TIPS ON DATING

Most men bitch about women in general, but deep down inside they want what very few men have managed to achieve; The balance of slut in the bedroom, cook in the kitchen and lady in the living room among guests.

And when a man finds a woman he can trust, love and cherish, he treats her like a princess. Trust me, I know, I have that kind of man.



Bottom line is, never settle for second best in life. Hold out for the best. You are only worth it if you believe you are worth it. Confidence is key in attracting a mate. If you are someone who has gone through 100s of women, chances are, a woman worthy of what you are looking for will not want some used up guy who has a lot of miles on him.

Purity.

Some have it. Some don't.

Its all about chemistry and animal attraction.

damn and your taken

you sound like my first ex-husband

another one.

good post

look, you are probably a nice guy. change the way you think and you'd be surprised at what you will attract.

I was not always this way in my thinking. But after you realize that men and women are not 'equal' it makes sense. And I don't mean that in a demeaning way. Women are important. Men are important. But if both sexes know how to elevate each other, you get a special harmony. Its a frequency type of thing. There are times I must be strong for him, and then there are times I am weak and lean heavily on him. The same goes for him. When he stumbles, no matter what it is from, I help him up. I get him back on track. Together we are fine tuned and we are unbreakable. We have this bond, because we allowed ourselves to trust each other. We built our relationship on trust and mutual respect. I would take a bullet for my man... two on Sunday.

You just need to be out there and chat to women , we like a chatty guy who we see on a passing through basis , then gradually get to know him , it kind of makes us yearn to see him....then , we are hoping he will ask us to maybe go for a drink......
Women dont like pushy men so take it nice and gently , not everyt woman wants you but there are plenty out there who would like you....good luck OP x

OP, always remember, look at a woman as a human being. Not as some object that you might fuck. Everyone on this planet has feelings and emotions. When we are not 'loved' we can develop walls and defense mechanisms that may put us in a way of being perceived that is not truly our demeanor, because everyone is afraid to get hurt.

Most people will never find that 'true love' because they are afraid of rejection. Rejection has kept many people in a holding pattern that has put their love life on hold.

Had I never made the bold moves I did with my husband in the beginning -- and allowed him to be bold as well (i.e no games, just straight up "i like you - lets hang out more"), I would have lost out on a lifetime of love and happiness. We tend to be less afraid when we are younger. As we age and has we experience disappointment, we become more guarded and jaded and start to acquire unhealthy opinions of the opposite sex. Approach every woman like you are 13 and just want to be friends, for nothing more than the way her hair catches the light or the way she swings a baseball bat and misses the ball. Pursue what you love like a child. Children are fearless and they love truly.

you pay attention, too. I think you just need a hug.

Thats the spirit lad. Be careful not to turn into a misanthrope.

Ask a question in the grocery store. A guy did this to me and I was like a deer caught in headlights because I no longer date and had no idea what to say, so I just answered him, but if a girl is looking for a date, she would flirt.

- good looks (will be different for everyone)
- be good in bed
- no pron addictions... they are relationship killers over time

If you're giving OP these hints to date.. Something is really wrong with you.

What has become of people just accepting eachothers flaws? You must be one of these feminazis who would shout like hell if their husband or boyfriend would watch porn. My exgf and me we watched Porn together, she was really good looking. What the fuck is wrong with it? Nothing. You're just disillusioned. And LOOKS don't matter, if you're a good talker, well educated and hygienic.

The time this happened to me, I was simply not in the mood to flirt. I found the guy creepy because the first thing he said to me was how beautiful my eyes were. I didn't feel like he was sincere, mostly just being overly friendly in the wrong environment. When a woman is grocery shopping she is usually not looking for male attention. There is a time and place for most things. And lets face it, some men are just creepy.

good girl !


thanks again for tips.

the relationship with my boys mother was 11 years long, but was definatly not built on trust, unfortunate, but reality.

i will make sure that mistake does not happen again.

thanks.

