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My husband beats me every night. What do I do? I'm scared.

 
Anonymous Coward
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11/19/2012 09:58 PM
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I have no idea what to do. Not one. I mean, there is nothing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27105855


Learn some self defense like I did.
I beat my exes ass and he sulked off like the bitch he was.
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11/19/2012 10:00 PM
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I've been making up excuses to avoid him lately, so the beatings have not been so often, but even still, if he doesn't like something I do, he hits me
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27105855


for crying out loud just elave him, and never go back. do not talk to him, do not answer the phone...start the healnig process ad let life take over....
why are we still even talking about what shouldve been ur ex husband...

a man hits any woman especially u once, u make sure he enver has access to u or anyone u love...

i don't care if he's denzel washington and makes love like a boss, (which sick men can't that much anyway),
U LEAVE HIS ARSE...

also if he hits kids or other men visibly weaker than him...
so any kind of sadistic shill, just isn't worth talking about this much...

sorry, i know you are i pain, but unless you leave, none of us here can do it for u!
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11/19/2012 10:05 PM
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You probably say to yourself..'I forgive him'. Or you tell him that you forgive him. STOP THAT!. Leave n get the hell out. Where would you go? Well, it's better staying with the fear, pain, the drugs and alcohol. If you have kids, think of their fear and suffering.
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11/19/2012 10:07 PM
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I have no idea what to do. Not one. I mean, there is nothing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27105855


shove a screw driver up his ass!!
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11/19/2012 10:07 PM
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my mom had a friend in high school she got preggars and married and he wld oush her around and slap her.

so my mother and her other gf said, do not let him do that, grab the frist heavy thing and hit him with it on the head....
the girl came all black and blue to school few days later, he pushed her in anger she slapped him, he slapped her she, hit him with a small piece of wood, he beat the living day lights s out of her....

gettig physical with a sicko isn't good advice, walking away and getting a nice happy divorce is muvh healthier version....
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11/19/2012 10:07 PM
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Swallow.
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11/19/2012 10:08 PM
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LIAR.
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11/19/2012 10:09 PM
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I have no idea what to do. Not one. I mean, there is nothing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27105855


just be a good wife and take your beating. you can go to the mall tomorrow and get him back in the wallet.tomato
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11/19/2012 10:12 PM
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I have no idea what to do. Not one. I mean, there is nothing.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27105855


better yet, take a gunny sack full of frozen cans of coka and beat the piss out of him while he is in a drunken stupor!!
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11/19/2012 10:16 PM
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
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11/19/2012 10:37 PM
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Re: My husband beats me every night. What do I do? I'm scared.
I can't leave, he threatens me
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27105855


What you do is call the police. After they arrest him you tell them you want an emergency protective order. Be honest to the police, the DA, and your EPO attorney, who may not necessarily be the DA. I work with people in this situation all the time. If there is one thing I'd like to stress it is that you DON'T BECOME THE WOMAN WHO LATER WANTS TO DROP THE CHARGES! I've seen it so many times when women call the cops, have the guy arrested, then say "Nothing really happened. I was just angry blah blah blah..." Then, when the dude gets home, he properly beats the shit out of you and you end up in the hospital or worse.

Get the asshole out of your life. It doesn't matter if he's the one who earns the money, get a fucking job. He'll have to pay child support if you have kids, and if you can't afford a divorce attorney, there is plenty of Legal Aid Clinics that help battered women.

Since we're on an online forum, I don't know if you're serious, but there it is for you or anyone who might need it.
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11/19/2012 10:42 PM
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One thing I forgot. If you have kids, and don't address this issue, you could be setting yourself up for CPS to come in and take your kids from you and put them in foster care. Actually, if you are unable to leave a wife-beater, your kids will be way better off without you, too.
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11/19/2012 10:51 PM
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


i guess you kow ur abuse and drama.

ur mother sure did a very good job of scarring you for life.
sad
sad indeed.

u don't seem like the dangerous type though, i would even dare calling you pretty harmless.

hang in there, ther is someone out there for all of us, not matter how lonely and isolated you might feel now from female company, i'm sure some girl will be proud to call you names, lol...
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11/19/2012 11:00 PM
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According to asherah its the most beautiful aspect of a mature relationship. pick
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


You're fucking stupid, and that's the stupidest ass advice ever! Of course they should leave each other. Your example is the text book definition of a toxic relationship, and when you're in one of those, you need to break up the marriage. That's what divorce is for, and it is a DAMN good idea for a lot of people. Please, fuck off with your stupid shit!
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11/19/2012 11:02 PM

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What do all beaten women have in common?
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What do all beaten women have in common?
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They

just

don't

FUCKIN

listen!!!!!
WindyMind

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11/19/2012 11:07 PM
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video diary. seriously.
learn to set boundaries.
bring in witnesses.

if that all fails. shoot him in the face.
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I like the hidden camera idea. I have thought of it myself for someone else but it is a little complicated and expensive, on the other hand I didn't believe you when you posted so maybe you do need video of the crimes.
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11/19/2012 11:09 PM
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


