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Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?

 
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Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
Women ALWAYS act like they're social beings and they delude themselves into believing they are more social than they currently are.

Lets face the facts here. Women are ALONE on this planet. Every single one of them is basically a loner.

A womans social circle of influence is always manipulative.

Her social refrence group always determines most of her decisions, when it comes to dating, sex, relationships etc.

A woman only basically has a manipulative social circle of influence.

I have dated and worked with so many women over the years, and one quality that I notice, even when they are married, they are still ALONE.

Every woman has a dark closet in her life, which she doesn't allow ANYONE access to.

You never really KNOW a woman because their is a secret closet in her life who she won't allow anyone access to.

Period.

And when it comes to marriage, kids and babies, a woman HATES it when her female manipulators influence her decisions on how to raise her children.

I'm sure as a man, everyone woman who you start courting and attracting feeds you the same bullshit line.

When a woman is attracted to a man, she will start asking questions about you.

And then? When she gets information, she always feeds the same old bullshit line...

"Oh, your a CIT Student? I have a FRIEND who is into programming..."

"Oh, you're into martial arts! I have a FRIEND who does that!"

"Oh you just came back from Hong Kong? I have a FRIEND who went there!"

These are just bullshit lines a woman tells you. A woman has no friends. Her FRIENDS are basically her enemies and a woman is alone on this planet.

Men have social allies, because we generally don't have jealousy complex.

A woman's friends are her enemies, to a certain extent, this is true for men.

So when a woman tells you she has plenty of friends... Just remember that she's projecting her own insecurities out on you.

It amazes me how women delude themselves into believing they are more social than men.

Maybe i'm just rambling, but maybe i'm onto something.

Lets discuss!

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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


Might have to agree with Trinity on this one...my grandmother always told me "you're lucky if you find one true friend".
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True. Dudes have friends for years on ends. You'll never notice women who have friends for years. Too much hormones or some shit.
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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


yeah man, I have to agree with this.

I never really believed in the concept of friendships.

a lot of my closest friends over the years have turned into my worst enemies, and I have some mentee's who are experiencing the same thing.

but trinity, what about the mentor/mentee relationship?

I think that's a genuine relationship, as I have learned a great deal from the 5-8 mentors i've had over the years...

I considered them genuine relationships... not friendships, but genuine relationships.

so while there may not be genuine beings left in the world, there maybe genuine relationships...

but your right, even those relationships, we're still using each other...

however, i have found those relationships to provide me with the shortcut/wisdom/experiences i need to grow and learn faster.

good post homey, i appreciate you stopping by.

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hahaha, not managed to make friends with a woman yet eh?
Prob cause of the intelligence, wit and interesting personallity which shines through every word of your post :D
I have friends that I've had since i was a small child (male and female) and we are still as close now as then :D
Your post is funny though so thanks for the laugh
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Before you get married, you usually have some close friends.

Afterwards, the spouse becomes the best friend. Not always, but most of the time.

Kids come along and you sometimes make friends with the parents of your kid's friends or teammates.

I think it has to do with what you have in common. When your married and your friend's are still single, you have less in common. And when you have children and someone else doesn't, same thing.

If you manage to have and keep a real close friend ship with one person throughout all of life's changes: marriage, kids, etc... then you are a very fortunate person. Most of the time life gets in the way. You move away, etc...
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Also, you attract people who are like yourself, ever thought of that?
Maybe you are the one you're actually posting about here?
No, you're right it's not you, it is all the women in the world that dont make friends ever :D lol
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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


You can't get a friend, and you can't make a friend.

You can only be a friend.

If you are fortunate, you meet someone who reciprocates.

As you've pointed out, such reciprocation is rare.

Nevertheless, rare or not, the process is the same.

It seems like a risk, but it's not, because the alternative is living lies that corrode your soul, in order to "be" somebody.

There are a great many wealthy, socially connected dead people who are convinced they are truly - truly - superior for this "accomplishment."

It's a sight that has made Earth famous throughout the Galaxy.
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It's a well known fact that many women keep their real personalities hidden away from their boyfriends until they get get married and then let it all out like an odious fart once the man is tied to her financially. Which says a lot about women.

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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


Absolutely.
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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
Before you get married, you usually have some close friends.

Afterwards, the spouse becomes the best friend. Not always, but most of the time.

Kids come along and you sometimes make friends with the parents of your kid's friends or teammates.

I think it has to do with what you have in common. When your married and your friend's are still single, you have less in common. And when you have children and someone else doesn't, same thing.