I saw you in the other thread, great advice you gave me. It's difficult not to turn into a misanthrope considering the fact that more and more women have become crazy. But I'm not letting myself allowing to hate other people because I know who I am and where I stand.

thank you !

for another great tip.

awesomely stated.

thank you !
for another great post

Damn! So much for my chances.

everyone is entitled to their opinion. I once knew some one who was involved with someone who was addicted to pron. it messed them up really bad cost them their marriage. also they had children who were affected by it.

not going to debate the pron thing, what people do in the bedroom is none of my business, but it is not for me. I prefer to have my mind pure of those images and to pleasure my husband in any way he wants without the use of such images that would in any way prevent me from loving him purely and only thinking of him during sex.

again, this is what works for me (us). what other people do is their business, but most people in this world do not seem happy, so go figure.

As for looks, i said they matter for most people and will differ for everyone. what i find attractive, someone else may find ugly. and YES, hygiene matters, it matters a lot. A man you does not take good care of his own body and inner self (mind/body/spirit) can not possibly take care of a woman.

If they don't have good teeth, chances are they don't brush or they drink and smoke too much. that is just not something I personally find attractive, but hey, to each their own... someone else may find brownish yellow teeth really sexy.

I like the sparkly whites myself.... shows they take care of themselves, too.

how do you keep your teeth pearly white, with cum or something else.?

because i could use some of that something else, i smoke pot and have some stains on lower teeth.

as you can see in the pic of me

i was given horse teeth by my creator. lol


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Just curious what you think the woman 'has' to bring to the table, lol!! If those are ONLY the 'basic criteria' (requirements), lol, WHAT are the percs? If that's the basic, what comes next???

I take it that you have found 'him'?


Perhaps a lot of things on the internet would be self-answered if EVERYONE had to put up a real pic, with real age, and so on?? I'm constantly wondering if everyone on here is either 13 or 62, haha!!!


OP could be in for quite the eye opening experience?


Depressing Thread...

Three F Rules

Find em
Fuck em
Forget em

^^lol... I'll never tell, but yes, I have some pearly, pearly whites... ;)^^

brush regularly and see a dentist when needed. as for smoking, not sure what will help on the stains, but keep in mind, many smokers get loose teeth later on in life and many times they cannot be saved and fall out. I have a close friend who is a dentist and treats a lot of people age 65+ who smoked all through life (cigs and pot). So just plan on saving some money in case you need to have new teeth later on. dental implants can be very expensive. Generally, women prefer a man with teeth. just sayin ;)

also, make sure you don't drink cola, that will stain teeth, especially lower teeth.

rinsing with peroxide might help.

good luck, OP!

hope you don´t try to talk to or date a woman who is like me.
because I don´t notice when someone tries to make contact with me.
I realize it some days later.
stupid me.

some days ago in the home depot the guy i talked to about some cutouts in the woodplate i wanted - "hey, do i know you from somewhere?" - eh no - ... some minutes later "but i remember your name from somewhere!" - eh no - .."hey, you know what, i give you one of the cutouts for free" - well, thank you.

yesterday, out with a friend at the bar. guy asks for lighter. give him mine. realize 1min later, his friend standing next to him (and just about 5feet away from us) has a lighter himself.

I can go on and on. so please, don´t give up if the ladies don´t react as you expect or don´t react at all - maybe they are just as ignorant as i am those days.

Last Edited by Doomina on 11/11/2012 02:48 PM

your teeth are just fine. if you feel the least bit insecure about them, see a dentist. They can do all sort of 'cosmetic bonding' or dental veneers to fix stains or color. A great smile shows the world how you feel inside.

mm... you suffer from 'Looks Like a Serial Rapist'...

Put that pic up of Plen-o-Fsh and see what happens. I was on POF, looking, and saw a cute girl, pulled up her profile, and, there at the bottom, we pics of her 'friends'. Wow, what a gallery of obviously looking pervs. Seriously.

If you are a really nice guy, you are going to have to realize that 'media matters', and you should really that it's not what YOU LOOK LIKE, but, what THEY'RE SEEING. Perhaps get a sympathetic woman to coach a really flattering pic (hey, I'm not raggin on ya.... do YOU see it, or not???)

With that pic, they will see 'pron addict', or worse. You're an 'average' looking guy, which, in this world, only makes you invisible.


sorry if i'm being a idiot

the pick i posted is 100% real

hey OP the best advice i can give after reading a few posts is
A) keep the liquor flowing
B) let the woman do as much of the talking as possible
C) normally i advise people to be themselves but you might wanna brush up on your vernacular a bit