Women don't have ANY friends. True or false?

On the surface it sure seems like the OP is wrong. I see people around me, particularly at work, who appear to be good friends. In fact it seems like the entire department is one big happy family sometimes who all go out together on the weekends. That's just my perception of things, I could be wrong.

I guess my personality isn't conducive towards friends. I'm not the type to want to sit and talk about nothing for hours, nor do I have an interest in dating/conquest stories, drinking, and casual sex. Ultimately you have to be interested in people or at least fake interest, and to me faking interest is not genuine. But I guess people must do that in real life.

People are going to drift apart when they start to have a family. I don't see the issue here. There's no law that says a person has to have a large circle of lifelong friends. People go their separate ways.

Actually they are all doing totally different things and all have smaller groups of friends in what they are doing. I've never seen such a big group of girls get on so well, maybe it won't last but it works now. No doubt things will happen but they care about eachother so long may it last.

Sorry to say that your "friendship" with a male wasn't a bonified "friendship". Maybe it seemed that way from your perspective but unless the guy was gay then he wasn't your friend. He was just waiting for an opportunity to bang that pussy out. And if there was any underlying intention to have sex with you then there simply was no friendship. Friends don't want to secretly bang each other. That's called something else.

You said it "i have found those relationships to PROVIDE ME with..." You said it! You are using them.

This is also true of men. Everyone is more polite until you have to live with them 24/7, then their true self shows through. Some of it stinks, but if you pay attention the sweet part of them shines through, too.

You are so derlusional, darlin'.

LOL.....delusional.

shhh
this thread is not looking for wisdom
few here are
jump into the finger pointing circle jerk or find a new thread!
you're at glp
we don't discuss underlying problems and work together to find solutions for a better world
we prefer to look at the symptoms and treat those while ignore the causes
it's how our society has been programmed
so that we always have the problem/reaction/solution going on
don't worry, i'm sure there's a med for your condition
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especially not male friends

Its always been said 'men have their friends, women have their family'. As a female I find it true. Although I don't hang out with women. Just one. But shes like me. Neither of us particularly get involved in the social habits you listed. I do see it a lot though.

Now, what about the male sex? There's a lot to be said of there social habits too. Lies to get women, lies to friends for egotistical reasons. False pride over mundane things. Lol.... the human race... smh.

false.

however most women are taught by their mother to judge and compare to other women. the point of reference always being from the "self" it becomes harder to relate to the whole of. expanded consciousness, compassion and pure unconditional love surpass and override this type of programming. thus many woman can find a true friend or two for a lifetime.
key #1- loving and accepting the "self" wholly, thus the ability to love and accept others.
key #2- lifting oneself out of the point of reference of the self and relating to life from the point of planetary/universal.

Are you talking to me? I'm not delusional or derlusional. I am speaking from experience. Once people get mad at each other in a relationship (which often happens after the polite stage wears thin) people start pointing fingers at each other and seem incapable of seeing how they themselves contributed to the problems. It's a defense method. But if you keep actively loving them and fighting for your relationship they will come around. You'll see the sweet person they've been hiding and they will see the true person you are.

It's the innocent little kid in us that has been hurt over the years that we hide. The world sees a mainly polite person, but when someone gets close the polite wears thin and the anger and resentment that is the fortress to protect the inner child comes out in battle mode. Only the truly tenacious lover will get to the child. Once revealed you will remember instantly what attracted you to each other in the first place.

Not every person sets this fortress around themselves because life has not hurt everyone to the same degree. But a lot more people do than you would imagine. You may have your own crusty shell, too.