oh, and when I liked someone, I just told them up front. I never played games. I made myself available and kept the window open for them to respond, if they felt the same way. If they were not interested, I simply moved on and didn't fret over it. of the very few times I've been in love with the 'love at first sight' types, I always found myself in a good relationship with each person. Different chapters of my life filled with love and learning from each of them.