If you manage to have and keep a real close friend ship with one person throughout all of life's changes: marriage, kids, etc... then you are a very fortunate person. Most of the time life gets in the way. You move away, etc...
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OMG, do people live like this?
I guess im insane or something but that seems really weird to me? so if you're married you can't be friends with single people?
and if you have a husband you ditch your friends?
and if you have kids you only make friends with the kids friends parents?

really i dont think we live in the same world, people have some severly weirded out soapopera views on things, even here, you sound like the script of days of our lives!
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Also, you attract people who are like yourself, ever thought of that?
Maybe you are the one you're actually posting about here?
No, you're right it's not you, it is all the women in the world that dont make friends ever :D lol
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You also attract your opposites too homey.
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Before you get married, you usually have some close friends.

Afterwards, the spouse becomes the best friend. Not always, but most of the time.

Kids come along and you sometimes make friends with the parents of your kid's friends or teammates.

I think it has to do with what you have in common. When your married and your friend's are still single, you have less in common. And when you have children and someone else doesn't, same thing.

If you manage to have and keep a real close friend ship with one person throughout all of life's changes: marriage, kids, etc... then you are a very fortunate person. Most of the time life gets in the way. You move away, etc...
 Quoting: Earth Daughter


OMG, do people live like this?
I guess im insane or something but that seems really weird to me? so if you're married you can't be friends with single people?
and if you have a husband you ditch your friends?
and if you have kids you only make friends with the kids friends parents?

really i dont think we live in the same world, people have some severly weirded out soapopera views on things, even here, you sound like the script of days of our lives!
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It's not a matter of ditching someone. It's a matter of sharing interests.
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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


Well said ^
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It's a well known fact that many women keep their real personalities hidden away from their boyfriends until they get get married and then let it all out like an odious fart once the man is tied to her financially. Which says a lot about women.


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yup... I think this is what we call the debate between who you're going to show the world...

the next time you meet someone, if you're going to show your true self, or your social mask.

ie: if you're going to show your true self or your persona... which basically means 'assumed character'

it takes invested time and effort to get to know somebody. and when you meet a woman she usually puts on a show of display thats not genuine, until she has sunk her claws into you... and then her true self starts coming out.

not ALL women mind you, but most women, usually put on a front of showmanship when interacting with a man at the begining... then the real self starts coming out a bit later into the relationship.

I do believe the truth eventually comes out.

in that regard, you never really do know people. and you never really do know what people are talking about unless they're genuine and centered.
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Before you get married, you usually have some close friends.

Afterwards, the spouse becomes the best friend. Not always, but most of the time.

Kids come along and you sometimes make friends with the parents of your kid's friends or teammates.

I think it has to do with what you have in common. When your married and your friend's are still single, you have less in common. And when you have children and someone else doesn't, same thing.

If you manage to have and keep a real close friend ship with one person throughout all of life's changes: marriage, kids, etc... then you are a very fortunate person. Most of the time life gets in the way. You move away, etc...
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So very true. I haven't retained one single friend since having gotten married and having a baby. It's a shame.
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Before you get married, you usually have some close friends.

Afterwards, the spouse becomes the best friend. Not always, but most of the time.

Kids come along and you sometimes make friends with the parents of your kid's friends or teammates.

I think it has to do with what you have in common. When your married and your friend's are still single, you have less in common. And when you have children and someone else doesn't, same thing.

If you manage to have and keep a real close friend ship with one person throughout all of life's changes: marriage, kids, etc... then you are a very fortunate person. Most of the time life gets in the way. You move away, etc...
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So very true. I haven't retained one single friend since having gotten married and having a baby. It's a shame.
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I have had only a handful of genuine friendships in my lifetime.
Just for periods of time, tho'. Usually during a period of hardship or job that was really rough.
I have met & had friendships just a few sterling, outstanding females.

OP, I think you are basically correct.

I'm not a drinker so that eliminates about 90% of any social life with "friends". I always stayed clear of drinkers or pill poppers. Stayed away from chronic dieters too. Their main topics of conversation is food or clothes.

And women backbiting and backstabby? I've known some savages.

Now? I am alone.
And you know what? Thats just fine with me. I try to be friendly but most old women .. well...
ah well, I'd just rather by by myself.

Edited to add that my husband was the best friend I ever had.

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This thread delivers the drama lol

How the fuck do you people get up in the morning lol?
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maybe true.

