him off guard while he was taking a poo and beat his ass for him that it shocked him to death!!! He hasn't touched me since!! He knows I will beat him to death with a ball bat in his sleep!! So sister... kick his ass for him one good time and he will stop it. If he doesn't.... stay and be a punching bag if you dont want to work and be independent. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21291600 United States 11/11/2012 11:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Bluebird User ID: 730536 United States 11/11/2012 11:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When he goes to work, assuming he does work, leave and get to a woman's shelter. They will help you plan from there on out. Help you get a job, restraining order, whatever you need most. Just do it before he kills you. One of the most important aspects of conspiracy theories is being able to discern when there isn't one. Oh yeah, like you'd understand anyway. Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?. . .J. Handy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14408911 United States 11/11/2012 11:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't imagine not knowing what to do. My problem if I were in your situation would be trying to decide whether to beat him up while he is sleeping, or make a report to the police, or just walk away and never come back. So many options, the hardest part would be trying to restrain myself from beating him to death while he is asleep. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27508939 United States 11/11/2012 11:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Call MTV to come film it for a reality show....they love that sort of thing. They had a couple on thebteen moms show and they showed the half black Guy grab the pregnant white trash teen by throat and that was all spontaneous and the camera man just happened to be there filming at the right time |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21291600 United States 11/11/2012 11:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14408911 United States 11/11/2012 11:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if U do get away, dont U DARE GO BACK. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26049242 that shit will not change. it wont no matter how he might plead with U later. Right. If he pleads with you to come back, tell him you know he doesn't love you. If he insists he does love you, just say, I know you really don't, if you did you wouldn't beat me up all the time. I know you hate me to the core, you despise me, and it's better for you that I leave and never darken your life again. The hatred is so intense you can't hide it, and I can feel it from you." That should stop him from trying to woo you back with flowery words, since it's obvious then that you recognize actions always speak louder than words, and by his actions he shows he hates you intensely, and does not love you one single bit. |
Sparrow and Medicine User ID: 27463370 United Kingdom 11/11/2012 11:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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SkinnyChic User ID: 27468086 United States 11/11/2012 11:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This. Call the national domestic violence hotline while he is at work and get to a shelter. Police will transport you if needed. Do not tell anyone. Abuse gets worse when you try to leave...so know this will be the most dangerous time for you. pack some clothes, take important papers, and anything of sedimental value to you. Most abusers will trash what you have left behind in an effort to punish you. Also, cancel credit cards and withdrawal what you have out of bank before he knows you are gone. Domestic violence shelters can help you relocate if you have family or friends in another state. They can 'hide' you. Even through divorce, even to change your name, etc. He will not change, he will only get worse over time. So I pray you have the strength to ignore his threats (which may very well be real) in order to save yourself. Love should never hurt. Choose to love yourself more and leave all your material things behind. |
Thor's Hamster User ID: 1248699 United States 11/11/2012 12:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I can tell ya what I did to my husband. Married 15 yrs and he decided one day he didnt like me on the phone talking to my cousin Autumn, he jerked the phone out of my hand, threw it across the yard and pushed me down by my face. He is 6'3. I am 5'3. So he went in the house to take a shit. I kicked a hole thru the bathroom door and kicked it open and commensed to beating the living crap out if him while on the shitter! I beat his head off the wall about 15 times. He was so shocked that I caught him off guard while he was taking a poo and beat his ass for him that it shocked him to death!!! Quoting: Little Miss Sunshine He hasn't touched me since!! He knows I will beat him to death with a ball bat in his sleep!! So sister... kick his ass for him one good time and he will stop it. If he doesn't.... stay and be a punching bag if you dont want to work and be independent. AWESOME! Apollo astronauts couldn't have passed through Van Allen's Belt. Van Allen wore suspenders. |
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eve incognito User ID: 27803051 Bosnia and Herzegovina 11/19/2012 09:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I can tell ya what I did to my husband. Married 15 yrs and he decided one day he didnt like me on the phone talking to my cousin Autumn, he jerked the phone out of my hand, threw it across the yard and pushed me down by my face. He is 6'3. I am 5'3. So he went in the house to take a shit. I kicked a hole thru the bathroom door and kicked it open and commensed to beating the living crap out if him while on the shitter! I beat his head off the wall about 15 times. He was so shocked that I caught him off guard while he was taking a poo and beat his ass for him that it shocked him to death!!! Quoting: Little Miss Sunshine He hasn't touched me since!! He knows I will beat him to death with a ball bat in his sleep!! So sister... kick his ass for him one good time and he will stop it. If he doesn't.... stay and be a punching bag if you dont want to work and be independent. this makes me feel so mcuh better about my relationship. you guys can't just beat the crap out of each other, worked it out peacefully or split up. sriously U CANT BEAT UR HUSBAND it isn't done. ad vice versa |