You're fucking stupid, and that's the stupidest ass advice ever! Of course they should leave each other. Your example is the text book definition of a toxic relationship, and when you're in one of those, you need to break up the marriage. That's what divorce is for, and it is a DAMN good idea for a lot of people. Please, fuck off with your stupid shit!
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so pretending to be two different people, and calling yourself stupid works for you when you have no friend's gf to stalk and pick fights with so she ca call you stupid?

all your freinds able to get gfs in the first place, stopped socilizing with you, coz they were tired of you gorilla shat?

aha, now i understand you better.

it's not easy beaing u dude, not easy, and not pretty either....

hang in there....

for what it's worth u can't really be that smart could you....so don't worry, sooner rather then later, someone will point it out to you!
WindyMind

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11/19/2012 11:11 PM
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


You're fucking stupid, and that's the stupidest ass advice ever! Of course they should leave each other. Your example is the text book definition of a toxic relationship, and when you're in one of those, you need to break up the marriage. That's what divorce is for, and it is a DAMN good idea for a lot of people. Please, fuck off with your stupid shit!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1484087


so pretending to be two different people, and calling yourself stupid works for you when you have no friend's gf to stalk and pick fights with so she ca call you stupid?

all your freinds able to get gfs in the first place, stopped socilizing with you, coz they were tired of you gorilla shat?

aha, now i understand you better.

it's not easy beaing u dude, not easy, and not pretty either....

hang in there....

for what it's worth u can't really be that smart could you....so don't worry, sooner rather then later, someone will point it out to you!
 Quoting: eve 27803051


So, your from 2 countries at once or is that the same country with 2 names?
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11/19/2012 11:14 PM
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


You're fucking stupid, and that's the stupidest ass advice ever! Of course they should leave each other. Your example is the text book definition of a toxic relationship, and when you're in one of those, you need to break up the marriage. That's what divorce is for, and it is a DAMN good idea for a lot of people. Please, fuck off with your stupid shit!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1484087


so pretending to be two different people, and calling yourself stupid works for you when you have no friend's gf to stalk and pick fights with so she ca call you stupid?

all your freinds able to get gfs in the first place, stopped socilizing with you, coz they were tired of you gorilla shat?

aha, now i understand you better.

it's not easy beaing u dude, not easy, and not pretty either....

hang in there....

for what it's worth u can't really be that smart could you....so don't worry, sooner rather then later, someone will point it out to you!
 Quoting: eve 27803051


So, your from 2 countries at once or is that the same country with 2 names?
 Quoting: WindyMind

i dont like the idea of talking to u.
do a google search.
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11/19/2012 11:17 PM
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Re: My husband beats me every night. What do I do? I'm scared.
Does your husband watch porn or other women?
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11/19/2012 11:19 PM
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The dishes if you know whats good for you.
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11/19/2012 11:59 PM
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It's sometimes the man, and it's sometimes the woman. If a woman comes from a cycle of violence in her own past, she needs drama the way some folks need drugs. If the guy doesn't respond, she will insult his manhood and possibly even attack him physically. When he responds(physically), she will call him an abuser and HE will get arrested. It's a very dangerous game for both the man and the woman. The only safe thing for either party is to leave the area, get backup, document what happened and sort things out in a safe way. Breaking the marriaqe is NOT a good idea in many cases - you just get an angry guy without a girl to keep him happy, and a former wife that is dependent on welfare. It's sad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28089709


You're fucking stupid, and that's the stupidest ass advice ever! Of course they should leave each other. Your example is the text book definition of a toxic relationship, and when you're in one of those, you need to break up the marriage. That's what divorce is for, and it is a DAMN good idea for a lot of people. Please, fuck off with your stupid shit!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1484087


so pretending to be two different people, and calling yourself stupid works for you when you have no friend's gf to stalk and pick fights with so she ca call you stupid?

all your freinds able to get gfs in the first place, stopped socilizing with you, coz they were tired of you gorilla shat?

aha, now i understand you better.

it's not easy beaing u dude, not easy, and not pretty either....

hang in there....

for what it's worth u can't really be that smart could you....so don't worry, sooner rather then later, someone will point it out to you!
 Quoting: eve 27803051


OK retard. That was a rambling mess and made no sense. Fuck off!
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11/20/2012 12:01 AM
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before I read your first post let me say this... "troll much?"
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11/20/2012 12:04 AM
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I can't leave, he threatens me
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There are battered women's shelters you can go to.
"Arrows of hate have been shot at me too, but they never hit me, because somehow they belonged to another world, with which I have no connection whatsoever." - Albert Einstein
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11/20/2012 12:20 AM
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This is GLP we need proof!!! set up a hidden camera and nag him like you usally do. get the video we need.
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11/20/2012 12:22 AM
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There is such a thing as inescapable, is that your situation? Escape.
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11/20/2012 12:41 AM
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Wait til the fucker comes in good and drunk and then stick an enema hose up his ass and pour in a half pint of smirnoff.
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Wait til the fucker comes in good and drunk and then stick an enema hose up his ass and pour in a half pint of smirnoff.





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