Ive had the same friends for well over 35 years. and we still talk/hang out on a regular basis.

my wife has friends for a few weeks or months, then they never come around again.
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Marriages end because people grow apart. Why should it be any different with other friends? Unless a person is following exactly the same path as you in their life, or you are both absulutely free of the tendancy to judge, that friendship will eventually end entirely, or be reduced.
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Marriages end because people grow apart. Why should it be any different with other friends? Unless a person is following exactly the same path as you in their life, or you are both absulutely free of the tendancy to judge, that friendship will eventually end entirely, or be reduced.
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I would also add that people are most capable of finding that ongoing friendship if they are at absolute peace with their own company. Truly, the success in any relationship depends on how comfortable you are with yourself.
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drop the 'r' in the word 'friend. What do you get?
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Re: Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?
no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


yeah man, I have to agree with this.

I never really believed in the concept of friendships.

a lot of my closest friends over the years have turned into my worst enemies, and I have some mentee's who are experiencing the same thing.

but trinity, what about the mentor/mentee relationship?

I think that's a genuine relationship, as I have learned a great deal from the 5-8 mentors i've had over the years...

I considered them genuine relationships... not friendships, but genuine relationships.

so while there may not be genuine beings left in the world, there maybe genuine relationships...

but your right, even those relationships, we're still using each other...

however, i have found those relationships to provide me with the shortcut/wisdom/experiences i need to grow and learn faster.

good post homey, i appreciate you stopping by.

:)
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mentor / mentee relationship is destined to end badly when the mentee no longer needs the mentor

this the mentor knows going in

he makes the ultimate sacrifice of himself for his student...

he goes in knowing they will betray him in the end...

he does this out a sense of duty to the discipline
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I have a handfull of genuine friends that I've known since preschool. They are real.

Women on the other hand are too petty and conniving to be friends with another woman. Except in extremely rare circumstances. But even then it is gained with the hormones that make them crazy.

What's even more funny is when a woman realizes this and tries to be friends with a man. When the man only wants to fuck her. Unless he's a queer or something. But I see it all the time. Even my wife wants to hang out with me and my buddies. It's cool once in awhile but sorry ladies you upset the dynamic so you're not always invited. Besides you can't ride a snowmobile at 100 mph. Nobody wants to wait up for you.

I feel bad for ladies. The only time in life they are genuinely complete is when they are raising babies.
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Maybe I am fortunate. I have a couple of true friends
one since I was 12 I would trust her with my life. We have gotten past all the using and im right no im right haggles of a friendship . 38 years is a long time. I feel blessed.
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My g/f is 22 and has a group of friends who have been together since they were 13. Theres about 10 of them and they are always there for eachother and its all really genuine, just saying.
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In my experience a lot of female friendships are centered around gossip.

I couldn't say what guy friendships are about, maybe sports and drinking.

The best friendships I've had were with males.
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no such thing as friends

only people using each other to different degrees

when the using is balanced both parties benefit so they pretend to care about each other

but they really don't

not beyond the benefits of the 'friendship'

I don't think there are any genuine beings left in the world..

once the innocence of the child is gone it's kill or be killed, use or be used... this is the reality of life

there is nothing genuine about a relationship in a humans life past childhood...

sorry you might not want to admit that to yourself

but this is the truth of life as a human
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^


well said.
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My g/f is 22 and has a group of friends who have been together since they were 13. Theres about 10 of them and they are always there for eachother and its all really genuine, just saying.
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Your girlfriend is still a child. Of course she still has these friends. At this stage in life they are all following about the same path. Ask her where these "friends" are when she is 40.
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mentor / mentee relationship is destined to end badly when the mentee no longer needs the mentor

this the mentor knows going in

he makes the ultimate sacrifice of himself for his student...

he goes in knowing they will betray him in the end...

he does this out a sense of duty to the discipline
 Quoting: ^TrInItY^



Yeah but trin, the fact that the mentor sacrifices a part of himself basically time, guidance, experience, wisdom, so the mentee can achieve his objectives faster brings pleasure.

"If the youth of this world aren't guided with wisdom, the sins of the father will return to haunt the children."

I know you don't like islam, but the koran might be right when it says that.

The fact that the mentor doesn't want his mentee to make the same mistakes he made may bring him pleasure knowing that history won't repeat itself.

Perpetuating the cycle of ignorance on this planet can be put to an end if we sch00l the y0uth of this nation with wisdom and guidance... and if the mentee no longer needs the mentor, I think this is a good thing.

/Discuss.

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